Oh, I thought this thread died...goodie!
it's a bit late to go over everything, but I can answer this one fairly easily. When we are talking about sexual dimorphism, and "substantially larger" we are talking about a magnitude or more bigger.
so some examples, on average:
Gorillas: females 100 kg and males 175 kg
Lions: females 150 kg and males 225 kg
South American Sea Lions: females 150 kg and males 300 kg
Southern Elephant Seals: females 680 kg and males 2045 kg
Northern fur seals: females 60 kg and males 270 kg
Great Red Kangaroos: females 35 kg and males 85 kg
Sperm Whales: females 25,00 kg and males 50,000 kg
Humans (US): females ~62 kg males ~78.5 kg
See the difference? Even the species with the smallest difference that difference (75 kg) is about 165 lbs.
I'll try to get to your other questions tomorrow.
I follow you. Doesn't it partially matter what the weight is made up of, too? Human males tend to have less body fat and more muscle, etc. I'm concerned about the explanatory power this distinction has.
I don't necessarily disagree, but I think that X-Men is the wrong comparison. I've always kind of agreed with the Mutant Registration people since powers in the X-Men universe can include things like mind control or even just the ability to blow up entire city blocks at will.
I have always been on Magneto's side. Out with the old and in with the new, I always say!
My main problem with psychoanalysis is the assumption (from some) that the interpretations of behavior are correct.
A good psychoanalyst, by which I mean one who has been well educated (every profession has poorly educated people), does
not seek to interpret your behavior to you. That's bad analysis. Freud discovered this very early on in his work. Early on, he thought that the goal was for the analyst to figure out unconscious content and present it to the analyst, and then this would free everything up. This is not how good psychoanalysists work though, and Freud made that clear in later papers. There's even a derogatory term for it in the field: "id guessing".
Good analysis proceeds through ego reflection, in assisting the patient come to self-realization of how they think about things. For example, here are a few lines from one of Mr. A's sessions:
Mr. A: “Why would I want to tell you to fuck off? You haven't done anything but been here.”
Levenson: “Maybe that’s why.”
Mr. A: “Yes, you’re the doctor. Why haven’t you cured me? I’ve been waiting for you to fix me.”
This is right after Mr. A has had an outburst toward his analyst and said "Do I want to tell you to FUCK OFF!" There's a huge history here that I won't repeat unless you're extremely interested, but the point is that Levenson isn't trying to convince Mr. A of some kind of unconscious content, he's not "interpreting" Mr. A, he's offering him reflective feedback. The goal of a good analysis is to help the patient self-interpret.
In Mr. A's case, the idea that he was a feminist as a means to suppress aggressive tendencies was helpful. But so too could the idea that he was a feminist as a means to express his latent sexual desire for his mother.
A lot of it depends on what kind of psychoanalytic branch you ascribe to. Personally, I tend toward ego analysis, which means I place a lot of emphasis on self-interpretation. In other words: does it feel right to the patient once the connection is made by himself? Note that it would not work the same if the connection is drawn
for the patient. The analyst's job is to create moments of self-realization. An interpretation about sexual desire for the mother fits more in the lines of "id guessing". Maybe it's right, but who cares? It doesn't have any explanatory power for the patient, no one would go "oh, I want to fuck my mom, now I get it", and is then better off (unless that's an ever-present issue in the person's life).
Psychoanalysis can be a useful tool for treating certain behaviors, but I don't believe it is good for finding out the actual causes of a behavior.
In my opinion, the goal of psychoanalysis is not to treat behaviors or to find out causes of behavior, but rather to assist patients in becoming self-aware. The rest will come. That's really how it differs from cognitive/behavioral therapy. You might put it this way. Diseases have symptoms. If you're treating the symptoms, you're missing the bigger picture. If someone has a behavioral problem, it's for a reason. If you fix that problem, the symptom will manifest in another way. A good example: it's not a coincidence that the "cure" for alcoholism is turning to religion. They both perform the same kind of role in someone filled with self-loathing. The self-loathing is still there, but now it's being expressed in a way that most people wouldn't consider it to be a symptom of self-loathing, and so the person is thought to be "cured".
Meanwhile, just from reading studies it seems that cognitive/behavioral therapy is far more successful at treating certain behaviors than basic therapy centered around psychoanalysis.
I don't doubt that they often are more successful about treating certain behaviors, but I would not consider that a mark against psychoanalysis.
I've been reading a lot about this topic for the past months, glad I found this recent thread. Known that person for over 2 years now. My gut always had that feeling that something was wrong with her, but I never been able to identify it until recently. I wanted to label her, and she seemed to fit with the "alpha female' trait.
Until I read more about sociopathy. I actually am still "friend" with her, but now that I know what's going on behind her mind her sociopathic traits become so obvious.
Eight Ways to Spot Emotional Manipulation
The fun thing about that list is that it's prone to self-justification. Take for example this one:
"If you find yourself in a relationship where you figure you should start keeping a log of what’s been said because you are beginning to question your own sanity --You are experiencing emotional manipulation."
Contrast it with this, two sentences later:
"They can lie so smoothly that you can sit looking at black and they’ll call it white - and argue so persuasively that you begin to doubt your very senses."
If you were to bring a habitual liar's attention to his or her behavior, taking these sentences at face value would give them cause to think you're just being emotionally manipulative. Ironic.