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LGBTQIA+ |OT9| The Return of the Queen

Sai-kun

Banned
I've just been disillusioned, y'all. I really thought everyone on GAF was pro-LGBT and had our backs.

I love this forum (even though I'm lowkey such an annoying troll sometimes with my Lightning waifu love) and I still feel welcomed and safe on here, but it just really hurts to know that some people are so apathetic to our plight.

Not going to let it bring me down though. Gotta keep fighting!

all you gotta do is go into chik fil a threads to see nerds excitedly exclaiming how good it is and how they don't care
 
all you gotta do is go into chik fil a threads to see nerds excitedly exclaiming how good it is and how they don't care

I have fond memories of some fuck with a spongebob avatar doing a driveby post of "I loooooveeee their Polynesian sauce, gonna grab some for dinner :)" in a thread specifically about CFA donating to LGBT hate groups.
 
I still eat at Chik Fil Gay

#badgay

I've had it after that whole debacle as well. I'm fine with people not boycotting it. But going into a thread specifically about their contemptible endeavors and saying "lol I love them gonna grab them for lunch" is just stupid.
 

Replicant

Member
Had a great late night chat with a hot stranger (he looks a bit like Ryan Gosling) on the harbour over Pokemon Go of all things. But of course he's married as indicated by the ring on his finger. Is it wrong that I enjoyed the fact that he was standing way too close to me and his arm kept bumping onto me during our convo?

Don't know what a married man doing during 12am at night in the harbour area hunting Pokemon but damn, I kind of wish I could meet him again.
 

Vazra

irresponsible vagina leak
Little Mons†er;224294385 said:
Omg one of my hot flat mates turned out to be bi and I only found out by accident

Interesting development incoming
This sounds like a future sitcom
 
I've had a gnawing fear in the pit of my stomach ever since Trump won the election. At first I thought it was shock and a bit of me getting caught up in some hysteria. But it's not going away. I think about it every time i go to bed. I am afraid I am going to lose it at Thanksgiving when my Republican family brings up politics. Maybe I should step away from reading the news for awhile.
 

Kater

Banned
I've been getting really into LGBT History and stuff.

Anyone want to start a gay country with me?
It'd be smaller than Liechtenstein and still terribly divided. And remember, there's also LGBT people that wanted Trump to become president. Self-hatred is still big with a lot of queer and transgender people. Or maybe they really were under the illusion that Trump would help them. 😂

No, we need some big movements again instead. Not just petitions or one day per year where people like us run around with a parade. I don't think that will be enough to make us heard.
 

Crayons

Banned
I asked a friend how feminine I am and she said a little feminine so I'm going to get a knife in case someone tries and hate crimes my ass

It'd be smaller than Liechtenstein and still terribly divided. And remember, there's also LGBT people that wanted Trump to become president. Self-hatred is still big with a lot of queer and transgender people. Or maybe they really were under the illusion that Trump would help them. ��

No, we need some big movements again instead. Not just petitions or one day per year where people like us run around with a parade. I don't think that will be enough to make us heard.

Only 14%

Pretty irrelevant.
 

Razmos

Member
Still recovering from the hospital :(
Getting better though!

My boyfriend has been over to see me nearly every day, today he brought me Krispy Kreme doughnuts and cuddled me as I played the FFXV demo. I'm really liking him :)
 

Beefy

Member
Got accused of trying to break up a straight couple just because I chatted to them and I am bi. So annoying.
 

Beefy

Member
Still recovering from the hospital :(
Getting better though!

My boyfriend has been over to see me nearly every day, today he brought me Krispy Kreme doughnuts and cuddled me as I played the FFXV demo. I'm really liking him :)

Hope all goes well!
 
Ok I think i might have to move out and live in Mexico...not because of Dump but because of my parents and religion

Does Mexico even have any gay rights 😔
 

OrionX

Member
Little Mons†er;224294385 said:
Omg one of my hot flat mates turned out to be bi and I only found out by accident

Interesting development incoming

In my freshman year I shared a dorm room with three other guys. Just one big room, 4 beds, and a shared bathroom. They were all pretty hot. I basically spent that whole year wishing one of them would turn out to be gay.

My wish went unanswered, and I almost died of dehydration.

Good luck to you. xD
 

Kater

Banned
I asked a friend how feminine I am and she said a little feminine so I'm going to get a knife in case someone tries and hate crimes my ass
"Hate crime my ass" lol

Is that what gay porn studios will make now. "Trump supporter hate creams a twink".
 
In my freshman year I shared a dorm room with three other guys. Just one big room, 4 beds, and a shared bathroom. They were all pretty hot. I basically spent that whole year wishing one of them would turn out to be gay.

My wish went unanswered, and I almost died of dehydration.

Good luck to you. xD

Omg :(

That would've tortured me! I'm in a similarish situation atm. In one of my lecture seminars, there is this really hot guy there and I'm like "please be gay, please be gay..." but I have to accept the harsh reality he's straight :(
 

Kater

Banned
I'm totally serious tho, me and a gay friend were texting and we feel like we need something to protect ourselves now.
There's not much more for you to do besides being there for each other. It will get worse, but remember that it must become better. Stay strong.
 

Kater

Banned
Fighting violence with violence isn't a good path. As a last resort, maybe. But buying guns for self defense? Crazy. Learn how to diffuse situations, or how to avoid them. Better plan than fighting off bigots with a knife or any other kind of weapon. You'd just get yourself or others hurt or killed.
 

Crayons

Banned
Fighting violence with violence isn't a good path. As a last resort, maybe. But buying guns for self defense? Crazy. Learn how to diffuse situations, or how to avoid them. Better plan than fighting off bigots with a knife or any other kind of weapon. You'd just get yourself or others hurt or killed.

I'm not picking fights. I'm semi-openly gay. I can be a target at any time. It's for my safety, not for starting fights.
 
Fighting violence with violence isn't a good path. As a last resort, maybe. But buying guns for self defense? Crazy. Learn how to diffuse situations, or how to avoid them. Better plan than fighting off bigots with a knife or any other kind of weapon. You'd just get yourself or others hurt or killed.

I'm personally not going to carry, but I don't really think diffusing is always an option. I agree that not escalating it yourself is always an option, but sometimes the other party escalates no matter what you do. And avoidance is somewhat ridiculous. LGBT clubs and bars could be at risk of attack. Holding hands with your significant other puts you at risk. We should not have to hide in the shadows. Going back into the closet is less preferable to me than LGBT individuals beginning to conceal carry en masse.
 

Vazra

irresponsible vagina leak
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Andrew Papadopoulos

Whew
 
There are literally people out there going up to minorities unprovoked starting altercations, I am all for people defending themselves.
This is about survival and if it means at any cost so be it.

I am not one for violence but in these trying times it's just not an option to simply avoid for some people.
 

Crayons

Banned
I'm personally not going to carry, but I don't really think diffusing is always an option. I agree that not escalating it yourself is always an option, but sometimes the other party escalates no matter what you do. And avoidance is somewhat ridiculous. LGBT clubs and bars could be at risk of attack. Holding hands with your significant other puts you at risk. We should not have to hide in the shadows. Going back into the closet is less preferable to me than LGBT individuals beginning to conceal carry en masse.

i agree 100%
 

Kater

Banned
I'm personally not going to carry, but I don't really think diffusing is always an option. I agree that not escalating it yourself is always an option, but sometimes the other party escalates no matter what you do. And avoidance is somewhat ridiculous. LGBT clubs and bars could be at risk of attack. Holding hands with your significant other puts you at risk. We should not have to hide in the shadows. Going back into the closet is less preferable to me than LGBT individuals beginning to conceal carry en masse.
So what, make the LGBT movement a small army in the right wing / conservative press' eyes? Police would shoot LGBT protesters more often then - just in case they'd say - out of fear, to avoid any deaths on the police's side. As would the bigots who bully us. Don't invite any unnecessary deaths, try to stay calm and find another way to resolve things, or find a way to escape, or, as I said, avoid situations alltogether. I don't mean you shouldn't hold hands, in the bigger cities it probably isn't a big problem anyway, but to avoid the bigots who already seem like the violent type. Be cautious. You won't be safe, not even with a gun. It's a waste of money. Guns always never de-escalate situations, and certainly not in the hands of untrained civilians.
 

Laiza

Member
I would recommend pepper spray as it's a much easier way to disable perpetrators without causing permanent injury, plus the nature of it as a spray makes it easy to use in situations where you're outnumbered.

If you're using a gun or a knife for self-defense you must be absolutely prepared to kill your aggressors. I really do not recommend it. You might come out alive, but it will fuck you up mentally for life (and depending on how stacked the court and evidence are against you, you might also lose your freedom). Pepper spray is a much safer option all-around. Less lethal, quick, not nearly as loud as a gun, no bleeding everywhere, etc., etc.

In general, guns are a piss-poor option for self-defense. The fact that the NRA has managed to perpetuate a myth that guns are great for self-defense is one of the saddest tragedies of our country. They're great for killing things. They are not great for anything else.

Keep yourself safe, but at least be smart about it.
 

Vazra

irresponsible vagina leak
So what, make the LGBT movement a small army in the right wing / conservative press' eyes? Police would shoot LGBT protesters more often then - just in case they'd say - out of fear, to avoid any deaths on the police's side. As would the bigots who bully us. Don't invite any unnecessary deaths, try to stay calm and find another way to resolve things, or find a way to escape, or, as I said, avoid situations alltogether. I don't mean you shouldn't hold hands, in the bigger cities it probably isn't a big problem anyway, but to avoid the bigots who already seem like the violent type. Be cautious. You won't be safe, not even with a gun. It's a waste of money. Guns always never de-escalate situations, and certainly not in the hands of untrained civilians.
We still may get killed so why not at least try to survive? Unnecessary deaths are already happening so why not put a fight for survival? In the end those who hates us with or without weapons they will attack us so what wrong are we doing in defending ourselves? In a perfect world none of this would happen but your view seems rather unrealistic with the way things are developing now. Is it better to lose your life without a fight just because you want the pacifist route? Not really. Every life matters and everyone if needed must fight to stay alive cause every life matters and just because some bigots want to take some lives over disagreements that doesnt mean we have to stay quiet and take it because sadly racism and homophobia is strong and we need to keep ourselves safe.

Also how well did the non violence worked in the end for Martin Luther King? And how well did some other non violent protest have ended with people being beat up and murdered? Im sorry but we can't just sit there waiting for a miracle to fix this.
 
.Guns always never de-escalate situations, and certainly not in the hands of untrained civilians.

I know I cut out the rest of your post, but this line in particular is concerning to me. The whole point/mission statement of the Pink Pistols is to provide competent firearms training to civilians. Yes, you should never be using a gun untrained.

I would recommend pepper spray as it's a much easier way to disable perpetrators without causing permanent injury, plus the nature of it as a spray makes it easy to use in situations where you're outnumbered.

If you're using a gun or a knife for self-defense you must be absolutely prepared to kill your aggressors. I really do not recommend it. You might come out alive, but it will fuck you up mentally for life (and depending on how stacked the court and evidence are against you, you might also lose your freedom). Pepper spray is a much safer option all-around. Less lethal, quick, not nearly as loud as a gun, no bleeding everywhere, etc., etc.

In general, guns are a piss-poor option for self-defense. The fact that the NRA has managed to perpetuate a myth that guns are great for self-defense is one of the saddest tragedies of our country. They're great for killing things. They are not great for anything else.

Keep yourself safe, but at least be smart about it.

I agree that pepper spray is likely the better option. Guns statistically don't actually make you safer.
 
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