NeoGAF Anonymous Confessions 2015 - Bare Your Burdens

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Confessor is a real scumbucket for doing that. Neither true or a friend. And a great friend is a lot harder to come by than a job.

It was mom. She and Jim had been involved in a car accident. She had to walk, beaten and bloody, for seven miles to get help.

She had left his dead body hanging upside down in the car.

It was horrible, and we rushed home from the funeral, but I don't think I ever told anyone about the constant dread I felt that night.

That is nightmarish. I'm so sorry for your mom. It's strange how some people are connected by invisible threads like that.
 
Yeah I gotta agree with this. As someone who's been in rough situations before I can totally sympathize with the "do what you have to in order to survive" mentality. Short of anything illegal of course.



Don't think he ever said the guy was a close friend. It's great that friendship is the REAL ultimate power and together you can do anything and all that other stuff I learned from Kingdom Hearts but all that sappy shit goes out the window real quick when you're faced with the prospect of living on the street. I didn't get the impression that Paul was gonna pay this guy's bills for him or anything.

I don't condone what he did, but I get it.

Confessor's subject line stated that he 'got his best friend fired'

So apparently they were best friends.
 
Not my proudest moment in life.

I was a recently promoted senior team lead over electronics and toys. I was under a lot of stress, and pressure fro management who constantly rode me everyday to get things done, etc. It was my 7th day of working, I had come in at 7AM and it was nearing 10PM. We had no coverage for most the day, and a huge project to do since a VP was coming to our store soon, I was dead tired, and needed to rest, my body was worn out.


It was just me and my friend who was the closing associate in electronics.. I had finished up my notes,and decided it was time to clock out. I was exhausted, and it was 10PM. Went to the office and turned in my radio and my keys. I clocked and as i went to grab my coat from behind the electronics counter I noticed the locks to the cellphone case were left unlocked. We always had a big padlock to keep the phones, and ipads locked away so nobody could steal them. To get them unlocked we had to get a manager to unlock them. It was very frustrating but, whatever. I'm off the clock and the O/N manager is doing a meeting with the night crew. i get a zip tie and zip tip the locks to the cabinet doors. Good as new.

Wake up to my phone going off. My manager is telling me theres been a situation and I need to get into work ASAP. I know shit has hit the fan, and I know I'm in trouble. Just instant dread all over me. I'm going to get fired today. I get into work and theres the AP manager, the Store and my Assistant Manager by the cell phone case. the door has been broken open and we've been robbed. Everything is gone. I'm fucked. All I can think of is how stupid I am for not staying and making sure they were locked and how I'm fucked. I needed this job, I needed it and if I lost it ii was going to be on the street. I had no car, and could barely afford rent, and this place was within walking distance of my apartment.

AP manager says she wants to know who was responsible for not locking the case. I panic and blurt out "Oh, Paul did it. I told him, i told Paul don't forget to get a manager to lock the cases", I played stupid, and threw my friend under the bus.I knew it wouldn't fly, they would check on camera, and i'd be fucked. So, they did they pulled me into the AP office and pulled the video tape. They saw me putting zip-ties around the locks. AP manager turned to me "Wanna explain that?", I was sweating bullets now and just said "I noticed it was unlocked and until someone could lock it back up I did what I could". management bought it, The Ap manager said i did the right thing and took initiative, my assistant was giving me the evil eye, my Store manager bought it and then said she wants paul in her office as soon as he clocks in.

Paul clocks in about 12. He don't know what's going on, and why he has AP manager and his manager waiting at the time clock for him. he clocks and they pull him into the office, and want his explanation. he says I never said anything to him, and that he didn't know it wasn't locked. I recount my side, and explain how I explicitly told him to find a manager to lock it.. they took my side of the story, the cameras backed up my side, and I was a supervisor anyways so they believed me more.

Seeking to find someone to blame, AP fired him and blacklisted him from ever working for our company again. Paul stopped talking to me after that. I felt guilty, and still do but, I needed this job more then he did. .


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You goddamn scumbag.


You were captured on video putting the zipties on.

....So who was captured on video stealing the stuff??
 
I have to agree with him. If my career was on the line, I'd try to lie my way out of trouble. Yes, he lost a true friend, but at the end of the day, sometimes you have to crush someone else in order to go somewhere, and I respect and agree with that notion.
By all means ruin someone else's life to advance your own, but don't be fucking proud of that.
 
Yeah I gotta agree with this. As someone who's been in rough situations before I can totally sympathize with the "do what you have to in order to survive" mentality. Short of anything illegal of course.
You don't fuck over others to cover up for your own mistakes. There's very little that's lower. You can pretty much rationalise anything with "do what you need to in order to survive", but of course, in this sort of situation you could quite easily be ruining someone else's life.

Despicable.
 
Not my proudest moment in life.

I was a recently promoted senior team lead over electronics and toys. I was under a lot of stress, and pressure fro management who constantly rode me everyday to get things done, etc. It was my 7th day of working, I had come in at 7AM and it was nearing 10PM. We had no coverage for most the day, and a huge project to do since a VP was coming to our store soon, I was dead tired, and needed to rest, my body was worn out.


It was just me and my friend who was the closing associate in electronics.. I had finished up my notes,and decided it was time to clock out. I was exhausted, and it was 10PM. Went to the office and turned in my radio and my keys. I clocked and as i went to grab my coat from behind the electronics counter I noticed the locks to the cellphone case were left unlocked. We always had a big padlock to keep the phones, and ipads locked away so nobody could steal them. To get them unlocked we had to get a manager to unlock them. It was very frustrating but, whatever. I'm off the clock and the O/N manager is doing a meeting with the night crew. i get a zip tie and zip tip the locks to the cabinet doors. Good as new.

Wake up to my phone going off. My manager is telling me theres been a situation and I need to get into work ASAP. I know shit has hit the fan, and I know I'm in trouble. Just instant dread all over me. I'm going to get fired today. I get into work and theres the AP manager, the Store and my Assistant Manager by the cell phone case. the door has been broken open and we've been robbed. Everything is gone. I'm fucked. All I can think of is how stupid I am for not staying and making sure they were locked and how I'm fucked. I needed this job, I needed it and if I lost it ii was going to be on the street. I had no car, and could barely afford rent, and this place was within walking distance of my apartment.

AP manager says she wants to know who was responsible for not locking the case. I panic and blurt out "Oh, Paul did it. I told him, i told Paul don't forget to get a manager to lock the cases", I played stupid, and threw my friend under the bus.I knew it wouldn't fly, they would check on camera, and i'd be fucked. So, they did they pulled me into the AP office and pulled the video tape. They saw me putting zip-ties around the locks. AP manager turned to me "Wanna explain that?", I was sweating bullets now and just said "I noticed it was unlocked and until someone could lock it back up I did what I could". management bought it, The Ap manager said i did the right thing and took initiative, my assistant was giving me the evil eye, my Store manager bought it and then said she wants paul in her office as soon as he clocks in.

Paul clocks in about 12. He don't know what's going on, and why he has AP manager and his manager waiting at the time clock for him. he clocks and they pull him into the office, and want his explanation. he says I never said anything to him, and that he didn't know it wasn't locked. I recount my side, and explain how I explicitly told him to find a manager to lock it.. they took my side of the story, the cameras backed up my side, and I was a supervisor anyways so they believed me more.

Seeking to find someone to blame, AP fired him and blacklisted him from ever working for our company again. Paul stopped talking to me after that. I felt guilty, and still do but, I needed this job more then he did.
You, sir, are an absolute dick and a shit excuse for a friend. I pray to God that your friend smacked you in the face because, Hell, I know I would. Still, I'm a strong believer in karma. I expect you'll get what's coming to you.
 
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You goddamn scumbag.

Wow... that is a real dick move.

On the 'I dreamt about someone dying and then did years later confession', I kinda have a bit more creepy confession of my own.

I had recently gotten married and moved away, all the way to Wyoming from New Mexico. I was 18. My mom called pretty often, but it wasn't a scheduled thing.

On night, I got worried for no reason. I hadn't heard from her in a few days, but that was nothing out of the ordinary. It was late, so I called her, no answer. I called my little brother, who was still living at home, and he said she was on a date with her long, long time boyfriend, Jim. The man had basically been a father figure for us growing up, and I loved him dearly. Again, nothing unusual, but I couldn't shake the dread off. I went to bed.

That morning, around six, the phone rang. This was before everyone had a cell phone, and it was early and my husband was on call, so he wanted the machine to pick up to give him time to wake up if he was needed. Panic just SHOT through me, and I a damned near yelled at him 'It's my mom!' and answered as fast as I could.

It was mom. She and Jim had been involved in a car accident. She had to walk, beaten and bloody, for seven miles to get help.

She had left his dead body hanging upside down in the car.

It was horrible, and we rushed home for the funeral, but I don't think I ever told anyone about the constant dread I felt that night.

wow. Sorry your mum went through that :/
 
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You goddamn scumbag.

What a bastard! Confessor if it happened with me, rest assured i'd make your life hell.
That is just wrong. Learn to own up to shit.

I have to agree with him. If my career was on the line, I'd try to lie my way out of trouble. Yes, he lost a true friend, but at the end of the day, sometimes you have to crush someone else in order to go somewhere, and I respect and agree with that notion.

That's a real wordly perspective there. So, not even your best friends are worth anything, just toss them in front of the bus.
 
Lol that's pretty bad, I mean if it was a colleague who you didn't like i could maybe understand but if he was your buddy that's out of order!

Also, Pmsl at Shrek is love, never seen that before
 
Try taking a dick up your ass for the first time completely unprepared and come back and tell us if that confession rings true.
Maybe he's into pain.

Like.

A LOT of pain. But yea anal with no lube? I suppose there's somebody out there that loves the feeling their rectum being ripped and the profuse bleeding.
 
Pain tolerance is different for everyone. And it might have been a really small, and thin dick.
Not even talking about pain specifically.

1. Even if your dick is rock hard, if the other person is a virgin and you are not using any lube or foreplay to relax (massage the area, fingering, rimming etc), it's going to be very difficult to get your dick up there just by brute force. The other person without experience will often naturally clench as something foreign tries to enter there. The whole process is likely to make you go half-limp because it's not an easy task and pushing as violently as you can is likely to hurt you as much as the other person.

2. Then there's the mess aspect. Even if the confessor was empty up there, without douching of some sort it's going to be at least a little unpleasant. Shit isn't stored on the other side of your asshole unless you're ready to evacuate it, but with no douching or cleaning whatsoever it's unlikely that after fucking him his friend didn't get at least a little something on the end of his dick - unless he just put it back in his pants and didn't notice. And that's best case scenaio, such a situation could've ended up the other end of the spectrum and been a complete mud slide when he pulled out.
 
Not even talking about pain specifically.

1. Even if your dick is rock hard, if the other person is a virgin and you are not using any lube or foreplay to relax (massage the area, fingering, rimming etc), it's going to be very difficult to get your dick up there just by brute force. The other person without experience will often naturally clench as something foreign tries to enter there. The whole process is likely to make you go half-limp because it's not an easy task and pushing as violently as you can is likely to hurt you as much as the other person.

2. Then there's the mess aspect. Even if the confessor was empty up there, without douching of some sort it's going to be at least a little unpleasant. Shit isn't stored on the other side of your asshole unless you're ready to evacuate it, but with no douching or cleaning whatsoever it's unlikely that after fucking him his friend didn't get at least a little something on the end of his dick - unless he just put it back in his pants and didn't notice. And that's best case scenaio, such a situation could've ended up the other end of the spectrum and been a complete mud slide when he pulled out.
Welp, time to cancel that Chipotle ordered I just made for lunch.
 
Confession; I just went from working full-time as a self-employed graphic designer to part-time designer and part-time McDonalds employee. Oh, how the mighty have fallen. Ugh.
 
Confessor is a piece of shit. I ducking hate shut head supervisors/managers who throw people under the bus to save their own skin. Don't believe the "I did what I had to do" speech. Chances are they knew full well it's his fault, but since he's a supervisor and probably friends with managers he's sparred. If aNY associate did that they'd be fired on the spot. I hope karma got him.

How were you robbed? I assume this is a major retail store like Walmart, Target, or May a place like Best Buy. Even if someone is clocking out, wouldn't there be someone in the electronics department until close? How would someone be able to enter an electronics department, cut open the zip ties, empty the case, and walk out? The whole situation is strange.

Sucks that confessor had to fuck his friend over, but this seems to be pretty common in retail. Work place always under-staffed with workers overworked and management never accepting responsibility. Confessor became one of them when he screwed his friend over.
I work for walmart, so does confessor. Never worked in electronics, but I know how things work. His store is likely open 24/7, and nobody watches electronics after 10. Usually a stocker does electronics after 10. Nobody watches cameras anyways. It's pathetically easy to steal from walmart, especially at night.

Once had two guys smash a register open in sporting goods during the day and walk out with the cash. Never got caught.
 
"Not gay" confessor had no lube and claim anal felt good? Smells like another bullshit story.
Try taking a dick up your ass for the first time completely unprepared and come back and tell us if that confession rings true.
Unless the girth is pencil thin or it's micropenor, it's very uncomfortable doing anal without lube. But I'm gonna give it the benefit of the doubt and assume the cumfessor just left out the lube detail to make the story more spicy and less clumsy.
Yeah, going with this. As someone who has tried to give anal, and has also taken anal, I can say that without lube that isn't going to happen so easily. Especially not rushed anyway. Without lube the most I've been able to get in is the tip, otherwise the pressure makes me deflate.

I'm way late, but as a former dumb horny gay teenager without easy access to lube, you'd be surprised how far spit can get you.

Me and the bf managed for a good year before we weaselled our way into the heavenly world of vaseline and ky.

You goddamn scumbag.

Friends don't pay the rent. You did a bad thing confessor, but I won't say it was the wrong thing.
 
I'm way late, but as a former dumb horny gay teenager without easy access to lube, you'd be surprised how far spit can get you.

Me and the bf managed for a good year before we weaselled our way into the heavenly world of vaseline and ky.



Friends don't pay the rent. You did a bad thing confessor, but I won't say it was the wrong thing.

Of course it was the wrong thing. Saving his own skin and wrecking his mate due to his own laziness/incompetence? Makes me sick.
 
Of course it was the wrong thing. Saving his own skin and wrecking his mate due to his own laziness/incompetence? Makes me sick.
Agreed. I'm all for the fight for survival, but there are certain rules you must abide to, and taking down your mate for your incompetence is breaking a pretty big one. He lost his job, and confessor lost a mate. With any luck, karma still has something planned for confessor.
 
Agreed. I'm all for the fight for survival, but there are certain rules you must abide to, and taking down your mate for your incompetence is breaking a pretty big one. He lost his job, and confessor lost a mate. With any luck, karma still has something planned for confessor.

Ain't no rules in a fight for survival, come on now.

But the dude should've just done his job in the first place.
 
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You goddamn scumbag.

One thing: Did the confessor leave the case unlocked? If the video backed up his side of the story then I'm assuming they rewound it back to see who opened the case in the first place and it wasn't him who left the cases unlocked. If THAT'S the case, then the truth would be that he saw the case open and ziptied it because he was lazy, but he said that it was the best he could do at the time, which is more or less what he told his boss. So why the hell did he throw his friend under the bus for no reason? Why didn't he say "I ziptied it but I don't know who left it open" instead of "I ziptied it but Paul did it?"

I work for walmart, so does confessor. Never worked in electronics, but I know how things work. His store is likely open 24/7, and nobody watches electronics after 10. Usually a stocker does electronics after 10. Nobody watches cameras anyways. It's pathetically easy to steal from walmart, especially at night.

Once had two guys smash a register open in sporting goods during the day and walk out with the cash. Never got caught.

I used to work there too. I was hired as a front-end cashier but coverage in electronics was bad so I got sent back there to cover from time to time. We didn't need managers to open the cases to the games and iPod cases, you just needed a set of keys, which most electronics employees had. Clearing out the entire cabinet would take some doing.

Nothing in this story adds up. Who left the case open initially? If they checked the video, they should know who that was and this shouldn't even be a witch hunt. And if you need a manager to unlock it, wouldn't that mean that a manager opened it in the first place? Is Paul a manager? Why would the manager just open the case and leave knowing that it'd have to be locked again? You're supposed to lock those things as soon as you take out whatever you need.
 
What a bastard! Confessor if it happened with me, rest assured i'd make your life hell.
That is just wrong. Learn to own up to shit.



That's a real wordly perspective there. So, not even your best friends are worth anything, just toss them in front of the bus.

I never said friends aren't worth anything. But you can't be held back in life. I'm not saying you should break the law or even kill someone to go somewhere, but "cheating" your way higher. That's how everyone got their, there's no "fair" pass for anyone. All the great people of our century and the ones before all got their from lying, deceiving, and absolutely destroying other people. Its the way the world sadly works.
 
I never said friends aren't worth anything. But you can't be held back in life. I'm not saying you should break the law or even kill someone to go somewhere, but "cheating" your way higher. That's how everyone got their, there's no "fair" pass for anyone. All the great people of our century and the ones before all got their from lying, deceiving, and absolutely destroying other people. Its the way the world sadly works.
Only if you make it that way. :( I may not be rolling in townhouses but I like where I am, I have been moving up, and I've never cheated to get there. Most I've done is vent about my coworkers off the clock. I don't feel particularly "great" toward any of the movers and shakers in the world who get there via the slime train.

Been watching the thread but finally felt like chiming in. Back to our regularly scheduled schlock?
 
I have a porn addiction. It's gotten to the point that I'll jack off at least 3 times before I sleep just to be able to sleep. It's truly fucking up my life. I also have a girlfriend who has suffered from it - she doesn't know that I am an addict but it has had a huge impact on the relationship, or at least on my side. As a result of my porn addiction I have developed erectile dysfunction, or porn induced ED and it fucking sucks. I have no problems fucking strangers (before the relationship, fuck cheaters), but when it comes to my SO it's bad. I couldn't get hard enough for penetration the first time we tried, just rocking a semi. I was so out of it the next time we tried I got some viagra. Worked fine. The second time I tried without it and the same thing happened. So for the past year I've been popping viagra whilst trying to reduce and actually stop watching porn but I can't. Every time I try without viagra it's a just ends up in disappointment. It is fucking awful. The cherry on the cake is that I am spending so much money on viagra it's hurting my wallet and before you tell me about that herbal shit well let me tell you none of that herbal shit works and cialis just doesn't cut it.

I think it's time to get some outside help, man. You need to talk to a therapist or a support group.
 
I think it's time to get some outside help, man. You need to talk to a therapist or a support group.

Indeed. That, and cut out porn for a few days, cold turkey. Do some push ups or something to get you tired, before bed time.

But, if possible go and see a specialist. I assume you are relatively young, so messing with viagra so early in life may have some bad repercussions.
 
I think it's time to get some outside help, man. You need to talk to a therapist or a support group.

There are actually sex therapists that can help with this dude. It might be time to seek one out. And no...I'm not talking about picking up an escort. There are actual therapists for sex.
 
I used to work there too. I was hired as a front-end cashier but coverage in electronics was bad so I got sent back there to cover from time to time. We didn't need managers to open the cases to the games and iPod cases, you just needed a set of keys, which most electronics employees had. Clearing out the entire cabinet would take some doing.

Nothing in this story adds up. Who left the case open initially? If they checked the video, they should know who that was and this shouldn't even be a witch hunt. And if you need a manager to unlock it, wouldn't that mean that a manager opened it in the first place? Is Paul a manager? Why would the manager just open the case and leave knowing that it'd have to be locked again? You're supposed to lock those things as soon as you take out whatever you need.
Every stores different, bro. high shrink stores go to drastic measures to reduce high teft items. Like at our store we don't lock the spray paint up, but at our nearby store they got that shit locked tight and key. Normally it would take some skill to break open a lock but, leaving the fucking case unlocked and tied down with zip-tie is basically putting an "im unlocked" sign up for thieves. Any idiot goes in early morning while everyones on lunch and they see the cabinet open and they'll wipe it clean in minutes. Fucker should have been fucking termed. In a sane fucking world he would have been shown the door.

My guess as to why they left it unlocked was they were doing inventory, or the manager forgot. Either way it always falls on us associates. Management fucks up and we get shit on. It's BS.
 
Not even talking about pain specifically.

1. Even if your dick is rock hard, if the other person is a virgin and you are not using any lube or foreplay to relax (massage the area, fingering, rimming etc), it's going to be very difficult to get your dick up there just by brute force. The other person without experience will often naturally clench as something foreign tries to enter there. The whole process is likely to make you go half-limp because it's not an easy task and pushing as violently as you can is likely to hurt you as much as the other person.

2. Then there's the mess aspect. Even if the confessor was empty up there, without douching of some sort it's going to be at least a little unpleasant. Shit isn't stored on the other side of your asshole unless you're ready to evacuate it, but with no douching or cleaning whatsoever it's unlikely that after fucking him his friend didn't get at least a little something on the end of his dick - unless he just put it back in his pants and didn't notice. And that's best case scenaio, such a situation could've ended up the other end of the spectrum and been a complete mud slide when he pulled out.

Theoretically we're talking about two teens who are having their first gay experience.

I'm gonna guess they weren't in the know for the proper anal sex set up.
 
I think it's time to get some outside help, man. You need to talk to a therapist or a support group.

I used to be in a similar situation. I found that sexual stimulation outside of the core pumping mechanic from my partner really helped - as in figuring out what other things I liked during or before sex. It made masturbation look a lot less fun in the long run. I also embraced my hobbies more since I was basically making masturbation a hobby by that point. These days I maybe masturbating 1-3 times a week at most.

I don't think it's the sort of thing you need to go to a therapist right away about unless you're super panicked. Try talking to your partner first.
 
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