robertsan...robertsan. One day you'll learn that someone of
your intellect should not be arguing with someone of
my intellect. See? I can act like robertsan too!
Fact: people who constantly go around interjecting effusive, flattering commentary about themselves into totally unrelated topics (i.e., the topic wasn't "is robertsan the hottest thing since sliced bread?") are insecure, and constantly need to
tell other people about what they (allegedly) have and how great their life is. A person who is truly secure in themselves doesn't constantly go around
telling people (especially people on an internet forum, of all places) about how great they look and how many hot chicks they bang, yet you do so all the time. What does that tell you about yourself? If it's not evidence that you're insecure, then it's evidence that you're childish-- take your pick.
You did it in the "why do girls play stupid games" thread and I held my tongue. You did it here again; frankly, this is at least the tenth time in the previous few weeks that I've seen you make such comments, and I find it puerile. Most people here undoubtedly find your comments amusing (as do I...most times), but after a while, I just start rolling my eyes, quite frankly. Like I said, I've known
many men who act the way you do-- and better looking ones than you, believe it or not (yes robertsan, they exist!
). Invariably, they were insecure twits who were always trying to "prove themselves" when other people were around, constantly talking about themselves etc. It's unbecoming.
and i am not insecure, its people that says these things that you just said that are insecure.
Not really, but thanks for the insipid psychoanalysis.
Believe it or not, just because someone criticizes something doesn't mean that they
exhibit that "something" (in this case insecurity). You're employing fourth grade reasoning, which is unsurprising. Believe it or not, unlike you, I don't
have to "defend myself" from the claim that I'm supposedly "insecure", because people can see for themselves what type of person I am-- as they can you.
i am very secure in who i am and people might say i have a big head, but everything i say is true.
But that's not the point. I've no doubt that what you say is "largely) true. Based on your pic (assuming it's you), you're a good-looking dude, and you date attractive ladies. None of that is relevant to
what I'm saying, though I suppose I shouldn't expect a person who spends more time on his hair than reading books or reflecting on life to understand even these simplest of interpersonal truths.
Again, you can be the best looking guy in the world, the smartest guy in the world, the richest guy in the world, the funniest, most charming guy in the world etc. But when you feel compelled to constantly
tell people about it (rather than just allowing your natural gifts to speak for themselves), then that evinces insecurity and a juvenile mentality. Seriously-- I feel like I'm talking to a fifth grader. I mean, have you
ever given a moment's thought to how you conduct yourself?
and i dont really bother about guys who says that i am full of myself, just because they see me coming walking reeking of confidence and having hot girls around me and they think "oh look at him, he thinks he is all that" but tell you what, its people like that who has no confidence in themselfs
I'm not speaking of you "being full of yourself", necessarily. It is perfectly fine to be aware of what you have and where your strengths lie. That doesn't make one conceited or "in the wrong" in my eyes. When one begins to
place undue emphasis on their qualities (be it looks, smarts, riches, whatever), and allows it to skew their general perceptions of the world in terms of how they interact with people and what they feel is valuable (e.g., you clearly feel that physical attractiveness is "more important" than other qualities/values), then they're being silly.
I'd like to believe that I'm a pretty confident guy in all respects (though I'm not about to sit here and defend that), so if you want to keep telling yourself that everyone who would take issue with the absolutely childish and insecure way you conduct yourself here is somehow "jealous" of you, feel free. Doesn't make it correct, though.
You see, robertsan, you're not the only person here who can tell stories that paint himself in a good light or highlight his natural gifts. Many people can. It's just that most of us have the good sense to only do so when it's proper. In that sense, the rest of us have grown up. Have you?
I have confidence and attitude,thats one reason why i get a every girl i want, Chicks love confidence and the right attitude!
people without confidence are the ones that think a guy like me is insecure and thinks i am just a faker!
I don't think you're a "faker" in any way-- I just think you're possessed of a tenuous, false "confidence". People who are genuinely confident, to their core, don't act the way you act. Period. No discussion.
if you knew me then you would understand, you really cant say stuff like that about me if you dont know me.
I know enough of you from what I see on this forum to be able to make reasonable observations regarding your character, particularly an observation as circumscribed as the one I've made. I'm not saying that you're a terrible person-- I'm just saying that you're insecure, and you should try to see why perhaps you'd rub people the wrong way sometimes (hint: it's not because "robertsan is the greatest and everyone else is jealous!").
The way you act is childish. I honestly don't say all this for my own sake, but for the sake of others, because many times you'll say things that could possibly hurt other people, such as in the "why do girls do stupid things?" thread, where people were lamenting their failures with women, and you waltz in talking about how good-looking and rich and "confident" you are, and all the success you have with women. See, you didn't offer anything constructive, or try to give any advice-- you were just concerned with making yourself look good (which is shockingly common in your case). This can only make others who are less fortunate/successful with regards to women feel like shit, quite frankly. Personally, I don't feel "threatened" or anything by your comments, because, really, I have nothing to feel threatened over (after all, there's a good reason why you never catch me in the "woe is me" girl threads). But for the sake of others, and for the sake of maintaining a certain level of decorum on the board, I felt it necessary to let you know exactly how you come off in general. You're vainglorious and uncouth, and it's about time someone let you know.
Again, you're free to write this all off as the rantings of a "hater", but I'd think twice about that assessment if I were you. Besides which, I don't really expect you to fully understand or appreciate anything I've said herein, because, frankly, I doubt you have the mental capacity to do so.
