Amibguous Cad
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Seriously. That's like reading a novel of some sort.
Tell her you like her you fool! Just do it. You have nothing to lose if you're moving away.
DO IT.
DO IT RIGHT NOW.
I probably will.
But first I need sleep
Seriously. That's like reading a novel of some sort.
Tell her you like her you fool! Just do it. You have nothing to lose if you're moving away.
DO IT.
DO IT RIGHT NOW.
Cad, you are truly a life poet.
I read a really amazing comic about BDSM ,check it out http://shiniez.deviantart.com/art/page-zero-dun-dun-dunnnnn-underwhelming-huh-311369363
Yeah no lol
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Where the safest place to meet a partner in the Kink community? I know the regular Tinder/OKC/Match hookup won't be the same.
I read a really amazing comic about BDSM ,check it out http://shiniez.deviantart.com/art/page-zero-dun-dun-dunnnnn-underwhelming-huh-311369363
They've mentioned fetlife.com in the thread a couple times, seems like a nice place to meet like minded folks in your area, at least. Haven't used it personally.
Always somewhere public. Never agree to meet someone at their place without meeting them in public first. Also, if you are heavily involved in your local scene, ask someone you trust about them. Make sure they are who they say they are and act the way they seem. If coffee or something seems too boring, you could always go to something in your local scene together. Things like seminars or rope bites are a lot of fun and let you get a kind of idea about how the person acts outside the vanilla world. Be sure to check Fetlife and see if you have any going on. Also, the person may be as scared as you are and just as nervous. It just helps to assume the best and prepare for the worst.Where the safest place to meet a partner in the Kink community? I know the regular Tinder/OKC/Match hookup won't be the same.
They've mentioned fetlife.com in the thread a couple times, seems like a nice place to meet like minded folks in your area, at least. Haven't used it personally.
I have that, but I'm always afraid it's too loud in public.
Also, do you put it in her or just over her clit?
I have that, but I'm always afraid it's too loud in public.
Also, do you put it in her or just over her clit?
They've mentioned fetlife.com in the thread a couple times, seems like a nice place to meet like minded folks in your area, at least. Haven't used it personally.
I dated a model into that stuff, she stuck her finger up my ass during a blowjob with no prior warning.
I swiftly broke up with her after that. (Straw that broke the camel's back btw)
Where the safest place to meet a partner in the Kink community? I know the regular Tinder/OKC/Match hookup won't be the same.
50 Shades of Grey movie.
Be prepared.
The only exposure i ever had with BDSM is a manga called nana to kaoru
Its fantastic
Fetlife is NOT a dating site, though there are dating groups and play groups everywhere. Most munches tend to know communities, and those communities tend to have play parties.
By the way dalin80, despite your misconceptions of what feminism is, it's certainly not "all men should die in a fire." That's just misandry, which is equally as bad as misogyny. Feminism has nothing to do with that. ( & no, just because a fringe radical group thinks that, does not make it so. Civil Rights movement was not about black superiority, even though a fringe radical black power group may claim so.)
However, as a male, like in all sites that are even vaguely sexual, your attention may be unwanted. A female/person does not exist on the site solely for you, and honestly they should just ignore you or politely tell you they are not interested in you, but unfortunately not everyone is that mature. Just know that it's NOT a dating site, so solicitations from strangers are generally frowned upon.
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Definitely this. I started off going to munches and now organise some on there. Most of my closest friends I have found from munching so it's absolutely worth it.
They've mentioned fetlife.com in the thread a couple times, seems like a nice place to meet like minded folks in your area, at least. Haven't used it personally.
Yeah, register on Fetlife (be honest, it's much better for you that way, trust me) and find out where the nearest Munch is.
Always somewhere public. Never agree to meet someone at their place without meeting them in public first. Also, if you are heavily involved in your local scene, ask someone you trust about them. Make sure they are who they say they are and act the way they seem. If coffee or something seems too boring, you could always go to something in your local scene together. Things like seminars or rope bites are a lot of fun and let you get a kind of idea about how the person acts outside the vanilla world. Be sure to check Fetlife and see if you have any going on. Also, the person may be as scared as you are and just as nervous. It just helps to assume the best and prepare for the worst.
Edit: Oh, you meant meet as in to meet them. That's easy. Fetlife. They probably have a list of events in your area. Go to a munch. Attend a rope bite. Or a tng meeting. Fetlife is much more a social networking site than a dating site, I've found. Go be social!
Definitely this. I started off going to munches and now organise some on there. Most of my closest friends I have found from munching so it's absolutely worth it.
I'd also like to parrot the consensus and say Fetlife. I've made some great friends there, as well as a lovely litle sub I'll be breaking in when I go to Japan this November.
I'm so happy some GAF members are on Fetlife. I searched for a NeoGAF group but didn't find one and assumed I was on my own![]()
This isn't the first time I heard of Fetlife. I'm just so apprehensive to share my personal info on there.
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Darksol, what groups are misinformed on games on there? That might be the best place for me to start meeting peoples.
You don't need to share any information, you can have a completely blank profile other then a username and you can even change that every month if you wish or even close and lock out the account all together. You don't have to pay, doing so simply let's you use the video section which is fairly pointless for the type of site anyway.
You can browse and get use to the site without sharing a single thing but ultimately you will get little out of it. It is a intimacy based community and without opening up about yourself a little (which when you find the right people to do so with is very relieving) you won't get far.
As a final note I will say this, two years ago I was very depressed, depressed to the point of thinking about stupid things, not being able to be fully intimate or truly open up to people was proving to be a massive burden. Last year I went to my first munch and the sense of relief was almost euphoric, I made friends who I hold very dear and found people I can be entirely open with, on top of that had a lot of fun and some great laughs. Hell I have just got back from holiday with a friend who I can't imagine being without who
I met from there.
What is a munch...?
I have that, but I'm always afraid it's too loud in public.
Also, do you put it in her or just over her clit?
This isn't the first time I heard of Fetlife. I'm just so apprehensive to share my personal info on there.
I'm going to guess yes, but does Fetlife have an active gay userbase on it?
I'm going to guess yes, but does Fetlife have an active gay userbase on it?
Ok I took the plunge.
GAF name is same as Fetlife name.
Oh fuck this'll be a wild ride.
It will be as wild as you want it to be. I've proposed making a GAF group in Fetlife but we want to find at least 5 members before we put real consideration into it.
I'm going to guess yes, but does Fetlife have an active gay userbase on it?
I reactivated my long dormant fetlife profile. It actually predates the events that lead to me coming out of the transgender closet about 3-4 years ago.
I won't link my profile, my fetishes would be a massive thread derail, but thanks for convincing me to do it.
Ok I took the plunge.
GAF name is same as Fetlife name.
Oh fuck this'll be a wild ride.
It will be as wild as you want it to be. I've proposed making a GAF group in Fetlife but we want to find at least 5 members before we put real consideration into it.
I think we're at 4 already ^_^
Make the group, make the group, make the group![]()
i am totally curious about all this stuff. someone hold my hand
We're here if you need usHell, I'm a MLP fan too
What in particular interests you?