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[shuri]

* cue dawson's creek theme

I talked about this on irc with the #ga dwellers, so i'm looking for more insight on the subject.

So i recently got an offer from a friend of mine to move out of my hell hole where I live *aka with the family*. That person is going out of a relationship, and cant stand living with the former loved one. Doesnt want to live alone, so the potential roomate asked me if I wanted to join in the adventure! , since i already expressed a few times lately my willingness to move out of the sanity hole that has become the family house

Few potential problems:

- She's a really good friend of mine. But we're not all that neutral. Movin in with a cute girl that loves cooking and is very homely is fun! But all you guys know its gonna be roughtwhen/if we start bringing eventual -special- people home, its gonna go to shit

- She's a / was? a really close friend of.. the famous exgf *dramatic cue here*. Unconfirmed sources are reporting some friction between both of them as in of this weekend, since word of our plan has spread around the social circle. Was it related to this? good question. I'm not asking. I'm not sure if i want to know

- She insist(ed) on finding a place in the freaking outback because she prefers the low cost of life. I hate that, i want to live where theres jobs, but she's scared of violence and etc,etc. But fuck this, I wont work at some grocery store because theres no tech jobs around. We settled for some place in the town where i currently live.

- I cant imagine the parental drama this is gonna cause.

I told her that she kinda has to give me time to think about it since i dont want to rush things, and while i kinda enjoy the parental roof protection, i would certainely love to leave the daily arguments behind. I'm starting university next semester, i still have some college stuff to finish, so its no problem.

I dont really want to move out alone -for the moment- . Moving out now would be an interesting jumpstart, if not a bit a rush on my planning.

 

[MrAngryFace]

Just do it. Life is all about making mistakes. Seriously. If it works out great, if not well lesson learned life sux.

 

[B'z-chan]

This sounds like a good mutual relationship. Its an adventure i think you would learn from and might open your eyes to the world outside. I'm for it. It sounds like you two are already on the right path though so just keep it clean and create some boundaries of some sort between the two of you and you should live in perfect harmony.

 

[MrAngryFace]

Thats bullshit and you know it!

 

[B'z-chan]

Thats bullshit and you know it!

No its not man really some women can be the best of friends and living with them only makes things better. Just look at the show spaced...

 

[MrAngryFace]

No I just meant life in general.

 

[demi]

No its not man really some women can be the best of friends and living with them only makes things better. Just look at the show spaced...

Because we know life is played out like a television series!

STAY TUNED FOR NEXT WEEK

 

[Error Macro]

Holy fuck, that situation could not possibly end up being any good, at all. Seriously.

 

[Seth C]

You've gotta become a man sometime, might as well be now.

 

[Error Macro]

I laugh at your equating moving in with some chick to becoming a man.

 

[B'z-chan]

I laugh at your equating moving in with some chick to becoming a man.

First you gotta learn to live with them then you can start to understand them....

 

[Seth C]

I laugh at your equating moving in with some chick to becoming a man.

If anything I'm equating moving out "on his own" with becoming a man. The girl is a friend, not someone he is shacking up with. A friend is a friend, male or female. Now, that isn't to say that moving out of his parents home instantly makes him a man, but it is much harder to really grow up while you're still living under your father's roof.

 

[Drensch]

If you're gonna do it make solid rules and never even bend them.

 

[MrAngryFace]

haha, yeah thats not gonna happen

 

[Catalyst]

Little shuri's all grown up *sniff sniff*

 

[Koopa]

Are you seriously thinking about this?

because if you are you have to ask yourself 2 questions.

1. Are you jealious, Be honest because any form of lieing to yourself will encur dire concequences on your relationship with her.

2. Are you attracted to her and could possibly see yourself in some type of relationship with this girl.

Now that these questions have been posed, they are not deal breakers but mear idealogical human emotions that we all suffer from aside from killers and people who dress up like giant stuffed animals.

No guy cannot handle some chick (even there sister) getting fucked next door to them while there looking for the vasaline.

The only true thing you can do and get an accurate appraisle from her is to actually tell her your feelings on these 2 questions.

Honesty with yourself is peace of mind.

Most girls who ask you to live with them have already made up these decisions prior to asking. Females do not like to live alone and she probably subconsiously has her plan already laid out.

Id bet the house that if you were to leak some of this info she will be teabagging you by Halloween.

Hit it hard, hit it rough. And once for me.

 

[shuri]

Well thats the problem. We're gonna have to make rules. And another problem is the fact that she is/was(?) a close friend of the famous exgf that was the cause of a few threads here a year ago.

We were thinking about moving in together in MAY or smth. I'll be done with my first semester of UNI, and i'm gonna be pretty stable and its gonna give us time to plan out the whole ordeal. She's gonna be able to live at her parents place for a while it seems.

The decision has been made!

 

[Koopa]

Dont make strick rules, living your life based of mutual boundries is nothing more a mental herding of your desires.

Bahhhh Baaaaahhhhh...

Dont turn yourself into a domesticated animal.

People should live by understandings and not rules and boundries. All they have done in previous social implications is start fudal wars and fighting.

 

[RevenantKioku]

Anthony works in the grocery store, savin' his pennies for someday. Mama Leone left a note on the door, she said, "Sonny, move out to the country." Workin' too hard can give me a heart attack~ack~ack~ack~ack~ack. You oughta know by now. Who needs a house out in Hackensack? Is that what you get with your money? It seems such a waste of time. If that's what it's all about. If that's movin' up then I'm movin' out.
Sergeant O'Leary is walkin' the beat, at night he becomes a bartender. He works at Mister Cacciatore's down on Sullivan Street, across from the medical center. He's tradin' in his Checy for a Cadillac~ac~ac~ac~ac~ac. You oughta know by now. And if he can't drive with a broken back, at least he can polish the fenders. You should never argue with a crazy mind. You oughta know by now You can pay Uncle Sam with the overtime.
Is that all you get for your money?

 

[Incognito]

i'm moving in with a girl on november 5th... she's my best friend, too.

we've already laid the rules down. however, as i stated in a thread i started about this problem earlier, i've been worrying about actually living with her.

i'm excited, yet kinda worried. but it'll be fun, no doubt.