The streets in my nearest city are pretty much homeless free. But there are Big Issue vendors all over the place, "help the homeless, buy the big issue" - and some of these fuckers have seriously eroded my genorosity. From big issue vendors and other homeless people:
I've said I haven't got any change, carried on walking and gotten verbal abuse.
People have asked for a specific amount of money ie. £1, and when I pull change out of my pocket they see I have more and ask for it. One of them even had the fucking sack to just take a handful out of my hands.
Some of them literally don't sell a Big Issue magazine all day. They say they're on their last issue and ask could they keep hold of it. Which I've known on more than one occasion to be bullshit.
I've seen several homeless people / vendors band together to deliver abuse when they don't get money or are ignored.
I've given some of these people money, and then seen them 5 minutes later with a single can of beer and a bag full of rubbish.
The sad truth as I understand it, is that some of these people don't want help. They're out on their ass for a reason, and it's because they're either completely mental, they're on drugs, down and out alcoholics, or thugs on the con.
Not all of them are of course. There's one man in Liverpool who walks around with a bike, mounted with bags full of rubbish, shouting at people in Polish. And if the stories are true, this was a perfectly able home owner gone mad with the loss of his wife. Could very well be a romantic urban legend of sorts, but still it illustrates what I mean.
There are scum on the streets. They really need taking off. Forcing off if necessary. There are shelters set up, there are people they can goto for help. Do any of the homeless people you see ever seem to be perservering to improve their life? The ones I see are just looking for the next trip to McDonalds or the next beer. It's fucking sad, yes, but you and I are not at fault. I am willing to bet everyone on this board will show acts of compassion many times throughout their lives, and I'm betting a lot of it will be well placed. With incidents like the ones I and others have described above, is it AT ALL surprising people are unwilling to show trust and give compassion to these people? Not everybody has the time nor obligation to work in a shelter. The only thing that sickens me in this thread is the holier than thou shit. People are only acting and talking from experience.
I was coming out of work on Monday, and some guy walks up to me and says he's ran out of petrol and has no money. I don't know if this guy was homeless or what, but his demeanour suggested he might be... so I took a minute to stop and listen to him, and held myself back from asking why his car doesn't have a fucking petrol meter. He was either homeless or very hard done by. He had scars all over his face, missing teeth -- man, the guy was rough. And I wouldn't have begrudged giving someone so fucked up some money... but his attitude... For a start, I've heard this "my car broke down" shit off about 5 different people on different occasions, one in another part of the country. It wasn't the truth. Not only this but his whole angle was intimidation. Swaggered right up to me and asked "are you a scouser mate?", which in case you're wondering was basically asking "are you from Liverpool?" - "you aint from round these parts are ya"... he was sizing me up. I said I was and purely to get him off my case, I told him I'd give him what change I had but I had to keep some for the train home. Bloody reasonable if you ask me. I had, after all, stopped to listen to his bullshit and already given him £2.50... and you should have heard this fucker moan and get aggressive with me. I'm glad he picked me and not some old/young person, or a woman on her own. £2.50 clearly wasn't enough for whatever crap at the news-agents he wanted.
Distrust of other human beings I don't know +1,000,000