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Jeff Baena (husband of Aubrey Plaza) commits suicide

Kenneth Haight

Gold Member
I’m literally considering suicide myself right now. Quite apt that I saw this post at this point. Had to check GAF before I did myself in didn’t I
I echo the above poster that you should reconsider. Life is beautiful but also a torment when times are tough.

Don’t do this and please think about your family and friends before you cannot.

I have been affected by a close family member committing suicide. They were not a very nice person but I still miss them every day and wish it never happened.

None of us are perfect, we are all shades of grey but I implore you to look at the bright days ahead that we can have. Nothing is permanent apart from death, you can feel better but sometimes it takes a lot of work. PM me if you need to. Don’t do this.
 

Krathoon

Member
Something triggered it. We may never know what.
I think Dana Plato committed suicide because she went on Howard Stern.
 

Redneckerz

Those long posts don't cover that red neck boy
Is it known that this guy was suffering from clinical depression?
Way to misread the room. Just asking questions amirite?

Spoiler: most people with depression don't actually tell anyone that they have it.

Starting to get how smolbrain your take comes across?

If not why are everyone suddenly assuming that's the reason?
No, you don't get the benefit of having your question answered. But you are being a belter.

I’m literally considering suicide myself right now. Quite apt that I saw this post at this point. Had to check GAF before I did myself in didn’t I
It would be a severe misfortune if you did, especially by a clown like hyperbertha.

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

I'd always thought that if I ever decided to suicide, I'd go out doing something heroic like trying to kill Putin or kill some pedophiles.
Yeah... Better not romanticize the idea of being a hero by selfdestruction.
 

V1LÆM

Gold Member
I'm fine thanks. Men don't commit suicide randomly. Wives cheating is waaay more common than clinical depression. Not saying this is either or. Aubrey plaza isn't going to read gaf. So I'm not being "insensitive".
stfu lol

no you don't just kill yourself randomly. we don't know what the guy was dealing with. bit weird to jump to her cheating on him fuck sake. the guy could have the most perfect life and still want to kill himself. that's what depression is.
 

Krathoon

Member
The guy could have been murdered and it was made to look like a suicide.

There is also that. He could have been involved in some serious stuff.

It seems suspicious. I mean he was married to friggin' Aubrey Plaza.

But people do crazy things.
 

V1LÆM

Gold Member
U stfu. Is it confirmed he had depression?
Is it confirmed Aubrey cheated on him?

And I didn’t say he had depression but it is very likely…that’s why most people think about suicide. I was saying you don’t know what people are dealing with. To others someone could have the “perfect” life … successful career, lots of money, beautiful wife, etc but that means shit if you have depression.
 
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StreetsofBeige

Gold Member
Well, nobody knows yet what the motive is (if there even is one). I’d assume the majority of suicides have a distinct reason.

As a side note a buddy of mine knows someone who is a train conductor. And outside of casino Niagara you get suicides every year including this driver running over people who want to die. No doubt freaky and he went on stress leave. I’d assume they lost all their money. But you never hear that in news. Also a quick note, anytime a subway or train stops or delayed “due to mechanical or technical issues” might be BS. It might had been a jumper but the station doesn’t want to tell you a guy jumped.

But for the celeb if it’s solely a case of someone who is mentally miserable on their own with no external reasons I guess that can happen too.
 
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DeepEnigma

Gold Member
Please show me the data that tells us most men's suicides are due to women being cheaters lmao.
I don't have a leg in this race, suicide is tragic. The feeling of total helplessness to drive someone to that point. Hope they're able to find peace. 🙏

But here is some data in context to just your question.

Relationship problems are one of the main causes of suicide [27, 28]. These studies have generally suggested that infidelity and problems in couples' relationships can lead to suicide; however, the most important issue discussed in the present study is suicide due to feelings of disgrace and worthlessness.
Limiting social interactions, accusing the spouse of betrayal, and feeling betrayed are associated with cold relationships, interpersonal conflicts, and even physical struggles between spouses. These can lead to suicide attempts in both spouses, especially in men who consider their wife’s betrayal as a sign of dishonor, either threatening their spouse with death or feeling disgraced and attempting suicide themselves.

It's not "majority," but 1 in 5 on average.
 
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Redneckerz

Those long posts don't cover that red neck boy
I'm fine thanks. Men don't commit suicide randomly.
How would you know? You know nothing about her husband?

Wives cheating is waaay more common than clinical depression. Not saying this is either or. Aubrey plaza isn't going to read gaf.
Source?

So I'm not being "insensitive".
Yep, keep up not reading the room buddy with that gigantic toolbox that is your character.
U stfu. Is it confirmed he had depression?
Is it confirmed Plaza cheated?

See, two can play that game.

You say that this is more likely yet present nothing. Since you are adamant om being koi, display some intellect instead of giving staff a good reason why you shouldn't belong here in the community.
You get help. You're clearly deluded about relationships
Stop It Michael Jordan GIF

Please show me the data that tells us most men's suicides are due to women being cheaters lmao.
Presenting something coherent would be the first step back to redemption for bertha.


It's not "majority," but 1 in 5 on average.
So 80 percent can be due to something else. Maybe even depression!
 
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hyperbertha

Member
You’re a woman hater. I know this because you made a very clear point of saying how wives cheating is way more common than clinical depression. In a thread talking about a woman’s husband killing himself, you immediately try to suggest it could be her fault.

Get help.
Simps need more help than misogynists. Not a misogyny st here just a realist. Get some help. And cancel that only fans
 

Redneckerz

Those long posts don't cover that red neck boy
You’re a woman hater. I know this because you made a very clear point of saying how wives cheating is way more common than clinical depression. In a thread talking about a woman’s husband killing himself, you immediately try to suggest it could be her fault.

Get help.
Not only that, nothing Bertha says is something backed up.
Simps need more help than misogynists.
Just because he says that doesn't mean he is a simp. You keep making giant assumptions, Night Elf Mohawk.

Should i assume you are depressed yourself? Because you know, with that happy avatar of yours.... *See, assumptions!

Because the way you reply isn't normal behavior. Its concerning.
Not a misogyny st here just a realist.
Very realistic to jump to a conclusion of ''It is probably the wive cheating'' when that isn't the majority reason people commit suicide. Not only that, you don't back anything up.

What's your flex here? Why be so contradictive in the face of obvious common sense?
Get some help. And cancel that only fans
Again, get some help yourself. You clearly aren't speaking in a rational mind. Or if you are, atleast back up what you say.
 

hyperbertha

Member
Not only that, nothing Bertha says is something backed up.

Just because he says that doesn't mean he is a simp. You keep making giant assumptions, Night Elf Mohawk.

Should i assume you are depressed yourself? Because you know, with that happy avatar of yours.... *See, assumptions!

Because the way you reply isn't normal behavior. Its concerning.

Very realistic to jump to a conclusion of ''It is probably the wive cheating'' when that isn't the majority reason people commit suicide. Not only that, you don't back anything up.

What's your flex here? Why be so contradictive in the face of obvious common sense?

Again, get some help yourself. You clearly aren't speaking in a rational mind. Or if you are, atleast back up what you say.
People here voiced there opinion on depression, and I mused on another cause that could potentially have led to this. Aubrey plaza was not hurt by this. She won't even read this. You simps need to calm down.
 

Redneckerz

Those long posts don't cover that red neck boy
People here voiced there opinion on depression, and I mused on another cause that could potentially have led to this.
And as it turns out, that's not a majority reason why people commit suicide.

What you do is make one giant assumption (Much like everyone that suggests it was depression, which is the keyword you want to here from this ''simp'') about the wife in zero sympathetic marks:

Usually this happens when the husband learns the wife has been cheating on him for years. With multiple men.
The above makes as much sense as me saying ''Usually this occurs when people look on Instagram too much and their body projection makes them feel vulnerable and have anxiety.''

This has as much grounds in reality as your initial statement, which is what everyone in various degrees has been telling you.

What you do is resort to toddler-like remarks by calling people simps, telling them to stfu, cancel their Onlyfans and have you not. That isn't rational behavior and its why i am asking if you are depressed yourself, something which you are ignoring (Because its true?* *See, more grandiose non-sensical assumptions, this is what you do.)
Aubrey plaza was not hurt by this.
True, she isn't hurt by a random on the internet voicing a unnecessary opinion. Keyword being unnecessary. She is hurt by other things... the things you routinely seem to ignore (Or atleast show no remorse or sympathy for). This is what makes you appear as cruel.

It pains me that i have to explain this.
You simps need to calm down.
Argumentum ad populum doesn't work. I am not a simp, i care only about Aubrey in the movie roles she does and nothing more. Neither do most of us if you think about it. Stop acting like a child and start taking some responsibility.
 
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I'm fine thanks. Men don't commit suicide randomly. Wives cheating is waaay more common than clinical depression. Not saying this is either or. Aubrey plaza isn't going to read gaf. So I'm not being "insensitive".
It's also way more common for most dudes who have been cheated on to find the guys who banged your wife and beat the shit out of them. Way more common than suicide
 

Redneckerz

Those long posts don't cover that red neck boy
It's also way more common for most dudes who have been cheated on to find the guys who banged your wife and beat the shit out of them. Way more common than suicide
You only get a LOL emoji because Hyperbertha doesn't like getting confronted with adult behavior because they simply do not know how to respond adequately.

I see you bertha and you ain't slick. Just disappointing from a character point of view.
 

rkofan87

Gold Member
Spot on

Lost a great childhood friend to suicide a few years ago and we had hung out a few weeks before he did it

He seemed totally fine, was in the middle of planning his daughters wedding and called 911 and told them to come find his body on the farm so his family did not find him first then shot himself
rip to your friend my man never lost any one to this but its got too suck too have seem fine and then boom they gone and we wish we could have helped them.
 
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