Never tried the Coconut oil thing. I don't really use anything in my beard, it is usually pretty clean
though I might try that, I love the smell of coconuts!
I get a decent trim and shave (neck/cheeks) at a barber once every month or so. Other wise I keep my cheeks and neck shaved and my moustache trimmed to a non-wahhabi length
Walaykum Salaam Wa Rahmetullah
What madhab are you from, as that will answer the question.
In the Shafi'i madhab, as khamr (wine) is najas (impure), anything that was in the form of a solution with wine or alcohol, is also najas. This means that even if the alcohol has been 'burned off' (which is ineffective anyway) anything that previously contained it, remains impermissible to consume (not because it is intoxicating, but because it is impure).
I gather that the Hanafi ruling is a bit different in this respect. As they can eat things that I cannot.
Why do you specify verses from the Qur'an? The impermissability of consuming alcohol (regardless of intoxication) is in the Qur'an. There is also however an important hadith that relates to it, specifically 'anything that intoxicates in small quantities is forbidden in large quantities'.
Simply put, consumption of alcohol itself is impermissible, intoxication is not, as far as I am aware, mentioned in the Quranic verses that relate to this. Of course my understanding is limited, here are some links with a better and further discussion:
A Guide for Consuming Various Meats, Foods, Alcohol, Animal By-Product Ingredients, and Cosmetics
http://seekersguidance.org/ans-blog...-animal-by-product-ingredients-and-cosmetics/
What is the Ruling on Using Solid Intoxicants as flavourings in food?
http://seekersguidance.org/ans-blog...d-intoxicants-as-flavor-ingredients-in-foods/
Did Imam Abu Hanifa distinguish between the legal rulings for wine and beer?
http://seekersguidance.org/ans-blog...-between-the-legal-rulings-for-wine-and-beer/