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Survey: One in five grade 9'ers go er, below the equator...

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Shinobi

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Thank Christ I don't have any kids (yet)...

Mon, April 4, 2005
Word of mouth: Oral sex OK in Grade 9?
By AP


ABOUT ONE in five ninth-graders report having had oral sex and almost one-third say they intend to try during the next six months, a small study of California teens reports. The teenagers, whose average age was 14 1/2, also say oral sex is less risky, more common and more acceptable for their age group than intercourse.

The researchers surveyed 580 ethnically diverse ninth-graders in two California public high schools.

Girls and boys reported similar experiences and opinions about oral sex, which surprised the study's lead author, Bonnie Halpern-Felsher of the University of California San Francisco.

"I think the stereotypes don't exist as much anymore," she said.

"Girls and boys both see oral sex as not being a big deal."

The study appears in April's edition of the journal Pediatrics.

While there's little reliable data on the health risks, parents and health care providers can tell teenagers that there is potential for getting herpes, hepatitis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis and HIV from oral sex.

SELF-IMAGE AFFECTED

And parents can discuss how oral sex might affect a teenager's relationships and self-image, Halpern-Felsher said.

The study, although limited by the small number of teens surveyed, is interesting, said Dr. Robert Blum of the Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health.

"Adults are sitting there yelling at each other about abstinence, condoms, oral contraception and abortion, and kids have found their own path," Blum said.

"That's the most important issue that underlies these data: Adults are more clueless than we would like to admit."

In the survey, the teens were asked to imagine themselves in a dating situation that included unprotected oral sex with a partner who had had previous sexual intercourse with other partners.

The teenagers were then asked to estimate the chance that they would get various sexually transmitted infections, including HIV, and the chance that they would experience social and emotional costs such as feeling guilty or getting a bad reputation.

http://www.canoe.ca/NewsStand/TorontoSun/News/2005/04/04/981896-sun.html

Truth be told we've heard this sort of stuff for years even in grade school, so I'm largely immune to this now. Still doesn't make it any less fucked up.
 

Willco

Hollywood Square
I find it weird that chicks will do oral but not intercourse. It's like, "You've gone this far, how about we play for the entire jackpot now?"
 

Chony

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I did it in the eighth grade, little did I know that this girl 3 years later would get married and have a kid.
 
I don't know how to feel about this just yet. I mean of course there is a part of me that is saying man these kids have it great, do you know how much work it took to get that kind of action in my day?

Then I feel sad for them because they are missing on on being kids I guess, call me sappy but, there is a lot of power in oral sex and to wield that power at such a young age dulls the senses I would think I mean if you are getting head at 13 or 14 I mean what is going to turn you on at 18 or at 21 I mean these kids are going to be into some elephant shizer video or some shit by the time they get my age.
 

Shinobi

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Willco said:
I find it weird that chicks will do oral but not intercourse. It's like, "You've gone this far, how about we play for the entire jackpot now?"

I imagine the major reason is to prevent pregnancy. Another reason is to keep their virginity...I keep hearing that chicks take it strictly up the ass due to the belief that they'll remain virgins as long as they don't take anything up the love tunnel. Why they'd believe that is beyond me, but then so is sucking shlong at 12 years old (well shit, any age for that matter).
 

Willco

Hollywood Square
Shinobi said:
I imagine the major reason is to prevent pregnancy. Another reason is to keep their virginity...I keep hearing that chicks take it strictly up the ass due to the belief that they'll remain virgins as long as they don't take anything up the love tunnel. Why they'd believe that is beyond me, but then so is sucking shlong at 12 years old (well shit, any age for that matter).

I guess. Chicks are fickle creatures. You never hear about guys wanting to keep their virginity. Well, like five guys. On the planet.
 

gblues

Banned
Er, when *I* was in high school (nearly a decade ago) I would've been one of those freshmen looking to get head. Didn't actually get any, mind you, but that's how I would respond.

I mean, WTF are you gonna say? "No, I'm not interested in having sex within the next 6 months"?

Talk about a loaded survey..

Nathan
 

demon

I don't mean to alarm you but you have dogs on your face
9th graders? As in 13 year olds? Getting oral?



I'm depressed again. :(
 

demon

I don't mean to alarm you but you have dogs on your face
Eh, whatever. I was 13 for about a month when I started my freshman year. Still...13, 14, 15...that's a hell of a lot younger than 23.
 

speedpop

Has problems recognising girls
On one hand, I can see a positive to this. Screw the conservatives, sex is great and should be enjoyed freely - especially considering we hit the start of puberty at around 12-14, even some earlier than that so why not experiment? Instead of shaming the fucking act like most people seem to love doing, shove more safe-sex propaganda around because the "problem" won't go away no matter what you want to do. Sometimes the entire sex appeal industry does get tiresome (I'm sick to death of seeing every single lingerie ad show off some chicks hips/bust/arse in a sexual way) but it's better than having NO ONE discuss it.

On the other hand, I can see the negatives. Kids still growing up, etc etc. But eh, I grew up when I turned 12 simply because of family problems. I still did shit any other young teenager would have done. Do I regret ever having to rush through maturity? Fuck no, so why should these kids have to.
 

mrklaw

MrArseFace
I love the fucked up nature of it. I can kinda understand the 'don't get pregnant' thing - but thats what condoms are for.

But giving head and taking up the arse just so you can pretend to yourself that you are still a virgin!? Wow, you are going to be one sweet and innocent bride on your wedding night :p
 
The changing attitude and culturally acceptable age level for sex is making me feel old. I think my biggest problem is that it means jack shit these days. Like going for a walk or buying a newspaper.

Plus all the exchanges of bodily fluids unchecked is STILL FUCKING DANGEROUS.
 
I'm not all that surprised. I'm 18, so I guess I have a decent viewpoint, most of you guys seem older. Hell, I remember some kids talking about it in 8th grade. Personally, I'm working my way to Boogie status it appears.
 

demon

I don't mean to alarm you but you have dogs on your face
PuertoRicanJuice said:
Personally, I'm working my way to Boogie status it appears.
And after that, work your way to the very top of Loser Hill and meet me.
 

tedtropy

$50/hour, but no kissing on the lips and colors must be pre-separated
Ghost said:
Yeah i lied when i was in 9th grade too.

:lol

Too true. How much can you trust these statistics? There's such peer pressure when it comes to sex that I'm sure MANY kids simply lie and say they've had it.
 

Shinobi

Member
That'd only make sense if their names are listed. And even then that'd only make sense if it were the guys...I don't think the girls want the whole fucking world to know that they give head to any boy that wants it at the drop of a hat.
 
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