Black Deatha
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I was thinking about this for a while, and I figured I would ask the good people of this fourm for there opinions on this.
Ok, first off I live in Canada, BC more specificly, and I work at what is quite literaly the shittiest buisness IN Canada. Any Canadians on this board I am sure will attest to this. I work at The Real Canadian Superstore. And not only do I work for a company I despise. I have the biggest 3 cock suskers of managers possable. And as if this wernt bad enough, I hold the shittiest possition in this fucking store. I hate to admit this on the board, but I am the janitor there. Even though I applied for the electronics department, and even though my resume completaly pointed out that I would be best fit for this department, I got the shittiest job in the store instead. I was hired in Jan of '03. And the only reason I am still there now is the same reason I took the job than. I just can't find anything else. And that isnt through lack of trying either.
Now anyway this is getting a little off topic here, but anyway the point is, around 4 or so months ago (maybe less), a girl started at the store, And this girl is just unbeliveably hot. I first met her while we were both in the lunchroom on break. I talked to her, and found she was really nice. She just has a really likeable personality. After first meeting her there, I wanted to ask her out. However over time, (and I cant remember exactly how) I found out she had a boyfreind, And in talking to her on different times she confirmed it. I realized I was a fool to think a girl like that wouldent. SO I just gave up on that hope. But we still talked a lot whenever we saw each other.
Now jump to this just past Wednesday, and I am on by break again, and after being in the room for a couple minnuts she comes in on her break. I say hi to her, and she sits down at the same table as me. And I sit there trying to think of something to say to start a conversation with her. I fianaly think of something, and ask her if she's seen Spider-Man 2 yet, she tells me she hadent, and I kinda bug/joke with her saying why not, and she tells me she doesnt have many freinds that go to movies. Than I say "Oh, well, dont you and your boyfreind go to movies?" And than she tells me "Oh we broke up". At this point I continued to play it cool, not acting any different. But I mean, I was actualy quite happy. I than say to her "Oh, I'm sorry, what happend?" than she tells me it was "him" which I cant begin to immagine what's wrong with this guy, but whatever. Than we continue to talk for a bit and I head back to work after my break. The rest of the shift I was contimplating asking her out right away. But in the end I didnt because I decided to wait a little while.
The reason I decided not to was because I had no idea how long they had been broken up for, and I didnt want to seem like an ass by asking her out right after she had told me they broke up. Than there's the fact that I am a pussy about such things
. However when she was talking bout being broken up she didnt seem even remotly upset about it, and seemed in her normal high spirits that I am used to seeing her in. So I don't know.
As I left work that night I saw her leaving and I asked her whe she worked next, she told me 8 to 5, I told her I worked 12 to 5 and that I would see her tommorow. And we said bye to eachother and that was that.
Than today, or I guess yesterday (Thursday) I wanted to talk to her more to get a better feel for how she was about the breakup. But as it was I didnt see her really at all untill around 3 something when we both were taking out breaks at the same time again (that happens a lot actualy, and I am not complaining) So we talked through the whole break again, but I couldent think of a good way to ask her about her break up and I didnt really want to bring it up. But I asked her what she was doing after work and such. And she told me she had to go to the police station after work casue some cop wants to get a report from her about a fire that the store had a month ago and she was the second person to see it. She was complaining she didnt rrally want to go. So I wished her luck in getting it delt with quick (she was worried it would take a long time).
I than again went back to work where I again though about asking her out today. I even saw her in the back for a moment and though to my self "here's my chance" I wanted to ask her, but I dunno, like I said I suck at this part. So we just said hi, and she laft, I than decided I was gonna do it right after work, when we were both leaving. SO I was trying to think of what to say. Than at 10 to 5 I get a call from my asshole manager, he wanted to see me in his office and to bring a union rep of my choice with me. So at this point I knew I was fucked and the day was determined to keep me that way. I go up and I am of corse suspended for 2 weeks (another story). So now my priorities have changed a little, i still really want to talk to this girl though, but I just knew this would screw me. My asshole manager tells me to go sign out and than come back upstairs to give him my sign in card. So as I head downstairs. i see the girl coming up. I say hi, and tell her I wont see her foa couple weeks and she asks why, I tell her I was jsut suspended, she seemed suprised and concerned for me about it. But anyway i rush to sign out and return the card in a vain attempt to catch her before her mom picks her up. But when I get back downstairs she was gone. FUCK.
So here we are now, I am not sure what it is about this girl but I really want to ask her out, I feel driven to. But there's a whole number of concerns I have. First there's the fact that I absoutaly suck at that aspect of talking to girls (though I used to suck at even that), and also something I dont like to admit is I havent ever actualy had a gf, I have had different girls I have liked, but never a gf. Than there's the fact that I am as mentioned erlier, the bloddy janitor, I wear green coveralls. (did I mention I despise my job?) And I dont know how she would feel about being asked out by the lowly janitor of the store. Although on that note, she doesnt seem like she's that shallow. But that leads me to my next problem. I to be honest have no idea if this girl is just naturly a nice person. Like I have seen her talk to other and she always seems nice, but I dont know how she would respond to being asked out, like I am sure she lieks me as a person/freind, but beyond that i have no idea how she'll react. THan there's the matter of me not ebing sure what to SAY... I was thinking on asking her is she wanted to go out for a coffie sometime. Is that any good? And lastly, I am still not sure if I SHOULD ask yet, beause I am not sure how long ago it was they brook up. The only clue I have to that was that she told me the last movie they saw at the theater together was Shrek 2. But, that doesnt say too much.
THe final thing I will say is she told me she probably works Friday at 5 till 10, so I am almost tempted to go in just to see her and ask her, but I am not sure I should, and if I were to, how to go about it. It would have been easier had I still had MY 5 to 10 shift tommorow.
Anyway I feel like a complete looser now. Any help/advice GAF?
Edit: Oh yeah, I ment to mention, before, I am 19, and I belive she's 17, she in grade 12 next year.
~Black Deatha
Ok, first off I live in Canada, BC more specificly, and I work at what is quite literaly the shittiest buisness IN Canada. Any Canadians on this board I am sure will attest to this. I work at The Real Canadian Superstore. And not only do I work for a company I despise. I have the biggest 3 cock suskers of managers possable. And as if this wernt bad enough, I hold the shittiest possition in this fucking store. I hate to admit this on the board, but I am the janitor there. Even though I applied for the electronics department, and even though my resume completaly pointed out that I would be best fit for this department, I got the shittiest job in the store instead. I was hired in Jan of '03. And the only reason I am still there now is the same reason I took the job than. I just can't find anything else. And that isnt through lack of trying either.
Now anyway this is getting a little off topic here, but anyway the point is, around 4 or so months ago (maybe less), a girl started at the store, And this girl is just unbeliveably hot. I first met her while we were both in the lunchroom on break. I talked to her, and found she was really nice. She just has a really likeable personality. After first meeting her there, I wanted to ask her out. However over time, (and I cant remember exactly how) I found out she had a boyfreind, And in talking to her on different times she confirmed it. I realized I was a fool to think a girl like that wouldent. SO I just gave up on that hope. But we still talked a lot whenever we saw each other.
Now jump to this just past Wednesday, and I am on by break again, and after being in the room for a couple minnuts she comes in on her break. I say hi to her, and she sits down at the same table as me. And I sit there trying to think of something to say to start a conversation with her. I fianaly think of something, and ask her if she's seen Spider-Man 2 yet, she tells me she hadent, and I kinda bug/joke with her saying why not, and she tells me she doesnt have many freinds that go to movies. Than I say "Oh, well, dont you and your boyfreind go to movies?" And than she tells me "Oh we broke up". At this point I continued to play it cool, not acting any different. But I mean, I was actualy quite happy. I than say to her "Oh, I'm sorry, what happend?" than she tells me it was "him" which I cant begin to immagine what's wrong with this guy, but whatever. Than we continue to talk for a bit and I head back to work after my break. The rest of the shift I was contimplating asking her out right away. But in the end I didnt because I decided to wait a little while.
The reason I decided not to was because I had no idea how long they had been broken up for, and I didnt want to seem like an ass by asking her out right after she had told me they broke up. Than there's the fact that I am a pussy about such things
. However when she was talking bout being broken up she didnt seem even remotly upset about it, and seemed in her normal high spirits that I am used to seeing her in. So I don't know.As I left work that night I saw her leaving and I asked her whe she worked next, she told me 8 to 5, I told her I worked 12 to 5 and that I would see her tommorow. And we said bye to eachother and that was that.
Than today, or I guess yesterday (Thursday) I wanted to talk to her more to get a better feel for how she was about the breakup. But as it was I didnt see her really at all untill around 3 something when we both were taking out breaks at the same time again (that happens a lot actualy, and I am not complaining) So we talked through the whole break again, but I couldent think of a good way to ask her about her break up and I didnt really want to bring it up. But I asked her what she was doing after work and such. And she told me she had to go to the police station after work casue some cop wants to get a report from her about a fire that the store had a month ago and she was the second person to see it. She was complaining she didnt rrally want to go. So I wished her luck in getting it delt with quick (she was worried it would take a long time).
I than again went back to work where I again though about asking her out today. I even saw her in the back for a moment and though to my self "here's my chance" I wanted to ask her, but I dunno, like I said I suck at this part. So we just said hi, and she laft, I than decided I was gonna do it right after work, when we were both leaving. SO I was trying to think of what to say. Than at 10 to 5 I get a call from my asshole manager, he wanted to see me in his office and to bring a union rep of my choice with me. So at this point I knew I was fucked and the day was determined to keep me that way. I go up and I am of corse suspended for 2 weeks (another story). So now my priorities have changed a little, i still really want to talk to this girl though, but I just knew this would screw me. My asshole manager tells me to go sign out and than come back upstairs to give him my sign in card. So as I head downstairs. i see the girl coming up. I say hi, and tell her I wont see her foa couple weeks and she asks why, I tell her I was jsut suspended, she seemed suprised and concerned for me about it. But anyway i rush to sign out and return the card in a vain attempt to catch her before her mom picks her up. But when I get back downstairs she was gone. FUCK.
So here we are now, I am not sure what it is about this girl but I really want to ask her out, I feel driven to. But there's a whole number of concerns I have. First there's the fact that I absoutaly suck at that aspect of talking to girls (though I used to suck at even that), and also something I dont like to admit is I havent ever actualy had a gf, I have had different girls I have liked, but never a gf. Than there's the fact that I am as mentioned erlier, the bloddy janitor, I wear green coveralls. (did I mention I despise my job?) And I dont know how she would feel about being asked out by the lowly janitor of the store. Although on that note, she doesnt seem like she's that shallow. But that leads me to my next problem. I to be honest have no idea if this girl is just naturly a nice person. Like I have seen her talk to other and she always seems nice, but I dont know how she would respond to being asked out, like I am sure she lieks me as a person/freind, but beyond that i have no idea how she'll react. THan there's the matter of me not ebing sure what to SAY... I was thinking on asking her is she wanted to go out for a coffie sometime. Is that any good? And lastly, I am still not sure if I SHOULD ask yet, beause I am not sure how long ago it was they brook up. The only clue I have to that was that she told me the last movie they saw at the theater together was Shrek 2. But, that doesnt say too much.
THe final thing I will say is she told me she probably works Friday at 5 till 10, so I am almost tempted to go in just to see her and ask her, but I am not sure I should, and if I were to, how to go about it. It would have been easier had I still had MY 5 to 10 shift tommorow.
Anyway I feel like a complete looser now. Any help/advice GAF?
Edit: Oh yeah, I ment to mention, before, I am 19, and I belive she's 17, she in grade 12 next year.
~Black Deatha
