Edit: Realize now this may have been better suited for a different thread but saw there was some ALT talk going on and the heart of what I'm trying to accomplish is learning Japanese still so I'll leave it. Skip over if you don't want to waste time with a bit of reflection.
So I've been in Japan about 8 months now. There is definitely truth to this idea of speaking English all day at work and then meeting up with English speakers after for drinks and not learning jackshit. I hang out more often with Japanese at the bars now but I wouldn't say I learn too much. Just stumble through what I know, struggle with what I almost know, accidentally offend people sometimes but not usually, and lose a bunch of money.
I've been putting in more time to my kanji apps and doing a lot more reading with a dictionary so literacy is improving okay--excited to start some manga with no furigana soon--but speaking is difficult. I've moved most of my television to Japanese with no subtitles, which is okay. I don't understand tons but I am noticeably picking up on things and tying it into my reading and listening to natural conversations. Try and game in Japanese as well, but that can be harder and am not willing to sacrifice all of the games I've been looking forward to for full cultural immersion. Spend too much time on Gaf still and reading English on my kindle but I think those are more efficient choices than trying to study on the type of train rides i usually take.
Not sure what the point of this post was. Comments on my plans, choices, and what I could be doing better are always welcome. Guess I'm just saying I wouldn't necessarily recommend the life to everyone. It's easy to move out and not improve at all. I know a lot of people who have been here for years and don't know shit and am obliged to say that it is easy to do. Even having Japanese friends who don't speak English doesn't guarantee much--not to mention those aren't exactly easy to come by since I've lucked into mine. But, on the bright side, studying is easier than back home, immersion is easier, and I also know a lot of people who have become proficient enough in the language to get by and live the Japanese "dream".
I think the hardest thing is that working with kids can be tiring. It's hard to spend a full work week teaching and then not escape in your free time to something comfortable. I've known this for a long time, writing in my free time for years, but you need to be ready to be really tired until you can get amped by your studying. I think that is why I specifically have been focusing on reading and comprehension. I like to read. Getting to a place where reading Japanese or playing Yokai Watch or Dragon Quest is equal parts leisure and study makes it much easier for me.
Most of my negativity comes from personal issues like not really knowing what I'm doing here. I read manga now as practice but never touched it before I was here. The working culture seems like a nightmare and I have no dreams of joining it. Haven't watched anime regularly in like six years. The end game as far as I can tell is importing games and books to keep a wider literary perspective and get around localization waits/woes. If I happened into a serious relationship here, I would be in a difficult spot. Zero aspirations of being a teacher, and I'm aware that is frowned on by some, but I haven't met anyone I feel are doing their companies or students any harm. You can still speak English natively which is most of what they want you for and learning how to plan lessons and keep students engaged and happy actually makes your day-to-day life significantly easier so most people seem to do that reflexively. But the people I hang around are good people, so that could change things. I know there are some real pieces of work running around but I've kept my distance there.
Turning off the LiveJournal now. Hopefully this was useful to anyone considering the change.