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[God's Hand]

... tells me when I say certain things, I turn her on, does that mean she likes me?

... talks to me at work all the time and gets upset if I ignore her, does that mean she likes me?

... talks to me after work all the time on MSN, does that mean she likes me?

... tells me everything about her life, her problems, her ambitions, her goals, does that mean she likes me?

... gets a colour in her hair I recommended, does that mean she likes me?

... has a hard time being serious about going out on a date, does that mean I'm her fucking gal pal?

I hate life.

 

[Wendo]

FRIEND ZONE! EeeEeeeE!

 

[Deleted member 1235]

sounds like you are at a crossroads.....

act now or best friends island is where you are stranded. it's better to know for sure.

 

[Grizzlyjin]

I think you took a trip to FriendTown when you started sharing hair care tips. :lol

 

[Johnas]

Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes...as a friend.

 

[God's Hand]

Fine. She'll be back home tonight at 9. She even TOLD ME before she left that she'd be back at 9, I mean... why is she sending me mixed signals. I will ask her tonight what the deal is.

 

[Deleted member 1235]

Fine. She'll be back home tonight at 9. She even TOLD ME before she left that she'd be back at 9, I mean... why is she sending me mixed signals. I will ask her tonight what the deal is.

you had better post the results regardless of outcome!

 

[God's Hand]

I think you took a trip to FriendTown when you started sharing hair care tips. :lol

No... I told her red would look good in her hair, then she did it.

 

[Johnas]

Fine. She'll be back home tonight at 9. She even TOLD ME before she left that she'd be back at 9, I mean... why is she sending me mixed signals. I will ask her tonight what the deal is.

It sounded like it until you got to the last one...then it all fell apart. Maybe she's just really nervous though. Encouragement?

 

[Vennt]

... tells me when I say certain things, I turn her on, does that mean she likes me?

Not necessarily*

... talks to me at work all the time and gets upset if I ignore her, does that mean she likes me?

Not necessarily*

... talks to me after work all the time on MSN, does that mean she likes me?

Not necessarily*

... tells me everything about her life, her problems, her ambitions, her goals, does that mean she likes me?

Not necessarily*

... gets a colour in her hair I recommended, does that mean she likes me?

Not necessarily*

... has a hard time being serious about going out on a date, does that mean I'm her fucking gal pal?

Not necessarily*

*

 

[Poody]

All lies... I say go for it. Chances are, the girl is jocking you. I'm in the same position you're in.

 

[God's Hand]

From two days ago:

Girl: you need to stop saying things to me like I am sexy etc etc
Me: Alright
Girl: you can say I look nice or pretty but not sexy or hot
Me: Okay, consider it done
Girl: do you understand why?
Me: I'm sure I do
Girl: what is then
Me: Just trust that I know
Girl: no tell me
Girl: I want to see if you do know
Girl: ooh deep
Me:
Me: Because it weirds you out and you probably think I want you or something
Don sent the wink "Knock"
Girl: yes
Girl: okay it doesnt weird me out
Me: It's okay. I will no longer find you attractive or comment on it. Don't want things to be weird
Girl: if I tell you then you will make fun of me
Me: No I won't
Me: Don't make me nudge
Girl: promise
Me: Yes yes promise
Girl: cause it turns me on

...

Girl: that's not funny
Girl: don't go getting a swelled head
Me: I don't think it's funny
Girl: no pun intended

---

Me: When I say it, it's for two reasons... I believe it, and I'm pretty sure you like it
Girl: why yes I do. no denying that

---

Girl: I didn't say it made me uncomfortable
Me: You just don't want to be turned on?
Girl: right at work
Girl: lol

 

[silver]

Yep, definitely go for it or you will be in the friend zone counting millenniums.

 

[olimario]

I think the girl likes you, but something is holding her back. She keeps doing things to hint at the fact that she does like you, but when you get serious she freaks a little.

Stay the course, Don. It will end well.

 

[MrAngryFace]

SHIT OR GET OFF THE POT!

 

[Grizzlyjin]

All lies... I say go for it. Chances are, the girl is jocking you. I'm in the same position you're in.

Oh, I wouldn't tell him not to go for it. Some girls like to keep you around as just a temporary friend, kinda like a Boyfriend Tryout. I've been there before. Sometimes...friends...fall in love...

 

[God's Hand]

I think it's because she recently became religious and thinks she NEEDS a Christian so he will go to church with her, read the bible, etc. I like the Bible, it teaches a way of life that I live. I'd go to church with her. I'd do anything with her. I've just been waiting for her to get more comfortable. It is happening, that's for sure.

 

[Deleted member 1235]

seems like shes having fun flirting dude. which absolutely doesn't mean she wants to take of her clothes.... but she might..... or she might just be using you for practice....... only one way to know and it's not via instant messaging.

Spoiler

you have to get her drunk

 

[mCACGj]

This is happened a lot to me. Most of the girls turned out to be crazy and I just sort broke away, but I have made some pretty good female friends that I liked, probably could have gone out with some of them had I realized it.

 

[demi]

Girl: that's not funny
Girl: don't go getting a swelled head
Me: I don't think it's funny
Girl: no pun intended

Did she just call you fat?

 

[God's Hand]

No, she's one to talk.

I like her and don't want to do anything stupid to ruin whatever small chance I may have. I don't think my chances are good though. Last week she was housesitting for this couple who had dogs, and she went for a walk with this guy she met on ChristianDating or something. She thought he liked her but he never got back to her. Of course, I'm the one she comes to to talk to...

Fuck, I guess I am just a friend. I guess that's okay. I love her though.

 

[olimario]

I think it's because she recently became religious and thinks she NEEDS a Christian so he will go to church with her, read the bible, etc. I like the Bible, it teaches a way of life that I live. I'd go to church with her. I'd do anything with her. I've just been waiting for her to get more comfortable. It is happening, that's for sure.

All I'm saying is that if you really like her, stay the course. Continue to be friends with her until she's confortable enough with herself and her feelings to go out with you. It will lead to good thing.

Oh, and you're awesome. Post pics of your weight loss progression.

 

[demi]

Maybe she'll be so comfortable with you she won't mind walking around naked when you're in her house!

 

[God's Hand]

I will soon enough. I'm going to be buying a new camera. My 5 year old Fuji I bought for SpaceWorld 2000 doesn't even work anymore. I'm looking at one of those high end Canon Digital SLRs. Suite stuff.

 

[shuri]

I think it's because she recently became religious and thinks she NEEDS a Christian so he will go to church with her, read the bible, etc.

 

[olimario]

This sounds a lot like my situation and I hope for your sake that it is. We're not too different, you and I.
And I'm looking into getting the same type of camera soon. I want the Digital Rebel XT, but I need mo money!

 

[Ninjarabe]

 

[Boogie]

In before Cubsfan posting a single laughing smiley quoting God's Hand's original post.

 

[Wellington]

Girl: that's not funny
Girl: don't go getting a swelled head

You missed a golden opportunity there. :lol

Just make the move. If I ever find myself in a situation like this with a girl I like I'm just going to go for it. No sense in prolonging it and risking further emotional investment, along with a larger monetary investment and potentially falling further into the friend zone.

Honestly Don, just give it a go. What's the worse that can happen, you remain friends?

 

[God's Hand]

I want to change this to a photography thread now until I talk to her again tonight.

Gary, here's the best my current camera can do (resized from 1280 to 640). Bought it for like $800 in 2000:

http://www3.telus.net/public/trobert1/fujipics/

 

[Hitler Stole My Potato]

1) Stop feeding that fucking cat.

2) Put down your Bible.

3) Grow a pair of testicles and ask her out.

 

[neptunes]

This sounds a lot like my situation and I hope for your sake that it is. We're not too different, you and I.
And I'm looking into getting the same type of camera soon. I want the Digital Rebel XT, but I need mo money!

:lol

 

[olimario]

I want to change this to a photography thread now until I talk to her again tonight.

Gary, here's the best my current camera can do (resized from 1280 to 640). Bought it for like $800 in 2000:

http://www3.telus.net/public/trobert1/fujipics/

That's not a bad camera. I know you can use photoshop, so do a bit of post processing. Sharpness, Color intensity, contrast.

 

[God's Hand]

Don't mess with Rocky.

I will see what happens tonight.

 

[God's Hand]

That's not a bad camera. I know you can use photoshop, so do a bit of post processing. Sharpness, Color intensity, contrast.

Eh, trust me, it's bad. These aren't corrected by any means, but what's the point. I'd rather have a RAW file and do perfect adjustments instead of working with a messy JPEG file. I should get that camera next month.

 

[MIMIC]

... tells me when I say certain things, I turn her on, does that mean she likes me?

... talks to me at work all the time and gets upset if I ignore her, does that mean she likes me?

... talks to me after work all the time on MSN, does that mean she likes me?

... tells me everything about her life, her problems, her ambitions, her goals, does that mean she likes me?

... gets a colour in her hair I recommended, does that mean she likes me?

... has a hard time being serious about going out on a date, does that mean I'm her fucking gal pal?

I hate life.

:lol :lol

This should have been an intentional joke because it sho' did deliver. =p

 

[olimario]

Hey, I'm in full support of you getting a new camera, I'm just saying that while you have the one you have, you can still do a lot with it.

 

[God's Hand]

Oh, I definitely colour correct them when I go to print them or put them in my portfolio or whatever. Actually, Adobe Photoshop Elements 3.0 Organizer is very good at color correcting. I use it to manage all my photos. Much better than iPhoto.

 

[God's Hand]

She just got back, FROM BIBLE STUDY. So fuck it. It's just too weird.

 

[Litigation Manuel]

Your fat cat is extremely similar to my fat cat. Her name is Gus. Gus is a boy's name, I know. I need to take a picture so we can compare and thus be weirded out.

 

[MaverickX9]

...sits at the table across from you while you are eating pizza and is constantly leaning over the table displaying her illustrious cleavage in your general direction - does that mean she is trying to send you a message?


I thought it was. But it wasn't.

 

[Wafflecopter]

She's probably just a flirt.

 

[Groder Mullet]

She just got back, FROM BIBLE STUDY. So fuck it. It's just too weird.

Are you serious? She goes to bible study and thats too weird?

Wow.

 

[capslock]

Start ignoring her, if she's your friend she will stay your friend, if she's interested she will take action.

 

[pestul]

I think you need to take up funeral crashing man..

 

[Megafoo Chavez]

dude, just masturbate. fuck it man. FUCK IT

 

[God's Hand]

I asked her if she liked me like I like her, and she said "I don't know". So I just told her to stop flirting with me and screwing around with my head. Then she said it could go either way... what the fuck ever. Don't mess with me, you do NOT want to make me angry.

 

[krypt0nian]

I asked her if she liked me like I like her, and she said "I don't know". So I just told her to stop flirting with me and screwing around with my head. Then she said it could go either way... what the fuck ever. Don't mess with me, you do NOT want to make me angry.

This all comes down to her views on sodomy. Never settle.

 

[Cubsfan23]

Quit mind-fucking yourself, it's depressing.

 

[Boogie]

Quit mind-fucking yourself, it's depressing.

Nuts, foiled!

I agree though