This entire situation is just grooming.
The dynamic of this sort of abusive relationship is related to power and control.
Doesn't matter how much of a pussyslayer gigachad you think you are at the age of 14, you are just a child. Much as you think of yourself as cool, when you're 14, you are not in charge in a relationship with a 24 year old "hot" woman. Its so easy to be gaslit and psychologically abused in this situation. Being forced to do things you ordinarily wouldn't want to do, in exchange for the sex you're likely so thirsty for at that age. Your plans and ambitions can easily be derailed.
Heck in some instances you can straight up be physically abused.
I mean what are you gonna do? Hit a woman? Everyone knows how society absolutely condemns male violence on women. Sometimes to an unfair degree.
What if she claims that you raped her (if you're big for your age for example)? Imagine what the threat of that happening would feel like when you're a fucking 14 year old boy.
What if you get the woman pregnant? Heck what if she wants you to get her pregnant, so that you're even more dependant on her? Oh sure, the obvious fact that such a relationship is illegal and that the woman would be in trouble is a fact we know now, when we're at a safe distance. But imagine being put in such a situation in real time, when you're a goddamn child?
I dunno.
Maybe I'm just a "soy boy".
But what Cinnpie has done here, is sexual abuse. It should be treated as such, and she should be punished accordingly.