$50 per roll seems so crazy, but... the price quote I got from Richard Photo Lab to develop and scan 3 rolls of 35mm film just happened to be $147. With an 8 to 10 day turnaround time! And in reality, the price may have been higher because my film was shot on an Xpan - certain labs charge more for this.
A "press kit" of C-41 chemicals is $30 and is rated for 12 rolls but apparently can last for up to 24. I already have the D-76 chems, I think they were also around $30.
An Epson V850 scanner is $925. It's a big expense but it would literally pay for itself in less than 20 rolls vs. outsourcing to a lab.
The thing I like about film is that the pleasing color characteristics of something like Portra 400 just can't be replicated digitally. I've tried. And film offers so much more latitude when it comes to dynamic range, particularly with highlights. I think digital will get there, someday. But it's got a long way to go and with a vanishing consumer market, it seems like the only company still pushing ahead with sensor tech is Sony. Nikon and Canon seem pretty checked out.
First of, 50 per roll, damn. I thought I had it bad with 30. I never dared check what it'd be with high quality scans though.
When I got into photography a couple of years back I was looking into digital for a long time. In that time I started shooting on my mom's old Mamiya (35mm) and eventually started looking into film for price reasons. While I could maybe get an OK body with my budget, lenses that I wanted were really expensive, especially anything wider than 50mm eq and somewhat fast.
I know a lot about the 5D mk1 because it fixes some of those issues. Canon EF has some sleepers and the 5D is a pro body with the controls I want. The thing that held me back though was as you said the look and the experience of shooting film. Not just the slowing down (though that is a big part), but also knowing that I just made a physical imprint on the roll inside my camera. I have the same fascination with vinyl knowing that the audio waves I listen to are printed on that disc and not interpretated by anything.
I don't have a scanner yet (hopefully it'll be here by March, I held back buying thinking prices would come down, but they kept rising) and can't make any direct comparisons myself, but I like the look too. Hard to say why, but like you said with dynamic range highlights are never harsh looking. I also like the raw look when there's zero opportunity for the camera to sharpen it or do noise reduction.
I should stop buying/looking for film cameras because I already have four bodies and just five lenses, but I like that I can build a camera collection for next to nothing and use old cameras like they were ment to be used. And even quite expensive stuff like the Xpan or even some old Leicas are not that expenses in the grand scheme of things. Such a specialized digital camera would never be ~1000$.
Sorry it's so unstructured. Written on mobile using swipe so there are probably a bunch of mistakes I've missed.