Where did I say "inherently violent"?
Since you want to drag settlements along, tell me why was Israel invaded in 1948 when they neither occupied Gaza or the West Bank? And before there was even state, why was there several riots targeted at Jews between 1920 - 1948?
No matter how some want to skew the conflict, it's never a black and white issue.
Because when a colonial entity suddenly starts moving into your land, talking about creating their own country, where you and your families have lived for centuries, starts buying land and excluding Arabs from working on it, the natives saw the writing on the wall. Not to mention the Balfour Declaration. What was supposed to happen if not resistance?
There was violence on both sides. Israel displaced 300,000 Arabs before they proclaimed their independence in 1948.
The UN partition plan was bullshit. Jews made up the smaller population (~30%)(many of which just flooded the country because of the war) but were offered 55% of the land. Whereas the Palestinians, who made up ~70%, were given 45%. How does any of that make sense?