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Judge Orders Colorado Bakery to Cater for Same-Sex Weddings

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I agree with you 100%. If they won't serve you, go somewhere else. Vote with your wallet and voice your opinion about the business.

Freedom of religion should trump the government forcing your own business to do something you don't agree with. Don't tread on me.

Why? Why should religion trump law? There are religions out there where it's okay to stone people to death. Where you can honor kill your daughter if she isn't a virgin. How should belief trump law?
 

way more

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Did people fall asleep in history class and not learn about the atmosphere towards blacks in the South after slavery was abolished? The majority of businesses would not serve blacks because of their personal beliefs (ie. racism) for a hundred years until the Civil Rights movement helped lead changes to the laws to protect people from discrimination. This includes forcing businesses not to discriminate, whether modern society has the taste to recognize it or not.


The free market would have solved all those problems, because, freedom means equality.
 
There's a lot of people around here who believe a lot of libertarian bullshit.

Discrimination is, philosophically and materially, something that amounts to a lot more than just "an opinion". Pretending it's just self expression and doesnt hurt anyone is proof that you need to crack open a book and read up on what you're talking about.

The free market does not fix itself. The market tends to shoot itself in the face whenever it is given too much leash, in fact. Do you really think a business in some shit hole in Alabama is going to be shamed out of existence if it is allowed to freely put up a "whites only" sign? No, there would be a lot of towns that completely ban minorities from entering businesses. There would be entire states where it would seem damn near impossible for a gay person to make a business transaction. There are pockets of completely disgusting people in this country and they can't be allowed this "freedom" that you project such bullshit sanctity onto. If you're fine with segregation then your point is valid I guess, and also you're a disgusting person.

Here's a truth that libertarians hide from: there is a mutual contract with society when you operate a business. In exchange for all of the infrastructure and educated employees and safety regulations and legal protections that society gives you, you agree to operate a business that any citizen should be able to enter. They all, in a way, contributed money with their taxes to create the environment that allows a modern business to exist. That is the world that a sane, morally sound person wants to live. Not the fucking Wild West.

It is not a big coincidence that racism and sexism scandals follow the Pauls and other notable libertarians around. Stop parroting their ideological garbage if you want people to take you seriously or not start assuming you're a bigot.

EDIT: I MEAN COME ON, HOW FUCKING STUPID DO YOU HAVE TO BE TO THINK REFUSING TO SERVE GAYS PERIOD SHOULD BE PROTECTED WHEN EVEN "SEPERATE BUT EQUAL" WAS CLEARLY FUCKING WRONG 50+ YEARS AGO? HOW FUCKING STUPID????
 

Cyan

Banned
pas55word, while I don't endorse people crapping on you or implying you're a bigot for your post, it definitely behooves you to check sources before posting them. In this case, I did a little bit of googling and couldn't really find a good source supporting your line of argument. The bakery certainly shut down its physical location (though it was reported to still be taking orders via internet or phone), but it's not clear that this was driven by people no longer shopping there--indeed, it sounds like business actually went up for them following the spotlight being shone on them due to the suit. The only places reporting this also use terms like "homosexual agenda" and the like which casts strong doubt on their reporting.

EDIT: I MEAN COME ON, HOW FUCKING STUPID DO YOU HAVE TO BE TO THINK REFUSING TO SERVE GAYS PERIOD SHOULD BE PROTECTED WHEN EVEN "SEPERATE BUT EQUAL" WAS CLEARLY FUCKING WRONG 50+ YEARS AGO? HOW FUCKING STUPID????

Take a deep breath, man. I don't think this is necessary.
 

Grinchy

Banned
I understand why they can't discriminate, but if I were them and I felt so strongly against gay weddings, I'd just tell the customers that I would make a really shoddy, barely edible product for them.
 
I agree with you 100%. If they won't serve you, go somewhere else. Vote with your wallet and voice your opinion about the business.

Freedom of religion should trump the government forcing your own business to do something you don't agree with. Don't tread on me.

Fucking ridiculous. This isn't just some cake shop operating in a vacuum. I'm sure there are some parts of this country where, if not for the law preventing it, would discriminate not only against gays but even african-americans and other minorities and, to be honest, it probably wouldn't even be bad for business. This isn't just about a cake shop. What if fucking grocery stores or pharmacies, in very rural areas where there isn't always plentiful alternative options, were allowed to operate like this? Ridiculous.
 

one_kill

Member
I understand why they can't discriminate, but if I were them and I felt so strongly against gay weddings, I'd just tell the customers that I would make a really shoddy, barely edible product for them.
Wouldn't that still be considered discriminatory?
 
I don't really get how people can think the market would fix things. Even on a site as liberal leaning as NeoGAF we have a vocal group of people that argue that taking a stand against one business means you have to take a stand against every unethical business (read: every business) or else be a hypocrite. Here is one example:

You can't pick and choose what evil corporations you support. You are either in it or you aren't. You can't boycott or put down amazon while typing on your fucking ipad or wearing boots you bought that were made by some 9 year olds in a sweat factory.

And this mindset is astonishingly common because people think being a hypocrite is the worst possible thing in existence to be. So if a big company started to refuse to do business with a small enough minority, they would make enough money to survive, and there'd be a vocal group of people arguing that you shouldn't boycott them because you own electronics or some shit. You can't rely on boycotts preventing discrimination.
 

Angry Grimace

Two cannibals are eating a clown. One turns to the other and says "does something taste funny to you?"
I understand why they can't discriminate, but if I were them and I felt so strongly against gay weddings, I'd just tell the customers that I would make a really shoddy, barely edible product for them.

That is still discriminatory. If you change "gay weddings" to "black people," you can see the problem there; the legislature has decided race/gender/sexual orientation are to be treated the same.

They can't actually force them to do it, of course, they can just fine them.

Sure, but try taking that to a court. They're not going to rule on whether the cake you provided was tasty enough.

You just said they tell them that. Besides, its not as hard to prove as you're apparently envisioning.

Some of you guys are confusing "freedom of religion" with letting you do anything you want that your religion likes.
 

Angry Grimace

Two cannibals are eating a clown. One turns to the other and says "does something taste funny to you?"
Freedom of religion should trump the government forcing your own business to do something you don't agree with. Don't tread on me.

"Freedom of religion" doesn't actually exist in the format you apparently think it does. The free exercise clause has never been read to totally prohibit restriction of specific religious practices even following the Religious Freedom Restoration Act.
 

Grinchy

Banned
That is still discriminatory. If you change "gay weddings" to "black people," you can see the problem there; the legislature has decided race/gender/sexual orientation are to be treated the same.

They can't actually force them to do it, of course, they can just fine them.



You just said they tell them that. Besides, its not as hard to prove as you're apparently envisioning.

Some of you guys are confusing "freedom of religion" with letting you do anything you want that your religion likes.
I think you're under some kind of impression that I'm on their side.
 
This is what I find odd:

It's okay for the KKK or Neo-Nazis to have hate speech rallies and the like, but a business can't say "No" to serving someone because of similiar reasons.

Don't get me wrong, I absolutely despise discrimination. But if someone is protected to say hateful things, why is the line drawn at business?

I don't think anyone should be fired because of discriminatory reasons either. I don't morally agree with it. And I don't think society as a whole agrees with discrimination. Yet people can act a fool normally and be discriminatory in pretty much any other regard, but not in business?

Just seems like a strange standard to me.

I agree that businesses should be held responsible for disciminatory practices. I just think society should really be holding them responsible . . . but I guess if they don't, government should step in.

I just really don't understand why it's okay to rally against something and spew hatred, but then you go into a business and you're expected to deliver service.
 

Dead Man

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This is what I find odd:

It's okay for the KKK or Neo-Nazis to have hate speech rallies and the like, but a business can't say "No" to serving someone because of similiar reasons.

Don't get me wrong, I absolutely despise discrimination. But if someone is protected to say hateful things, why is the line drawn at business?

I don't think anyone should be fired because of discriminatory reasons either. I don't morally agree with it. And I don't think society as a whole agrees with discrimination. Yet people can act a fool normally and be discriminatory in pretty much any other regard, but not in business?

Just seems like a strange standard to me.

I agree that businesses should be held responsible for disciminatory practices. I just think society should really be holding them responsible . . . but I guess if they don't, government should step in.

I just really don't understand why it's okay to rally against something and spew hatred, but then you go into a business and you're expected to deliver service.

It's not complicated really. Nobody needs to attend KKK rallies. People need to go to businesses to buy things to live.
 
It's not complicated really. Nobody needs to attend KKK rallies. People need to go to businesses to buy things to live.

I think the part that throws me is from my understanding, businesses have been given the same rights as individuals. Which, I don't quite agree with or understand, but it sets a weird standard.

That, and in modern times, it would seem that if one business turned you away, you could fairly easily find another unless you are in an extremely rural area.

Just seems odd to me. Like I said, I hate discrimination. It just seems an odd line to draw when there's other rulings that seem to counter it.
 

GaimeGuy

Volunteer Deputy Campaign Director, Obama for America '16
I love that BeFlatLine felt the need to add the fact that he, too, is a victim of discrimination. Yeah, not being able to carry your firearm into a fucking ice cream shop, what a shame.
 
I love that BeFlatLine felt the need to add the fact that he, too, is a victim of discrimination. Yeah, not being able to carry your firearm into a fucking ice cream shop, what a shame.

Not being allowed to protect my family in a business is a shame. I have trained with Law Enforcement and military. I not only have trained more than your standard law enforcement officer, but have the certifications to back it.

So, yes, I'd say it's a shame that if some asshat decides they want to shoot up my local movie theater while I'm enjoying a movie with my family, I can't do anything to intervene DESPITE being trained for active shooter response. That is a damn shame. But you know what? I don't attend these businesses. I go where I'm welcome instead.

EDITTED TO ADD:
But since that doesn't go with the discrimination under law route, how about this: When I was a teenager, I was discriminated against because of my age. I could drive, and would go by myself (or with friends) to local businesses. I was respectful, but because of my age was essentially told "Beat it, people your age only cause trouble." Sucked, but big deal, right?
 

Enzom21

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EDITTED TO ADD: As a side note, I've been denied service in the past because of my personal choice to carry a firearm for self defense reasons. That's the business's choice. I could pretend that I'm entitled to be served, but I'm not. Freedom of choice is a valuable thing. Other businesses have now received my business, along with my family's. Does it make me happy that my values were undermined by a business? Not at all. But if they don't want to serve me, I'll go elsewhere. Big deal.

You are aware that a business turning you away for carrying a weapon is not even remotely the same as someone being turned away for their sexuality or race... right?
 
You are aware that a business turning you away for carrying a weapon is not even remotely the same as someone being turned away for their sexuality or race... right?

How does my carrying a weapon (concealed) have any bearing on them? It has about as much bearing on them as my age, race, or sexual orientation. But if you look above, you'll notice that I've also been discriminated for my age when I was younger. Does it feel good? No. But if a business feels like that's how they want to do business, I don't give them business.
 

Cheebo

Banned
As much as I don't like the choice the business made, I don't feel they should be forced to do business with someone they don't want to. A business can deny me service for any reason. At which point, I'd suggest they respectfully go play in a fire while I take my business elsewhere. All while suggesting to friends / family / random strangers on the street that the original business is crap, and not to contribute to them.

Taking away any person's free choice is a crap shoot. If a customer came in being a complete tool, and I owned the business, I should be able to say "No. GTFO!". This could be for any other reason, because it's *my* business. If I choose to suffer the consequences of not having their business, that's my choice.

We're not talking governmental services. Obviously, if the police, fire, EMS, or whatever other necessity out there said no, there'd be issues. But we're talking a business that provides baked goods.

EDITTED TO ADD: As a side note, I've been denied service in the past because of my personal choice to carry a firearm for self defense reasons. That's the business's choice. I could pretend that I'm entitled to be served, but I'm not. Freedom of choice is a valuable thing. Other businesses have now received my business, along with my family's. Does it make me happy that my values were undermined by a business? Not at all. But if they don't want to serve me, I'll go elsewhere. Big deal.

First off, so you don;'t think businesses in the 50's/60's should have been forced to serve African Americans when they were denying them service? There is a reason it is illegal.

Second carrying a firearm is NOT at all comparable. Being black or gay is something who you are. It's what you are born with and something you have no choice in the matter. Carrying a gun in something you actively chose to do, it's not part of your being.
 

Cheebo

Banned
A weapon that I'm more qualified to carry than your local police officer. So, they can carry into said business, but I can't? That seems . . . off. But hey, that's the law.

You are born gay. You are born black. You can't change these things. They are with you till the day you die whether you want them to be or not.You chose to carry a gun. Big big difference.
 

Enzom21

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How does my carrying a weapon (concealed) have any bearing on them? It has about as much bearing on them as my age, race, or sexual orientation. But if you look above, you'll notice that I've also been discriminated for my age when I was younger. Does it feel good? No. But if a business feels like that's how they want to do business, I don't give them business.

Age discriminate is something bad... but if you think your choice to carry a weapon is even remotely the same as a gay person's sexuality or my race then you are delusional.

You can always not carry a weapon, I can't stop being black. Saying they are remotely the same thing is insanely insulting.
 

Log4Girlz

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This is what I find odd:

It's okay for the KKK or Neo-Nazis to have hate speech rallies and the like, but a business can't say "No" to serving someone because of similiar reasons.

Don't get me wrong, I absolutely despise discrimination. But if someone is protected to say hateful things, why is the line drawn at business?

I don't think anyone should be fired because of discriminatory reasons either. I don't morally agree with it. And I don't think society as a whole agrees with discrimination. Yet people can act a fool normally and be discriminatory in pretty much any other regard, but not in business?

Just seems like a strange standard to me.

I agree that businesses should be held responsible for disciminatory practices. I just think society should really be holding them responsible . . . but I guess if they don't, government should step in.

I just really don't understand why it's okay to rally against something and spew hatred, but then you go into a business and you're expected to deliver service.

You really can't understand that and it seems strange to you? Ok. I don't understand how there can be any misunderstanding.
 
First off, so you don;'t think businesses in the 50's/60's should have been forced to serve African Americans when they were denying them service? There is a reason it is illegal.

Second carrying a firearm is NOT at all comparable. Being black or gay is something who you are. It's what you are born with and something you have no choice in the matter. Carrying a gun in something you actively chose to do, it's not part of your being.

At that point, they should've been forced because it was socially acceptable to the majority to deny service. That was harmful due to the reason listed above of it being life or death to the person if they were denied everywhere.

As I said earlier though, I hate discrimination so I think they should be held accountable. I just think society is probably reached the point that the government shouldn't be the ones stepping in, but actual society voting with their wallets. But then again, I may be wrong.

I just don't see forcing someone to serve someone as changing societal viewpoints. I see society as a whole rebelling against a business for their hateful viewpoints as more character changing.
 
Age discriminate is something bad... but if you think your choice to carry a weapon is even remotely the same as a gay person's sexuality or my race then you are delusional.

You can always not carry a weapon, I can't stop being black. Saying they are remotely the same thing is insanely insulting.

Just like you shouldn't feel the need to change for something that has no negative impact on the world, I shouldn't feel the need to change (even if I CAN) for the same reason.

I don't mean it as insulting. I don't think discrimination should exist in any form. I just don't see why it's okay for someone to spew hate speech according to the government, but then be forced to go serve someone that they were just rallying against. Just seems odd.
 

Cheebo

Banned
At that point, they should've been forced because it was socially acceptable to the majority to deny service. That was harmful due to the reason listed above of it being life or death to the person if they were denied everywhere.

It is actually more socially acceptable today to support Gay Marriage (well over 50% support in all polls now) than it was amongst white people to support the civil rights movement during the days of sit-ins you know. The government forced the country to accept blacks as equals, especially in the the south which helped lead to more acceptance in the long run.

Saying society was more ready for the civil rights laws of the 60's than gay marriage today is completely false.
 

Log4Girlz

Member
Just like you shouldn't feel the need to change for something that has no negative impact on the world, I shouldn't feel the need to change (even if I CAN) for the same reason.

I don't mean it as insulting. I don't think discrimination should exist in any form. I just don't see why it's okay for someone to spew hate speech according to the government, but then be forced to go serve someone that they were just rallying against. Just seems odd.

Its literally boggling my mind that this seems odd to you.
 
It is actually more socially acceptable today to support Gay Marriage (well over 50% support in all polls now) than it was amongst white people to support the civil rights movement during the days of sit-ins you know. The government forced the country to accept blacks as equals, especially in the the south which helped lead to more acceptance in the long run.

Saying society was more ready for the civil rights laws of the 60's than gay marriage today is completely false.

I don't think I wrote it out clearly enough. I am agreeing with you on your last statement 100%. That's why I think society should be the one shunning the business, not the government.
 

Enzom21

Member
Just like you shouldn't feel the need to change for something that has no negative impact on the world, I shouldn't feel the need to change (even if I CAN) for the same reason.

I don't mean it as insulting. I don't think discrimination should exist in any form. I just don't see why it's okay for someone to spew hate speech according to the government, but then be forced to go serve someone that they were just rallying against. Just seems odd.

Are you being serious right now? My race isn't a weapon that can be used to kill someone. Stop comparing the two. They are not they same at all.
 

Aaron

Member
I don't mean it as insulting. I don't think discrimination should exist in any form. I just don't see why it's okay for someone to spew hate speech according to the government, but then be forced to go serve someone that they were just rallying against. Just seems odd.
It's learning from history. When free speech has been restricted in the past, even if the initial intentions are good, bad things happen. When you discriminate against people for being who they are, you create an oppressed class of people and social inequality. Which leads to bad things. Both of these were causes of the fall of the Roman Republic by the way.

It's impossible to fairly judge every spoken word and business service, so we need laws to prevent the worst situations from happening, defined in a clear if not particular concise manner. We have thousands of years of history to learn from, and while we might not get it right over and over again, eventually somewhere those lessons stick.
 

Cipherr

Member
Just like you shouldn't feel the need to change for something that has no negative impact on the world, I shouldn't feel the need to change (even if I CAN) for the same reason.

You dont seem to understand. There is no "feeling the need to change". You cannot change your race period. Its not a choice I make when I wake up in the morning. This is not a comparable situation no matter how much you try to equate them. You carrying a gun != the race someone is born into.

You can make this comparison when I gain the possibility/choice of leaving my 'race' in my gun safe on my way out the door in the morning.
 

one_kill

Member
I don't think I wrote it out clearly enough. I am agreeing with you on your last statement 100%. That's why I think society should be the one shunning the business, not the government.
Yes, we should let society dictate what happens

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Cheebo

Banned
I don't think I wrote it out clearly enough. I am agreeing with you on your last statement 100%. That's why I think society should be the one shunning the business, not the government.

But if we left it up to society alone in the 60's we would have got civil rights reform much much later. LBJ had to basically force it upon congress.
 
It's learning from history. When free speech has been restricted in the past, even if the initial intentions are good, bad things happen. When you discriminate against people for being who they are, you create an oppressed class of people and social inequality. Which leads to bad things. Both of these were causes of the fall of the Roman Republic by the way.

It's impossible to fairly judge every spoken word and business service, so we need laws to prevent the worst situations from happening, defined in a clear if not particular concise manner. We have thousands of years of history to learn from, and while we might not get it right over and over again, eventually somewhere those lessons stick.

Thank you. That was the most clear and logical statement to explain the differences. Now it makes much more sense.

I still find it stupid that I can be turned away for carrying. But at least the difference between free speech and business discrimination makes more sense.
 
But if we left it up to society alone in the 60's we would have got civil rights reform much much later. LBJ had to basically force it upon congress.

I agree 100% again. I don't think the intervention at that time was wrong. I feel that having the government being the force to cause change when a more persuasive force (one's peers aka society) is likely to cause a change of heart is likely is the wrong route (as I feel we are the point of now).

I'd much rather see society push back and show a public outpouring of shame on the bakery. Only because it's more likely to change opinion.

If that's unlikely, then that's when I think the government should step in. But that's just the optimist in me. Maybe it's naive, but despite thinking poorly of society, I hope for the best.
 
So now that the bakery is forced to cater, whats to stop them from charging 100K for a sawdust cake?

Does the rulling also stat what the cake has to be made of and how much they can charge?
 

Aeris130

Member
So now that the bakery is forced to cater, whats to stop them from charging 100K for a sawdust cake?

Does the rulling also stat what the cake has to be made of and how much they can charge?

When was the last time you checked if a food-item you bought contained poisonous ingredients? If the answer is "never", it's because you live in a country that indeed states what consumables should be made of. Or more specifically, what they shouldn't be made of if the seller wants to sell them (mixing sawdust into your products will get them pulled).
 
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