Married sex life ......can be awesome?

ReasonBeing

ReasonBeing

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My wife and I have a preteen daughter and a toddler. This means that for longer than a decade, we have had at most 36 consecutive hours of true alone time together. We truly love and support each other, and while I won't complain about our frequency of intimacy, there is always the ever present reality that we can't get too crazy, or we will draw unwanted attention.

We have been living a nomadic lifestyle for the past two years and finally made it a point to take a week to fly home (without the kids) and prep our home to be rented out. I learned two things during this past week. My wife and I still actually enjoy each other's company, and God damn is sex so much better when you don't have kids in the house.

The first day and a half was pretty normal as it takes a minute to recalibrate to a new environment, but over those last 3 and a half days alone, we put our early 20 year old selves to shame. Being with someone for so long allows one to shed their inhibitions, and we finally got a chance to really explore what intimacy can be like when you aren't worried about showing off, being judged, or having a kid knock at the door because you were making too much noise.

It's been 3 days since I dropped my wife back off at the airport (I'm stuck here finishing up) and I can't wait to get back to her. It feels like those early days of a relationship where you can't keep your hands off one another. Overall, this trip has been hard as fuck, stressful, exhausting, and expensive, but I'm so happy we took it.
 
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My wife and I thankfully have always lived in places where the kids were far enough away from our bedroom because we knew we'd be bangin'. Even after 20 years together, we haven't really slowed down...
 
My wife and I don't enjoy the frequency we once did, but I can confirm that the sex has actually gotten better, not worse, as our marriage has aged. She's more wild now, less conservative in bed ya know? She's a "good girl" so the first 7 ish years of our marriage she was somewhat prudish I suppose you might say. Now? Absolute hellcat when my daughter's not home, and way hornier than she used to be, with one caveat....when we're both busy, (as we almost always are these days), the stress just kind of kills our sex drive, both of us too, not just her.

Meh, things will get better, can't wait to relax more lol.
 
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poodaddy said:
She's more wild now, less conservative in bed ya know? She's a "good girl" so the first 7 ish years of our marriage she was somewhat prudish I suppose you might say. Now? Absolute hellcat when my daughter's not home,
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Ahh, that must be where you got the "poodaddy" moniker from.
 
Experience varies massively of course. But when it works, it works!

Been married 16 years this year, have four kids. We've maintained about 2-3x a week the entire time and it's been great.
 
ssringo said:
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That you GrandPooBear?

he's a speedrunner
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I am not he, however I'm incensed at his leverage of my title for his own needs!

Nah, that's cool lol, is he good? What kinda games does he play often?

I don't have even a fraction of the skill to be truly impressive at speed running anything, but lawdy lawd can I blast through a MegaMan X game with the quickness. MMX would be the only thing I'd speed run if I thought I was remotely good enough to speed run anything, but I've seen that community's speed runs and I simply don't measure up....I wish :D
 
p_xavier said:
Lucky, I had an insane libido prior to be on anxiolytic, it never recovered avec after I stopped.
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Anxiety destroyed my libido for many years. It eventually morphed into anxiety about the anxiety in an awful feedback loop. I can't say what specifically got me out of this cycle, but I know cutting off corn made a big difference for me. It wasn't immediate, but after around a month, I noticed something was different and went with it.
 
I guess Bill Belicheck is about to know what married intimacy is all about.

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Much has been made lately about Bill Belichick's relationship with his girlfriend Jordon Hudson. As a result, it's not a surprise that a nugget buried in a fresh New York Times piece on the 24-year-old Hudson is gaining steam Tuesday. According to Times reporter Katherine Rosman, Belichick ...
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Much has been made lately about Bill Belichick's relationship with his girlfriend Jordon Hudson.

As a result, it's not a surprise that a nugget buried in a fresh New York Times piece on the 24-year-old Hudson is gaining steam Tuesday. According to Times reporter Katherine Rosman, Belichick and Hudson might actually be more than just boyfriend and girlfriend.

Reportedly there's reason to believe the pair are engaged.
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"Ms. Hudson has told at least one person that...
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  • LOL
 
AJUMP23 said:
I guess Bill Belicheck is about to know what married intimacy is all about.

Adapting

Thread 'Bill Belicheck Rumored to be engaged with his 24-year old girlfriend Jordon Hudson'

www.yahoo.com

Report: Bill Belichick's Girlfriend Revealed That They're Engaged

Much has been made lately about Bill Belichick's relationship with his girlfriend Jordon Hudson. As a result, it's not a surprise that a nugget buried in a fresh New York Times piece on the 24-year-old Hudson is gaining steam Tuesday. According to Times reporter Katherine Rosman, Belichick ...
www.yahoo.com www.yahoo.com

Much has been made lately about Bill Belichick's relationship with his girlfriend Jordon Hudson.

As a result, it's not a surprise that a nugget buried in a fresh New York Times piece on the 24-year-old Hudson is gaining steam Tuesday. According to Times reporter Katherine Rosman, Belichick and Hudson might actually be more than just boyfriend and girlfriend.

Reportedly there's reason to believe the pair are engaged.
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"Ms. Hudson has told at least one person that...
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  • LOL
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Now I have the mental image of Bill explaining their game plan for the nights romantic activities.
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What do you mean "you had sex with your wife"? Like...are you in the same room and she is watching you? This is confusing and strange....send pictures.
 
🤔very true.

My grandfather warned me as a teenager. He said women shut down sexually as they get older and to prepare myself. Thanks grandpa. The fear never left.
 
Northeastmonk said:
🤔very true.

My grandfather warned me as a teenager. He said women shut down sexually as they get older and to prepare myself. Thanks grandpa. The fear never left.
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Some do some don't. Luck of the draw after 50. Same for men. If you want to keep a woman in the mood, she needs a good environment to let loose. Kids interrupt that
 
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