Alter_Fridge
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What are the parameters? Every long term relationship I’ve had has begun with lust and has always ended in tears
what even is love ?
what even is love ?
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I don’t think I know the difference between love and lust
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GobbledeeGoo
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ScarletSpider
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TheContact
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Lust is solely about ones selfish sexual desire towards someone else and Love is about truly caring about someone else's feelings, intimacy, doing the right thing, staying honest and loyal etc...
at least that's how I perceive it
at least that's how I perceive it
Alter_Fridge
Member
i was in a relationship with a girl who I was really attracted to and she expanded my mind... but it didn’t work out coz she was too messed up
spandexmonkey
Banned
Lust means you just want to stick it in.
Love means you choose to put up with their stupid shit.
Love means you choose to put up with their stupid shit.
King of Foxes
Banned
I know how you feel, i do love my wife and would die for her but the feeling inside my chest when my kids want to give me a kiss or cuddle unannounced is like nothing i have ever felt before.
I know its a cliche but my chest actually does feel like its swelling and about to burst when my kids are involved
I know its a cliche but my chest actually does feel like its swelling and about to burst when my kids are involved
ScarletSpider
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Alter_Fridge
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I dunno.. you need an exact balance of love and lust otherwiseit doesn’t work.That’s fucking hard man
#Phonepunk#
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i posted this earlier in the Christian thread, figured it was related to this as well. Greek Christians thought there were 4 kinds of love:
Eros (/ˈɪərɒs/ or /ˈɛrɒs/; Ancient Greek: ἔρως érōs "love" or "desire") is one of the four ancient Greco-Christian terms which can be rendered into English as "love". The other three are storge, philia, and agape. Eros refers to "passionate love" or romantic love; storge to familial love; philia to friendship as a kind of love; and agape refers to "selfless love", or "charity" as it is translated in the Christian scriptures (from the Latin caritas, dearness).
The term erotic is derived from eros. Eros has also been used in philosophy and psychology in a much wider sense, almost as an equivalent to "life energy".
Eros (concept) - Wikipedia
en.wikipedia.org
triplestation
Member
love is what yo gurl thinks is happening when youre fucking the shit out of her
Alter_Fridge
Member
And once you’ve jizzed? What’s left
JareBear: Remastered
Banned
Love, you wanna snuggle all night and make her/him breakfast in the morning
Lust, you just wanna bang
Right?
Lust, you just wanna bang
Right?
Alter_Fridge
Member
love seems to be the residue of lust
Alter_Fridge
Member
Love can’t exist without lust
but lust can exist without love
but lust can exist without love
DESTROYA
Member
Sure it can, you can love your parents and family and still not lust after them.......that would be extremely fucked up if you do.
SlimySnake
Flashless at the Golden Globes
Love doesnt exist. Its a thing made up by marketing people like don draper to get women to buy shit.
Grinchy
Banned
Love and Lust are the things you feel for her while she is using you and weighing her options.
And if she ends up deciding that you're good enough for the long haul, you get to act on that lust like once a month! Just make sure you beg hard enough, do all your chores, disconnect from your friends (they make her uncomfortable because she can sense that you are more happy around them), ect.
And if she ends up deciding that you're good enough for the long haul, you get to act on that lust like once a month! Just make sure you beg hard enough, do all your chores, disconnect from your friends (they make her uncomfortable because she can sense that you are more happy around them), ect.
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SlimySnake
Flashless at the Golden Globes
this guy knows whats up.
Nester99
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lukilladog
Member
Love (meaning different manifestations often identified or called as love) and lust are both survival phenomena tools, although lust is more related to mating. But I agree that love as a broad, general, unified concept, is a construct.
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Noboru Wataya
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look at your mother and if you can’t tel the difference.. then there is none. Go get some.
DunDunDunpachi
Banned
Love is about what you'll do for them.
Lust is about what you'll do to them.
Lust is about what you'll do to them.
Alter_Fridge
Member
i meant sexual love
Alter_Fridge
Member
yeah I didn’t mean familial love
Nester99
Member
sexual love is not a thing. We call that lust. Grats, now you know the difference
Goro Majima
Kitty Genovese Member
I’ve been through several LTRs, got married, divorced, another LTR, and then married again.
For me it took a combination of age, maturity, and the right woman to truly understand actual selfless love.
Prior to that, my understanding was a combination of chasing storybook emotional love, lust, and a sense of duty and obligation. All of those can be good things in measured amounts but they don’t really equate to love.
For me it took a combination of age, maturity, and the right woman to truly understand actual selfless love.
Prior to that, my understanding was a combination of chasing storybook emotional love, lust, and a sense of duty and obligation. All of those can be good things in measured amounts but they don’t really equate to love.
DESTROYA
Member
How old are you man? You seem very inexperienced in this department and if you can’t separate the two that’s a you issue not a Love/Lust issue.
O-N-E
Member
Lust is the biological need to procreate, creating a haze in the mind, filling it to the brim.
Love is a pattern of behaviour. Joking together, shopping together, making babies, taking care of each other, mourning a loss. These are all different emotions, but the pattern is love.
Love is a pattern of behaviour. Joking together, shopping together, making babies, taking care of each other, mourning a loss. These are all different emotions, but the pattern is love.
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thefool
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I think you probably love your parents, love your kids, maybe even love some of your friends when you're young. I also 100% loved my ex, but she didn't really loved me, but I can't really blame her, it's not like I ever loved any other so but her.
Can lust ever become love? I kinda hope so, but i'm getting kinda hopeless tbh.
Can lust ever become love? I kinda hope so, but i'm getting kinda hopeless tbh.
DragoonKain
Neighbours from Hell
Love is when you always want to be around them
Lust is when after fucking you can’t wait to get up outta there
Lust is when after fucking you can’t wait to get up outta there
and 3 others
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So weird in my youth, I could leave a girls place, completely drained of essence and sexual desire, only to see a hot girl and immediately go back into hunt mode.
Windle Poons
Made a crappy phPBB forum once ... once.
Love - you'll marry it
Lust - you'll fuck the shit out of it. But won't marry it.
Lust - you'll fuck the shit out of it. But won't marry it.
killatopak
Member
Lust - I just want here for the physical stuff
Love - I don’t even think about sex. I just want to be with that someone.
To put it simple, in the absence of sex, would you still prefer to be with that person?
Love - I don’t even think about sex. I just want to be with that someone.
To put it simple, in the absence of sex, would you still prefer to be with that person?
lock2k
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You can say that about everyone ITT