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[Greekboy]

Guys if you've just met a girl or started dating her then please refrain from "spooning" or "worming" her. Often times I hear of guys saying they had sex with a girl and that she hasn't called them back again. Well, here's a tip:

Please remove the "spoon" and "worm" from your arsenal of moves. These are moves that should be brought out when you are well into a relationship or married. They are not moves that will attract a girl or even keep her. A girl wants a guy that can deliver a monumental performance the first time and can rock her hard. You might not be able to live up to that first historic performance of reaming proportions but she will be curious and will call back for more pumps.

So leave the "spooning" for your peanut butter jars and "worming" when you are practising those breakdancing moves.

 

[sprsk]

is this a memo to yourself or something.

 

[JackFrost2012]

Thanks for the advice, now here's a tip for you:

strangers on message boards don't care about your sexual hang-ups!

 

[Mason]

Thanks for the advice, now here's a tip for you:

strangers on message boards don't care about your sexual hang-ups!

Seconded.

 

[Manabanana]

Worming?

 

[Mrbob]

LOL.

I think this may be the thread of the year.

 

[ManDudeChild]

Spooning?

 

[Greekboy]

Worming?

Looking lovingly into a woman's eyes as you hold her hips and you slow pump her. The bodies often look like worms during this lame maneuver.

 

[Particle Physicist]

i hate to break it to you, but not all women share your thoughts.

 

[Doth Togo]

How about some good 'ole fashioned Astroglide and FHUTA?

 

[Archaix]

i hate to break it to you, but not all women share your thoughts.

No, but many men do. How curious.

 

[Greekboy]

Spooning?

Snuggling and lying in a position where one person faces the back of the others. Usually lying on their sides. Pumps are administered from this lame position.

 

[Badabing]

What would you suggest we do, Lisa

 

[Grizzlyjin]

But those are my only moves...I guess thats the end of my sexual career.

 

[Manabanana]

Looking lovingly into a woman's eyes as you hold her hips and you slow pump her. The bodies often look like worms during this lame maneuver.

I've never head of this before Spooning is what I think it is, right? No sex involved? Just good ol' cuddling?

Edit: Awwe snap. I just read the "pumps administered" post. Spooning, I think, is most commonly a non-sexual term.

 

[BlackMage]

A man pretending to be a woman on the internet is trying to give us advice on women?

 

[RevenantKioku]

A man pretending to be a woman on the internet is trying to give us advice on women?

Lets not get back into that, otherwise he'll start trying to prove he "wasn't" again.

 

[Boogie]

Snuggling and lying in a position where one person faces the back of the others. Usually lying on their sides. Pumps are administered from this lame position.

Generally, "spooning" does not refer to sex.

 

[Ninja Scooter]

spooning doesn't require any intercourse or "pumping" you douchebag.

 

[Musashi Wins!]

spooning doesn't require any intercourse or "pumping" you douchebag.

Don't worm...I mean squirm your way out of this.

 

[3phemeral]

is this a memo to yourself or something.

Haha! That made me choke up my drink. lol

 

[Mejilan]

Spooning doesn't require sex to be spooning. It's more commonly acknowledged as a form of cuddling.

 

[ScientificNinja]

This thread is beyond pathetic.

 

[Greekboy]

Spooning
Perhaps you've thought to yourself, "Maybe I just need to buy a sex manual, but is there some really good way a man and woman can entwine themselves for lovemaking, lying on their sides, to share not only sex but love as well?"

The answer is, "Just be spoons!"

Spooning is semi-sexual position where the two partners lie, tightly entertwined, in a position that is great for boosting the intimacy level of a sexual experience. The man lies facing the woman's back, with one arm slipped under her (between her hip and her ribs is less squishy) and the other wrapped around her from the top. The woman will need to draw one or both knees up toward her chest to give the man space to enter.

Lying face to face while spooning is much more difficult. If the man is slightly built she might possibly be able to draw her lower leg up under the man's waist and hug him round the buttocks with her calves. Generally though, face-to-face on the side sex allows such shallow penetration that sex is not dreadfully satisfying, but it's great to tease one another with. And sometimes it seems more like a sex-sharing experience when you have the giggles together.

PROS

Stimulates the woman's G-spot
All hands are free for manual stimulation
Very intimate and sensual, even fun
Good during pregnancy

CONS

Someone always has to rest a leg on top of their partner, can be uncomfortable
Deep pelvic thrusting is difficult

Either way, it's a lovely position for slow languorous lovemaking, but not so good for the hard and fast/short on time type of experience.Because of this, spooning is a wonderful way to enhance a bond in an intimate relationship and to draw out the session when you have all the time in the world to spare and you want to not only satisfy each other sexually but make yourselves happy together as well.

http://www.sex-project.com/spooning.shtml


Like I said, save the lame "spooning" technique for longer relationships or marriages.

 

[Warm Machine]

Spooning has always been about the intercourse.

REGARDLESS, my advice...ignore the man, man and just hit the girl in every way possible because you never know if it is going to be the last time or not.

 

[Ninja Scooter]

im spooning with greekboy right now.

 

[HAOHMARU]

Now I've seen everything @ GA.

We have our own Dr. Ruth!

 

[Greekboy]

Now I've seen everything @ GA.

We have our own Dr. Ruth!

"Please refrain from "spooning" and "worming" I say."

 

[impirius]

Quick, activate the megarolleyes signal

 

[Dilbert]

Guys if you've just met a girl or started dating her then please refrain from "spooning" or "worming" her. Often times I hear of guys saying they had sex with a girl and that she hasn't called them back again. Well, here's a tip:

Please remove the "spoon" and "worm" from your arsenal of moves. These are moves that should be brought out when you are well into a relationship or married. They are not moves that will attract a girl or even keep her. A girl wants a guy that can deliver a monumental performance the first time and can rock her hard. You might not be able to live up to that first historic performance of reaming proportions but she will be curious and will call back for more pumps.

So leave the "spooning" for your peanut butter jars and "worming" when you are practising those breakdancing moves.

We needed a thread for this because...?

Even more to the point -- do you ACTUALLY think that people reading this thread are going to think about it the next time they're in the sack? "Oh shit, I was going to make love to her shpoon-style, but gosh durn it, that Lisa Lashes guy/girl/whatever told me I shouldn't, so gee willickers, I'm gonna do something else!"

 

[Greekboy]

It's all about the pumps dude...all about the pumps. Girls don't want a guy that will try and impress her with "worm" and "spoon" techniques.

 

[Fusebox]

That website is wrong, everyone else here is correct, spooning is non-sexual.

And who ever heard of worming? Just call it a slow screw with the bloke-on-top ffs, and dont crack it at us coz your fellas throwing his sausage down a hallway.

Edit - err, but pretend I just said all that nicely.

 

[Dan]

It's all about the pumps dude...all about the pumps. Girls don't want a guy that will try and impress her with "worm" and "spoon" techniques.

Yes... you keep saying that... over and over and over. First in another thread, and now multiple times here. Seems to me you're just insecure and desperate for a bunch of people to come in and go "oh yeah man, you're 100% right" to convince yourself that you know everything there is to know about girls' sexual desires.

Lame.

 

[XS+]

Quick, activate the megarolleyes signal

Haha, comedy gold

 

[Flynn]

Generally, "spooning" does not refer to sex.

Wrong.

In porn "spoon" refers to the aformentioned position w/penetration.

Worming sounds totally made up though.

Eye contact doesn't transform "missionary" into another position.

 

[ghostface]

Judging by the fact that you keep bringing up websites to explain what you meant, I think it's pretty safe to say that you've never actually done any of the things you talk about.

Someone really needs post the megarolleyes.

 

[Fusebox]

And in porn a pig-on-the-spit means a 3 way, but in my house it means a BBQ and spooning doesnt mean sex - just like most other peoples houses here.

Do a poll on the replies if you like.

 

[Celicar]

this is lame. i do both and get lots of sex with women. i guess i rule. what now?

 

[JackFrost2012]

Just to add to the litany: spooning in general to me just means cuddling, the "spoon position" is sex. And "worming" is made up. And Lisa Lashes, whether male or female, has not ever actually done any of these things.

 

[Greekboy]

Judging by the fact that you keep bringing up websites to explain what you meant, I think it's pretty safe to say that you've never actually done any of the things you talk about.

Someone really needs post the megarolleyes.

Correct. I've never "spooned" nor "wormed" it. Now you're getting it.

Yes... you keep saying that... over and over and over. First in another thread, and now multiple times here. Seems to me you're just insecure and desperate for a bunch of people to come in and go "oh yeah man, you're 100% right" to convince yourself that you know everything there is to know about girls' sexual desires.

Lame.

I find it hilarious that I haven't attacked one person in this thread yet so many have gone ballistic on me.

Now I ask you who is insecure and desperate?

Precisely.

Lame.

 

[Jim Bowie]

I've already admitted that I trust people to a fault, but...

If Lisa Lashes is a girl: Going all out on a lady will just get me slapped. You gotta ease into it first, right? Like shifting gears?

If Lisa Lashes is not a girl: Same as above. But I guess there's no more women on the forum now.

 

[ZombieSupaStar]

hes a joke character


ITS A PENIS!




DO NOT JUMP AWN IT

 

[JackFrost2012]

I find it hilarious that I haven't attacked one person in this thread yet so many have gone ballistic on me.

Another way of looking at it: by dispensing unsolicited and falacious advice regarding private sex lives, you're insulting and attacking every person in this thread. "You all suck at sex, let Lisa Lashes tell you how it's done," is the implication of you post. "Actually our sex lives are fine - and who the hell asked you?" is our "ballistic" response.

EDIT: REAL PEOPLE DO NOT SAY "SPOONED" AND "WORMED"

 

[Greekboy]

If Lisa Lashes is a girl: Going all out on a lady will just get me slapped. You gotta ease into it first, right? Like shifting gears?

Of course. Just don't resort to the lame "worming" or "spooning" moves.

Another way of looking at it: by dispensing unsolicited and falacious advice regarding private sex lives, you're insulting and attacking every person in this thread. "You all suck at sex, let Lisa Lashes tell you how it's done," is the implication of you post. "Actually our sex lives are fine - and who the hell asked you?" is our "ballistic" response.

EDIT: REAL PEOPLE DO NOT SAY "SPOONED" AND "WORMED"

Thanks for the advice, now here's a tip for you:

strangers on message boards don't care about your sexual hang-ups!

 

[BugCatcher]

Correct. I've never "spooned" nor "wormed" it.

Like I said, save the lame "spooning" technique for longer relationships or marriages.

So, can I infer from this that you've never had a long relationship? And you are giving advice on how to make a girl stick around? I must have missed something.

 

[JackFrost2012]

Of course. Just don't resort to the lame "worming" or "spooning" moves.

You're like a broken record, you know? You don't actually have any clue what you're talking about, so you just say variations on the same worn-out, awkwardly phrased line over and over again. Normally, joke characters at least try to be funny. In any case, I'm gonna try the "ignoring" move on you now - lemme know if that hits your buttons.

 

[Jim Bowie]

I think that Lisa Lashes and JackFrost 2012 should box.

 

[Greekboy]

I find it hilarious that you posted this:

Thanks for the advice, now here's a tip for you:

strangers on message boards don't care about your sexual hang-ups!

And then made another 3-4 posts in the topic. The ignore button will do wonders so I don't have to deal with such hypocrisy in the future.

Thanks in advance or someone PM him with my regards if he's already used the "ignore" feature.

 

[JackFrost2012]

And then made another 3-4 posts in the topic. The ignore button will do wonders so I don't have to deal with such hypocrisy in the future.

The difference is that my posts weren't about "spooning," "worming," or any other sexual behaviors - they were about your posting behavior and attitude. In my book, talking about message board nettiquette doesn't count as a "sexual hang-up." But hey, if you get off on giving pretend sexual advice on a gaming message board, more power to you. Doesn't mean I have to pretend to be interested.

 

[tenchir]

I always thought that spooning isn't sexual and like the others say, a form of cuddling.