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LGBTQIA+ |OT9| The Return of the Queen
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Dead Prince
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Hi LGBTQIA+ GAF, been lurking for a bit. I'll probably stick to lurking for now, but figured I should at least fill out the icebreaker questionnaire. :3
Your gender? Male
Your sexual orientation? Bi
Where Are You From? DR
Where Do You Live? NY
How Old Are you? 30
Favorite Type of Music? None really.
Profession or Career interest? Can't say what, but I'm in a decent career.
Favorite video game(s)? Final Fantasy Tactics, Resident Evil, Metal Gear Solid, character action games to name a few.
What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? Biking (when it's warm), Anime, Manga, Tabletop games
Your gender? Male
Your sexual orientation? Bi
Where Are You From? DR
Where Do You Live? NY
How Old Are you? 30
Favorite Type of Music? None really.
Profession or Career interest? Can't say what, but I'm in a decent career.
Favorite video game(s)? Final Fantasy Tactics, Resident Evil, Metal Gear Solid, character action games to name a few.
What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? Biking (when it's warm), Anime, Manga, Tabletop games
Little Monser
Banned
Hello! I'm recently new to the thread too!
Via Purifico
Banned
Welcome to the OT, always nice to see fresh faces.
Little Monser
Banned
I hate going to straight clubs because that's where all the hotties are but you know they're straight and it's like such a tease.
At least I can appreciate the hottness at least...
At least I can appreciate the hottness at least...
If this thread turns into pokemutts, I'm going to shot myself. 🤕
Aarglefarg
Member
No time like the present. 😀
Maybe they aren't straight.Little Monser;224940417 said:
Hi there 😺
I mean, it's your money and you've probably already decided anyway, but I wonder why an Atheist would consider buying a Christmas tree. Or would you buy it for someone else's sake?
You won't get invited as much for drinks either there.Little Monser;224940417 said:
Little Monser
Banned
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Little Monser;224902446 said:An update about the "boy upstairs"... our conversations on Grindr is getting into 'want to get to know you/ we could be friends/banter' territory and it's confusing because he's looking for a 'No Strings Attached' sort of thing and I'm really confused at the moment. One of my flat mates was talking to the same guy on Grindr (but it didn't amount to anything) and he was telling me their chats were "quite intense" but that's not happening with me... I'm just quite confused about the whole thing tbh, maybe I'm just over thinking it too much? I'm just confused on what this guy wants from me...
Get it!
Good, ain't nobody stopping you.
Popplio is love, Popplio is life.
That gif is literally the only thing to come out of that horrid season of trash. But it's already iconic.
Hi neighbor, I'm from New York too. The city, or elsewhere?
Currently in Yonkers, but I'm planning on moving to Queens in January.
Your gender? Male
Your sexual orientation? Bi
Where Are You From? UK
Where Do You Live? Southampton/London
How Old Are you? 24
Favorite Type of Music? Hip Hop and Reggae
Profession or Career interest? I want to become a Personal Trainer
Favorite video game(s)? Battlefield 1, The Witcher (all of them), Red Faction 1, Uncharted 4.
What are your hobbies (other than gaming)? Gyming, playing and watching football (soccer), boxing and watching a lot of movies.
Sweeney Tom
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2 of my fav celebs (Lauren Jauregui of Fifth Harmony and Bex Taylor-Klaus from MTV's Scream) joined the out fam <3
Whenever someone mentions Yonkers, I immediately think of the Battle of Yonkers in the book World War Z. I had never heard of that city before, and I thought it was such a funny name.
Bex Taylor-Klaus was becoming the female Colton Haynes. Everyone knew.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Watch 'Show Me a Hero'.
Aarglefarg
Member
Excellent! I know about Southampton from it giving the world a popular (high google ranking) Klein Grid webpage <3. http://sid.southampton.gov.uk/kb5/s...advice.page?id=RsuF5ehfWvQ&familychannel=10-4
I assumed Bex Taylor-Klaus was out because I read an interview asking her what it was like playing a bi-curious character rather than a lesbian was like.
I watched the Scream TV series in large part because of her and also Noah.
I bought many things out of a feeling of nostalgia and everytime I felt like a fool for falling for that feeling again.. Nostalgia isn't a good reason to spend money on something that very likely will mean very little to you anyway, if you ask me.
I can understand doing it because you want to honor the tradition however. Or maybe for visitors and children, if you have one.
Nice.. 😳 I mean, good for you! 😅Zero²;224963367 said:
Booker.DeWitt
Member
guys, serious question here and please, I am not trying to be rude , please. what is the definition of non binary, I read the op and could not really understand. I have a known colleague that calls himself nonbinary, but I was afraid to ask what is it, I did not know he would get offended. Is the same as bisexual?
Butterfly Witch
Member
Bisexuality is about who you are attracted to, not what gender you are. Someone who is non-binary means they don't see themselves as either male or female, both or somewhere in between.
Booker.DeWitt
Member
so how that translates in terms of sexual attraction? they can like Men, or women or both?
Sexual attraction isn't determined by gender identity. NB people can primarily be attracted to men, women, both, more than both, or have no sexual attraction at all. Contrariwise, gender identity isn't determined by sexual attraction.
Butterfly Witch
Member
Pretty much.
Being non-binary doesn't limit them to be attracted to specific people any more than being a man or a woman. They're completely separate things.
Booker.DeWitt
Member
I see, that makes sense. thanks.
Being nb is suffering 😞
I'm never really sure what others will think of it, I know who I'm attracted to but I never really know how others would see me, like if I met a nice guy who was gay and only attracted to men would he then be put off by me sometimes wanting to identify as a woman or not? Maybe I'm overthinking it but it's kinda confusing sometimes
I'm never really sure what others will think of it, I know who I'm attracted to but I never really know how others would see me, like if I met a nice guy who was gay and only attracted to men would he then be put off by me sometimes wanting to identify as a woman or not? Maybe I'm overthinking it but it's kinda confusing sometimes
Does it still work if you say you are gay, yet you also see yourself as non-binary when it comes to gender? At that point it wouldn't really be same-sex attraction anymore, no?
You'd use something like "queer" then, something more vague and open I'd imagine. Maybe I'm wrong but seeing as I have faced that question myself, that's the answer I came up for myself.
Many are still opposed to that among gay men, the macho culture is still going strong. There's more niche's for gentle folk though that want something else. Don't let first impressions sour you on the whole community.
You'd use something like "queer" then, something more vague and open I'd imagine. Maybe I'm wrong but seeing as I have faced that question myself, that's the answer I came up for myself.
There's people out there that will be understanding but also many that aren't, that's just the reality of it.
Many are still opposed to that among gay men, the macho culture is still going strong. There's more niche's for gentle folk though that want something else. Don't let first impressions sour you on the whole community.
Pamplemousse
Member
Guys around me are really picky about it. I was scolded for using the word "blowie" instead of blow job. He said it was "less masculine." He was so sexy too. What a shame.
If that upset him, he'd hate my voice. It's terrible. There's nothing more horrible than being a minority within a minority. Only 10% of the population is even gay, but of that, only a tiny percentage can't pass. I get to hear about these people coming out, and I fucking hate them. They think they have it so rough. I don't even have to come out. Everyone just knows because every time I open my mouth a gay pride parade comes out of it. Nobody takes you seriously when you're like this. You're just a joke to them.
I'm so sick of being like this. It's so unfair. If only I could change it. I'd be so happy.
chronos4590
Member
Welcome! fellow NY here too!
Via Purifico
Banned
Dude from Kotaku blowing up Verendus' spot in the FFXV thread is magical.
Link to those posts?
Blood Diamonds
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Via Purifico
Banned
I don't get it either so you are at least not alone in not knowing.
My thought's exactly. Queer also translates to "Anders" in German, meaning "different". I think it's fitting, heh. x)
I wouldn't worry too much about it until something came up. Don't overthink these things, I made that mistake myself quite often. Don't let that fear grow and overshadow things.
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