There's some amazingly flawed arguments in this thread.
DVR'ing something, choosing to skip ads via Tivo (or an equivalent service), or choosing simply not to look at an advertising billboard/train advertisement is nowhere near the same as using an adblocker service.
With all of the above, the content provider is paid regardless of whether you choose to view the ad. The advertiser pays a fee to place that ad in that show/location knowing that a very high percentage of people won't even see it. The value for them lies in the smaller percentage of people who will see it, purely in terms of increasing awareness for the product.
Unless my understanding of internet advertising is well off, if you choose to block ads on a site, that ad is never served. The advertiser doesn't serve the ad, you never even know it's there, and the content provider doesn't get paid.
If you choose to adblock sites, you're choosing to not pay the creator of the content whilst at the same time choosing to consume the content that the creator provides. If you're continuing to do that, that's when you should question whether adblock is right to use.
The only question here should be whether the content is of value to you. From reading this thread, there's generally three answers to that question:
- The content is of value to you - if so, visit the site and support them, either by watching the ads served, or by donating/subscribing if those options are available to you.
- The content isn't of value to you - if so, stop visiting the site. If the content isn't worth your time, don't give it your time. If you read the content, but use adblock, you're actively saying that you feel the content has value to you, but that you don't particularly care if the creators of that content don't get paid for it. If it has no value to you, don't view it. If you can get better content elsewhere, either paid for or for free, go and consume that content instead.
- The content is of value to you but you find the ads too intrusive - in this case, you should stop visiting the site. If you continue to visit, regardless of whether you watch the ads or not, you're continuing to support a business practice you disagree with. If those things offend you or inconvenience you so much, you shouldn't really visit the site. If enough people do it, either the site will die, or the ads will die. One way or another, the practice stops. Same deal as microtransactions/ads in games/DRM practices - if people vote with their metaphorical wallets (or browsers/eyeballs in this case), it'll stop.
Furthermore, engage with sites whose content you like but whose ads you don't. Email them. Tweet them. Don't just sit back and use adblock - the only solution that'll arise is more intrusive ads and poorer content. Tell them you what you don't like, and tell them what you as a consumer would be prepared to accept. It's a two way street.
TL;DR - if you genuinely use the content of a site, find a way of supporting them. If you don't, stop visiting the site. If you're somewhere inbetween, do something about it using the avenues available to you. It's really not that hard.