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LGBTQIA+ |OT9| The Return of the Queen

everyone is swiping right without even looking. if they match they either ignore or wait for you to respond but most likely they won't even talk to you.
Got 3 matches so far. Ive been actually talking to one of them, he seems nice. So not a total waste of time i guess?

Atm im not looking for a quick fuck (I was not in my right mind that night I swear!), tho if i ever am i'll try out grindr. I will probably do that shortly after I move out tbh...
 
There is this article by this guy (Eliel Cruz) about straight men swiping right on his profile where he lists himself as a woman but everything else about the profile shows he is a man.

Heaps of straight men swiped right and he started a conversation with them and some were horrified but others were dtf.

https://m.mic.com/articles/108998/h...ges-his-gender-on-tinder-to-female#.sJHhCqpYH
Sounds like my experience on OKC.

I'm listed to be seen by straight guys. Fuck them for removing visitor feature
 

Astral Dog

Member
I just posted almost a hundred photos from the Montreal Pride Parade this weekend (I've been photographing the parade in Vancouver every year since 2011, but relocated to Montreal last month).

Photographing the parade is always one of my favourite things to do each year. The photos are all free for non-commercial use by anyone for the promotion of the LGBTQ community -- if anyone wants a larger version of anything, they can just give me a shout.

http://peopleofpride.ca
Those photos :O

the parades always look amazing thank you for taking them they surely be used for more promotion :^)
 
not these guys on grindr hitting me up now because i have an old ass picture from myspace days where i look like a white twink

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Gibbs

Member
not these guys on grindr hitting me up now because i have an old ass picture from myspace days where i look like a white twink

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Take it and enjoy it haha :D.

All I get on Grindr are creepers or guys that are HIV+ wanting to breed me. Like fucking really.
 

Gibbs

Member

I've had a few in the past 48 hours. I'm not against dating someone who has it and who takes medication, but I am extremely cautious and in a sense turns me away at first.

Theres one guy who I know who wanted me to do him bare and swore up and down I would not get infected as he was on meds. Like fuck I'm taking that risk.
 

Gibbs

Member
Someone asked me if I party and I said Im antisocial. Lol

<3333

Grindr is creepy af. Well, I guess guys are in general, straight or gay.

Correct. There are some nice guys I have talked to that did not address sex but they are in the rare side of things.

I can't believe these people exist. I don't use Grindr but I've already decided that if I hear about bb on any platform that person gets an instant rejection.

Oh they exist... unfortunately. Anytime it starts with sex and I ignore it immediately.
Unless its Crayons, then I am all in. All hail the crayola.
 

Sianos

Member
There is this article by this guy (Eliel Cruz) about straight men swiping right on his profile where he lists himself as a woman but everything else about the profile shows he is a man.

Heaps of straight men swiped right and he started a conversation with them and some were horrified but others were dtf.

https://m.mic.com/articles/108998/h...ges-his-gender-on-tinder-to-female#.sJHhCqpYH

This article is giving me life. I'm always glad to see evidence of the heteronormative freeze on male gender expression and sexuality thawing.
 
Coworker came up.

Decided to look thru pics.

Accidentally swiped right.

Tried to undo.

Paid $10 out of desperation.

Couldnt undo anyways.

Disabled Show Me On Tinder.

Im smooth, a true alpha male mirite?
 
Your gender? Your sexual identity?

Biologically woman, but trans male (I'm looking into starting my transition here in Ireland)

Your sexual orientation?

As a woman, straight, but once I transition, I'd be gay (since I'd still be attracted to men)

Where Are You From?

Ireland

Where Do You Live?

Still in Ireland, but I would like to move to London

How Old Are you?

35 next month

Favorite Type of Music?

Pop, rock

Profession or Career interest?

Teaching, either chemistry or Spanish (I have an interest in both)

Favorite video game(s)?

Pokemon SoulSilver and Black and Black 2, Dragon Quest V, Final Fantasy IV and V and IX, Ace Attorney, The World Ends With You, Persona 4, Picross in general, Chrono Trigger, Star Ocean: First Departure, The Legend of Heroes: Trails in the Sky, Shin Megami Tensei: Persona Q: Shadow of the Labyrinth, Radiant Historia, Shin Megami Tensei: Strange Journey, Xenoblade Chronicles, Yakuza series

What are your hobbies (other than gaming)?

I like to read, listen to music and go to the the cinema alone, because of things and shyness and anxiety, I ended being a bit of a loner. But I would like to come out of my shell and that's one of the reasons I'm posting here!
 
Favorite video game(s)?

Pokemon SoulSilver and Black and Black 2, Dragon Quest V, Final Fantasy IV and V and IX, Ace Attorney, The World Ends With You, Persona 4, Picross in general, Chrono Trigger, Star Ocean: First Departure, The Legend of Heroes: Trails in the Sky, Shin Megami Tensei: Persona Q: Shadow of the Labyrinth, Radiant Historia, Shin Megami Tensei: Strange Journey, Xenoblade Chronicles, Yakuza series

What are your hobbies (other than gaming)?

I like to read, listen to music and go to the the cinema alone, because of things and shyness and anxiety, I ended being a bit of a loner. But I would like to come out of my shell and that's one of the reasons I'm posting here!
Welcome!

Yay for Dragon Quest in particular!

I wonder, how do you think/feel about Faris in FFV?

This article is giving me life. I'm always glad to see evidence of the heteronormative freeze on male gender expression and sexuality thawing.
Maybe it isn't even thawing but it had always been like this. Maybe.
 
Your gender? Your sexual identity?

Biologically woman, but trans male (I'm looking into starting my transition here in Ireland)

Your sexual orientation?

As a woman, straight, but once I transition, I'd be gay (since I'd still be attracted to men)

Where Are You From?

Ireland

Where Do You Live?

Still in Ireland, but I would like to move to London

How Old Are you?

35 next month

Favorite Type of Music?

Pop, rock

Profession or Career interest?

Teaching, either chemistry or Spanish (I have an interest in both)

Favorite video game(s)?

Pokemon SoulSilver and Black and Black 2, Dragon Quest V, Final Fantasy IV and V and IX, Ace Attorney, The World Ends With You, Persona 4, Picross in general, Chrono Trigger, Star Ocean: First Departure, The Legend of Heroes: Trails in the Sky, Shin Megami Tensei: Persona Q: Shadow of the Labyrinth, Radiant Historia, Shin Megami Tensei: Strange Journey, Xenoblade Chronicles, Yakuza series

What are your hobbies (other than gaming)?

I like to read, listen to music and go to the the cinema alone, because of things and shyness and anxiety, I ended being a bit of a loner. But I would like to come out of my shell and that's one of the reasons I'm posting here!
We have the same taste in games, it's nice to meet you!
 

Gibbs

Member
I'm at the gym doing cardio and this old man who has been hitting on me on pof is here and staring at me. He offered to spoil me with his riches and ugh it doesn't look like he has riches.

I think being all sweaty is turning him on &#128557;&#128557;&#128557;

Send help.
 
I'm at the gym doing cardio and this old man who has been hitting on me on pof is here and staring at me. He offered to spoil me with his riches and ugh it doesn't look like he has riches.

I think being all sweaty is turning him on &#128557;&#128557;&#128557;

Send help.

if he has a polo shirt wrapped around his neck he def rich.

i had a couple of guys on grindr try to "tap" me while i was at the gym. i got no time for yall.
 

B-Dex

Member
I'm at the gym doing cardio and this old man who has been hitting on me on pof is here and staring at me. He offered to spoil me with his riches and ugh it doesn't look like he has riches.

I think being all sweaty is turning him on &#128557;&#128557;&#128557;

Send help.

Send nudes if you all sweaty. Then I'll help. &#128526;
 

Gibbs

Member
if he has a polo shirt wrapped around his neck he def rich.

i had a couple of guys on grindr try to "tap" me while i was at the gym. i got no time for yall.

No polo shirt. He was wearing an orange shirt with some business writing, and khaki shorts. He is in his late 50s to early 60s.

When I'm working out, I just don't pay attention to anyone or anything. I've had people try to talk to me and nope, not when I'm working out Susan. Sorry.

Send nudes if you all sweaty. Then I'll help. &#128526;

If I was attractive enough.... i so would have done it. =(
 

Sianos

Member
Maybe it isn't even thawing but it had always been like this. Maybe.
Oh, to be more accurate I was referring specifically to a thawing of societal attitudes and cultural suppression of gender and sexual orientation fluidity. I want more men to feel safe and comfortable expressing those feelings publicly.

One of the men I wish felt more safe and comfortable is me. Is it okay to not fill out the entire introduction post? I want to share more with the GAF LGBTQIA+ community but I'm not publicly out in real life except to a few close friends I trust. Sadly, familial circumstances are leaving me uncomfortable being open about my sexuality outside of places where I feel safe for the next couple years.
 

Gibbs

Member
Your gender? Your sexual identity?

Biologically woman, but trans male (I'm looking into starting my transition here in Ireland)

Your sexual orientation?

As a woman, straight, but once I transition, I'd be gay (since I'd still be attracted to men)

Where Are You From?

Ireland

Where Do You Live?

Still in Ireland, but I would like to move to London

How Old Are you?

35 next month

Favorite Type of Music?

Pop, rock

Profession or Career interest?

Teaching, either chemistry or Spanish (I have an interest in both)

Favorite video game(s)?

Pokemon SoulSilver and Black and Black 2, Dragon Quest V, Final Fantasy IV and V and IX, Ace Attorney, The World Ends With You, Persona 4, Picross in general, Chrono Trigger, Star Ocean: First Departure, The Legend of Heroes: Trails in the Sky, Shin Megami Tensei: Persona Q: Shadow of the Labyrinth, Radiant Historia, Shin Megami Tensei: Strange Journey, Xenoblade Chronicles, Yakuza series

What are your hobbies (other than gaming)?

I like to read, listen to music and go to the the cinema alone, because of things and shyness and anxiety, I ended being a bit of a loner. But I would like to come out of my shell and that's one of the reasons I'm posting here!

Hey! Welcome! =)
 

Kevyt

Member
Oh, to be more accurate I was referring specifically to a thawing of societal attitudes and cultural suppression of gender and sexual orientation fluidity. I want more men to feel safe and comfortable expressing those feelings publicly.

One of the men I wish felt more safe and comfortable is me. Is it okay to not fill out the entire introduction post? I want to share more with the GAF LGBTQIA+ community but I'm not publicly out in real life except to a few close friends I trust. Sadly, familial circumstances are leaving me uncomfortable being open about my sexuality outside of places where I feel safe for the next couple years.

Yup of course. It's up to folks to decide if they want to share or not :)

And welcome! o/
 

RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
Your gender? Your sexual identity?

Biologically woman, but trans male (I'm looking into starting my transition here in Ireland)

Your sexual orientation?

As a woman, straight, but once I transition, I'd be gay (since I'd still be attracted to men)

Where Are You From?

Ireland

Where Do You Live?

Still in Ireland, but I would like to move to London

How Old Are you?

35 next month

Favorite Type of Music?

Pop, rock

Profession or Career interest?

Teaching, either chemistry or Spanish (I have an interest in both)

Favorite video game(s)?

Pokemon SoulSilver and Black and Black 2, Dragon Quest V, Final Fantasy IV and V and IX, Ace Attorney, The World Ends With You, Persona 4, Picross in general, Chrono Trigger, Star Ocean: First Departure, The Legend of Heroes: Trails in the Sky, Shin Megami Tensei: Persona Q: Shadow of the Labyrinth, Radiant Historia, Shin Megami Tensei: Strange Journey, Xenoblade Chronicles, Yakuza series

What are your hobbies (other than gaming)?

I like to read, listen to music and go to the the cinema alone, because of things and shyness and anxiety, I ended being a bit of a loner. But I would like to come out of my shell and that's one of the reasons I'm posting here!

Welcome!
 
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