All my life I was taught to look down on trade schools and even community colleges. University was the only path, and it was important to choose the very best one you could.
Now in my wisdom I can tell that those lessons were pure shit.
That kind of thinking is irrelevant to someone's ability to pursue their interests, to learn, to acquire skills, to work through a career, to set goals, and to achieve them. There are so many different ways to learn, ESPECIALLY for computer science. If you want to do it, you can. No reason you should spend 50 grand a year to be lectured straight out of a common textbook by some research professor who neither gives a shit nor speaks great english.
If you can demonstrate your talent, you can get hired. Think project portfolio, clients, references, certifications etc. If a hiring company recognizes your technical skills but rejects you based on lack of related degree, then you should feel lucky to have dodged what is likely the 9-5 drudge you fear (which btw is not a death sentence).
And if you don't want to accept anything I've just said, you can probably still go through university just fine, albeit with a gap/delay or extended schedule.