Is GAF too strict?

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And she also has to put up with this sort of rubbish. Probably a fair trade even if the situation you describe existed. But it doesn't.

Also the community mentions and other sorts of harassment. It doesn't mean I get a pass though but some people like to dig at me in threads and I'm not going to be cordial after I see that and we're in an argument.


But you do that every day.

Not really. You're just being the kind of person who wants to pigeon hole me since I do post about those subjects. I also post in a wide variety of threads but since I'm prolific in gender discussions, this is what happens.
 
Without tooting my own horn too much I've got PMs about how I've changed people's minds or they're glad I'm fighting the good fight. It's one of the few things that keeps me from thinking what I do here is a total waste of time and energy.

Well coming from you that actually means something from what I have seen of you. Heck when I first got here the first thing people said was stay away from devo in that topic on how not to get banned. You could have actually called me stupid in that one peeper topic but i'm actually happy to see you didn't do that when it would have been justified. I think your approach sometimes could use a little work(hell i'm sure mine could to) but you've said some things that have actually made me realize I was wrong and made me feel better :).

Some posts are obviously drenched in a kind of patronizing tone that I can't help but react to. I try not to get too harsh with some people but it's really hard being the solo female voice or the only woman people pigeon hole even as others are posting.

Welp guess part of what I said above has already been covered lol. I can't imagine what you go through because obviously i'm not a woman but I feel that your justified in a lot of cases. I'm sure one day we'll cross paths over something, hopefully it won't come to that.
 
Well coming from you that actually means something from what I have seen of you. Heck when I first got here the first thing people said was stay away from devo in that topic on how not to get banned. You could have actually called me stupid in that one peeper topic but i'm actually happy to see you didn't do that when it would have been justified. I think your approach sometimes could use a little work(hell i'm sure mine could to) but you've said some things that have actually made me realize I was wrong and made me feel better :).

I just get short tempered when the flood gates of sexist nonsense open, it's what I need to work on but I did try to explain away some things.
 
How do you not know who Blasty is?

I thought it was:

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and then Platy showed up in this thread...
 
I'm pretty sure I'm on a thin line most of the time and it's up to the discretion of the moderators. Got a problem, take it up with them.




I got a full month for calling some people out whom I felt were victim blaming.

Yeah you cross the line sometimes and have been banned.

I think some people just feel a little helpless by the onslaught you lay on people when you feel passionate about a subject..

At least that's how I see it..
 
The sort of stuff that pisses me off is when there is a thread about rape or sexism, and someone posts that Jurrasic Park water glass gif and says like 'lol Devo is coming'.

Cause only Devo gets outraged about rape? I don't know.

Yeah, this gets me too. And not just with Devolution, but all the posters with some kind of history. It just totally ruins the flow of the discussion as everyone prepares for said posters arrival.
 
And she also has to put up with this sort of rubbish. Probably a fair trade even if the situation you describe existed. But it doesn't.

It´s never a fair trade to be allowed to insult people on forums, or be very aggressive towards other posters, or a detrimental to discussions. She does the same thing in every thread about women. She accuses people of being sexist even though they are not.

Being aggressive and insulting even though one have a good mindset in mind does not excuse her behavior.
 
It´s never a fair trade to be allowed to insult people on forums, or be very aggressive towards other posters, or a detrimental to discussions. She does the same thing in every thread about women. She accuses people of being sexist even though they are not.

Being aggressive and insulting even though one have a good mindset in mind does not excuse her behavior.

Jesus. Disagree with her when she does it, stop calling her out in the abstract. Bolster your arguments, put her on ignore, sit around with your thumb up your arse, all are more useful than this shit.
 
It´s never a fair trade to be allowed to insult people on forums, or be very aggressive towards other posters, or a detrimental to discussions. She does the same thing in every thread about women. She accuses people of being sexist even though they are not.

Being aggressive and insulting even though one have a good mindset in mind does not excuse her behavior.

Have you read the posts that she reacts to, though? Nearly every time that I've peeked into one of those threads, the person she was calling out deserved it.
 
It´s never a fair trade to be allowed to insult people on forums, or be very aggressive towards other posters, or a detrimental to discussions. She does the same thing in every thread about women. She accuses people of being sexist even though they are not.

Being aggressive and insulting even though one have a good mindset in mind does not excuse her behavior.

Most of the time those people have it coming though. If you don't wanna get yelled at for saying something sexist, don't say something sexist. She can be aggressive, but I reckon she's pretty justified. It can be incredibly frustrating dealing with the arguments she addresses.
 
Don't scare me dawg, I get fearless when I'm scared.

Anyway I did some digging and the only thing I could find is that he was actually a she and was mod maybe?

She was a mod who was vigorous in punishing misogyny. I liked her mod style for the most part, but she was pretty shady behind the scenes apparently.
 
Don't scare me dawg, I get fearless when I'm scared.

Anyway I did some digging and the only thing I could find is that he was actually a she and was mod maybe?
She had a reputation for banning people who expressed sexist opinions. Supposedly posters felt like they had to walk on eggshells when she was around.

I was here for the last several months of her time on GAF and she always seemed like a perfectly agreeable mod to me. I must have missed something.
 
She had a reputation for banning people who expressed sexist opinions. Supposedly posters felt like they had to walk on eggshells when she was around.

I was here for the last several months of her time on GAF and she always seemed like a perfectly agreeable mod to me. I must have missed something.

Oh man, I remember that one female drivers thread. Thing was a bloodbath. Dragona was ruthless.
 
The great Satan spawns, of course.
They were not, etymology tells such course. Gypsy has 400 years of usage before your 20th century conotations, that are in their majority american (as from the US, or great Satan, if you will) uses.
Indians is an even bigger absurd.

And sure, my ignorant relatives and the ignorant people around me that are portuguese speakers (brazilians) gave continuation to their ignorance by not utilizing these words at all. Their influence ran so deep, that it certainly tainted linguistics for everyone too.

You hooked me with the devil.

Gypsy is a bastardization of "Egyptian." these people have wandered around the World and been repeatedly insulted by countless populations. They wandered, without a homeland and for that they were scorn. Hey, if you are sensitive to this and can appreciate their struggles, I apologize for mischaracterizing what is a relative rare act of kindess across the Iberian Peninsula, or Al Andalus if you prefer.

Not being very religious, I enjoy the notion that America is the Great Satan. Most people would just take that as an “evil” label but they get the candy-coated version of this "mythology." Who (allegedly) stood up to the Lord ask asked why it was that he should rule? Who (allegedly) offered the knowledge of good and evil to man? That's right... the Morning Star. Its funny, you'd think that God was the bad guy, claiming to be all-loving and letting all this shit happen everywhere. I guess it is just a "mysterious process."

666 blah blah blah.
 
Oh man, I remember that one female drivers thread. Thing was a bloodbath. Dragona was ruthless.
Haha, yeah. You'd think people would learn to recognize a ban trap when they see one.

I first saw the creeper pics thread when it had only a couple pages and I knew immediately that it would become a graveyard.
 
She's before my time but from what I gather she was a notoriously trigger happy mod.
Trigger happy huh?

She was a mod who was vigorous in punishing misogyny. I liked her mod style for the most part, but she was pretty shady behind the scenes apparently.
Well she doesn't sound all that bad aside from the shaddy buisness.

She had a reputation for banning people who expressed sexist opinions. Supposedly posters felt like they had to walk on eggshells when she was around.

I was here for the last several months of her time on GAF and she always seemed like a perfectly agreeable mod to me. I must have missed something.

2 for her not being all that bad, guess were all missing something. Oh well thanks for the info but Neogaf should really have a history topic learned a couple of things from this thread alone.
 
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