Yeah I've met her, told her I was a human.It's just the camera quests.
It's hard to know your situation, since there's nothing keeping track of the points, but there are still quite a bit of law/chaos questions in the story at that point at least.
Have you met the woman who asks if you're a human or a demon in Ikebukuro? You can get 10 chaos points if you answer that you're a demon.
Even going full Chaos after that point, I was still locked to Law.
I know the only way to check what you are is talking to the cynical man at the Hunter Associations, but there's no way to check just how far in you are unfortunately.
I do tend to hate when games try to be all morally ambiguous/grey. Yes it's gritty and realistic, but I'm playing a game, I want to be the hero damnit.