In my mid 20's I started to say "no" to some things once in a while.
-Going to bars & movies with friends.
-Birthdays & weddings I did not care about, useless outings with my girlfriend's family etc...
And to this day it's one of the best decisions I ever made.
Don't make up excuses. I just said " nah don't feel like it" and yes I lost a childhood friend at 35 years old because I would not attend his midlife crisis birthday party.
He sent me a long ass resentful Email and I simply deleted it. Fuck him.
If you do this you will notice it will trim the fat off your life
Also the sooner you realise you are not "special" the better you can feel in your skin and about your life.
Not everyone can be a spy-rodeo clown-astronaut
