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LGBTQIA+ |OT9| The Return of the Queen

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Aarglefarg

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Beth Cyra said:
Hadn't voted but yep this is what I was getting at. Honestly with so little lesbian presence I can't really blame Gaf for he lack of feeling like there is heavy lesbian representation in the thread.
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I wonder what it would show if there were male and female options as well as the genderqueer and trans and cis options, since a few of the options aren't gendered.
mantidor said:
I've mentioned it before, but while I don't consider myself trans at all, I don't feel "cis" to be honest, not 100% anyway. I don't give it much thought now but it was torture growing up, I just wanted to be agendered, if such thing exists.

It's funny, I even have a beard now, but it's more for other personal reasons than me liking my masculinity, I really don't like it, I merely tolerate it.
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Agender is a thing. :)
WonderzL said:
Could you make another one for more current results?
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I didn't make this and I don't have an account with that site. Maybe Sibylus would like to make another one, or not. I wouldn't want to step on her toes. It's not exactly old.
 
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KmA

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I literally made plans with three different guys for every day of the weekend and they all bailed on me one by one...

But in response I have made plans with three different guys over the course of this week!
 
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Gibbs

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Happy birthday Brawly Likes to Brawl! Enjoy all the cake! =) Moms are the best!

WonderzL said:
Just received hate mail from a student that didn't pass. I am crying so hard. This must be the toughest job in the world. She wrote so many lies and horrible things about me
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Oh dude =( When I read this yesterday my heart broke. I truly apologize I wasn't on Whatsapp much yesterday.

Just know you are a fantastic teacher, and you didn't fail that student, that student failed you. Theres differences in being humble, accepting you tried your best.. but if said female student was struggling, she should have come to you for help. Not your fault. Chin up! Smile! You got this. Be thankful for all your other students!
 
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Aarglefarg

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I found out yesterday that Dani DaOrtiz, one of the best card magicians in the world, will be performing and lecturing in my city for the first time next week. I bought tickets to both his show and a lecture.

I have bought a few videos of his lectures in recent weeks and months and I think I posted a performance of his in this thread recently so it's a big coincidence.
 
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Brawly Likes to Brawl

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You Are Viewtiful said:
Happy belated birthday!
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RatskyWatsky said:
Happy Birthday Brawly!
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Aarglefarg said:
Happy birthday brawly for yesterday (? timezones)! May you have many victorious brawls.
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Gibbs said:
Happy birthday Brawly Likes to Brawl! Enjoy all the cake! =) Moms are the best!



Oh dude =( When I read this yesterday my heart broke. I truly apologize I wasn't on Whatsapp much yesterday.

Just know you are a fantastic teacher, and you didn't fail that student, that student failed you. Theres differences in being humble, accepting you tried your best.. but if said female student was struggling, she should have come to you for help. Not your fault. Chin up! Smile! You got this. Be thankful for all your other students!
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Thanks a bunch, everyone. It was nice.
 
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Eusis

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I voted, especially in light of the results of some introspection and conversing with others.

I do kind of feel like sexuality should've been something like into males/females/either/neither because can't women into women technically pick off both gay and lesbian?
 
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Aarglefarg

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Eusis said:
I voted, especially in light of the results of some introspection and conversing with others.

I do kind of feel like sexuality should've been something like into males/females/either/neither because can't women into women technically pick off both gay and lesbian?
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I can't remember for sure since I voted last November but I might have gone pan as well as definitely bi and cis.

Lesbians have almost doubled in the poll between yesterday and today, from 6 to 11.
 
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RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
Last night I watched episode 2 of Gaycation - the one where Ellen Page met with the former cop who is also a serial killer of queer people.

...

D:
 
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mantidor

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Cewyn said:
Nah, it definitely wasn't staged, and there are many more cops like him all over Latin America.
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From where are you basing this? Latinamerica is difficult but you make it sound like it it's a lawless land when that it's definitely not the case. I also felt it was staged/exaggerated, I say this as someone who lives in Rio.
 
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Prototype Viktor

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You know all these drug commerical s are targeting the wrong women. They all say don't take when pregnant and straight women are the only ones that could accidentally get pregnant while taking their drug. But there are only hetrosexual white couples in the commercials
 
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Kevyt

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mantidor said:
From where are you basing this? Latinamerica is difficult but you make it sound like it it's a lawless land when that it's definitely not the case. I also felt it was staged/exaggerated, I say this as someone who lives in Rio.
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In small villages/rural areas it happens quite often. There was a mexican journalist who would document this in a small town of mexico but the place got overrun by drug cartels and he was never heard of. Same thing in Central America and parts of rural South America such as Bolivia. We actually have heard stories from LGBT folks escaping persecution by the own state (police, the military), especially trans individuals (I work with a non-profit that works with immigrant LGBT individuals in the United States).

So yeah... its horrible. I don't suspect this is common in big cities. But small/rural areas? you bet...
 
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Bladenic

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In less savory news, this one wrestling video that's gotten me off like daily for the past month is gone from pornhub 😫😫😫 along with some other good ones so I guess the account got deleted RIP
 
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Aarglefarg

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Bladenic said:
In less savory news, this one wrestling video that's gotten me off like daily for the past month is gone from pornhub 😫😫😫 along with some other good ones so I guess the account got deleted RIP
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You can cry on my shoulder if you want.

There can never be enough wrestling.
 
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Kevyt

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Bladenic said:
In less savory news, this one wrestling video that's gotten me off like daily for the past month is gone from pornhub 😫😫😫 along with some other good ones so I guess the account got deleted RIP
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It's probably posted somewhere else.

And lol
 
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Vazduh

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NewDust said:
So I am (a male) predominantly am into the girl physique, but more than open into trans... What does that make me...
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NewDust said:
So I am (a male) predominantly am into the girl physique, but more than open into trans... What does that make me...
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I think that just means you are straight and not hung up on bad gender conventions that close doors

But I'd be glad to hear a trans GAFer articulate their opinion on it
 
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Aarglefarg

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NewDust said:
So I am (a male) predominantly am into the girl physique, but more than open into trans... What does that make me...
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Assuming you mean trans women?
And assuming 'predominantly' means you mainly attracted to cis women and also attracted to trans women, and not also attracted to other people...

You are a heterosexual. Nice to meet you.
 
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NewDust

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Aarglefarg said:
Assuming you mean trans women?
And assuming 'predominantly' means you mainly attracted to cis women and also attracted to trans women, and not also attracted to other people...

You are a heterosexual. Nice to meet you.
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Trans women, yes. But I feel like I'm more in touch with trans women than cis women. I'd wish I just could get to meet some open personality to really talk about it... But that seems kinda difficult.
 
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Beth Cyra

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NewDust said:
Trans women, yes. But I feel like I'm more in touch with trans women than cis women. I'd wish I just could get to meet some open personality to really talk about it... But that seems kinda difficult.
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Maybe not as hard as you'd think.

Many Trans Women are straight and are very much open to dating so long as you approach them like women and not as a fetish.

Granted I'm as Fem stick lesbian as they come but if you have questions about your attraction, how that effects you and want to learn about Trans women you can certainly ask here or in the Yrans thread. Just be careful it doesn't cross a line into you fethisizing then as we can be really sensitive to it.....well some of us.

I don't care but I'm the very definition of a sick bitch.
 
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Sibylus

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Eusis said:
I voted, especially in light of the results of some introspection and conversing with others.

I do kind of feel like sexuality should've been something like into males/females/either/neither because can't women into women technically pick off both gay and lesbian?
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That is a good point.
 
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NewDust

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Beth Cyra said:
Maybe not as hard as you'd think.

Many Trans Women are straight and are very much open to dating so long as you approach them like women and not as a fetish.

Granted I'm as Fem stick lesbian as they come but if you have questions about your attraction, how that effects you and want to learn about Trans women you can certainly ask here or in the Yrans thread. Just be careful it doesn't cross a line into you fethisizing then as we can be really sensitive to it.....well some of us.

I don't care but I'm the very definition of a sick bitch.
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I don't think it is even sexual. I just feel I (want to) have a certain connection with certain trans woman I see online. Not sexually, but genuinely a certain warmth to their personality., even though I don't know them in the slightest. It might be weird to out names, but ever since I saw Samantha Kalman online, it felt like she opened my eyes, that there might be something out there I might be more connected to.

Even though I'm very much not into online dating, or dating at all, I wish services weren't so "cis-specific".
 
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Aarglefarg

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NewDust said:
I don't think it is even sexual. I just feel I (want to) have a certain connection with certain trans woman I see online. Not sexually, but genuinely a certain warmth to their personality., even though I don't know them in the slightest. It might be weird to out names, but ever since I saw Samantha Kalman online, it felt like she opened my eyes, that there might be something out there I might be more connected to.

Even though I'm very much not into online dating, or dating at all, I wish services weren't so "cis-specific".
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Sounds like you have a friendship crush on the idea of someone?

Just keep grounded and know that putting someone, or a specific group, on a pedestal can be unhealthy.
 
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NewDust

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Aarglefarg said:
Sounds like you have a friendship crush on the idea of someone?

Just keep grounded and know that putting someone, or a specific group, on a pedestal can be unhealthy.
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I think this is very much the gist of it. It's why I think meeting someone more open to "normal gender conventions" could help me out. Even with certain gay/lesbian personalities in my social circle, this topic seems very much unspeakable. And while I know certain people aren't in reach, let alone be i the same country.... Err I don;t even know ow to finish this sentence...

Are these (semi)drunk post? Yes, but nevertheless genuine. You might not see me here for a while, or maybe ever, but when/if I return I hope to have made things more clear for myself.

in the meantime...
 
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Beth Cyra

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NewDust said:
I think this is very much the gist of it. It's why I think meeting someone more open to "normal gender conventions" could help me out. Even with certain gay/lesbian personalities in my social circle, this topic seems very much unspeakable. And while I know certain people aren't in reach, let alone be i the same country.... Err I don;t even know ow to finish this sentence...

Are these (semi)drunk post? Yes, but nevertheless genuine. You might not see me here for a while, or maybe ever, but when/if I return I hope to have made things more clear for myself.

in the meantime...
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Well I will say this New, we have a few people who come into the Trans thread, ask questions and are met with positivity be they axis or otherwise.

So long as you join are repectful you can certainly try to talk with them there.
 
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Haly

One day I realized that sadness is just another word for not enough coffee.
Welcome to the Ballroom isn't really yaoi at all, everyone is just designed like giraffes and that's coincidentally true of yaoi. Also twitch picked it up because reasons.

Yuri on Ice is fab.
 
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