FreeMufasa
Junior Member
I got a problem and could really use some advice.
My sister is about to throw her life away at 19 years old. Here's the story.
Summer '11 I came back home from college and my big bro was there too. My sister was 17 at the time. My mom comes running up the stairs to our room shaking. She says that some man called saying he's going to kill our sister. He told my mom that he's her bf. he said he found texts on her phone from another guy saying "hi how r u?" And said he's going to throw acid In her face and kill her. We're black Muslim and this guy is afghan.
I'm usually the rash, hot tempered one in our family and was going nuts. I wanted to kill him. So my bro decided to call him back and he said the same thing and hung up. We were all in shock. We didn't even know she was dating let alone this crazy fuck. Apparently her bf called her and told her what happened and she was scared to come back home after school. When everyone left for work she packed her bags and left the house.
Again we were shocked. We left it for a day and then searched her room. We found an address all the way down in Brighton and my big bro decided to brin her back. He got her back. Call it racist or w/e but I know how a lot of these afghans are in the UK, acid attacks and honor killings do happen. If he was your everyday looser, then whatever that's my sisters choice. But threatening to kill? I had to do something. There was an uproar about illegal afghans in the UK that time so I called immigration on him. Turned out he is here legally. He found out it was me and tried to attack me one time. I put his short ass in hospital for a while. The result of that my sister not speaking to me for 5 months and being even more dedicated to him.
I left for Japan last year but all this shit was a reason for me to stay. My big bro is always in his own world so I was a father figure to the little ones. I got regular updates on the situation by my mum and she said my sister comes home with bruises sometimes. She's found large amounts of gold, new clothes and Gs in her bank account which she says she's just holding for her bf. this dude don't work, got no education. My mom called the police on him and got him arrested. But then my sister ran back to him. He then called my mom and said my sister is his property and he's gonna pimp her out in Brighton to his contacts.....
Fast forward yesterday and I'm skyping with mom. She says they got engaged this month and will marry November 9th. I started screaming saying she's gonna fuck her life up for good. My mom knows, but she knows there's nothing she can do...and in her crazy view, better this horrible piece of shit than a non-Muslim. I spoke to my big bro to sum and he's just on that her life let her do.
My sister was a 98% girl. That's what she got in all her tests and before meeting him she was on her way to oxford university. She had so many friends, both genders and was cool. She used to speak like Kate Middleton, now she sounds like she just immigrated to England 2 months ago.Meeting him her grades dropped hard and she couldn't get into any colleges. I spent 2 hours every night working with her and we got her up to a good standard and she just started at a good college. This dude wants that British passport. He'll get her pregnant ASAP and make her drop out.
I've tried immigration, violence, police, threatening him and talking to my sister but nothing has worked. My mom is just so tired and I know this is killing her inside. I just know this guy will kill her one day. I'll try talk to her one last time to at least push back the wedding 6 months but it that don't work, shit.
My sister is about to throw her life away at 19 years old. Here's the story.
Summer '11 I came back home from college and my big bro was there too. My sister was 17 at the time. My mom comes running up the stairs to our room shaking. She says that some man called saying he's going to kill our sister. He told my mom that he's her bf. he said he found texts on her phone from another guy saying "hi how r u?" And said he's going to throw acid In her face and kill her. We're black Muslim and this guy is afghan.
I'm usually the rash, hot tempered one in our family and was going nuts. I wanted to kill him. So my bro decided to call him back and he said the same thing and hung up. We were all in shock. We didn't even know she was dating let alone this crazy fuck. Apparently her bf called her and told her what happened and she was scared to come back home after school. When everyone left for work she packed her bags and left the house.
Again we were shocked. We left it for a day and then searched her room. We found an address all the way down in Brighton and my big bro decided to brin her back. He got her back. Call it racist or w/e but I know how a lot of these afghans are in the UK, acid attacks and honor killings do happen. If he was your everyday looser, then whatever that's my sisters choice. But threatening to kill? I had to do something. There was an uproar about illegal afghans in the UK that time so I called immigration on him. Turned out he is here legally. He found out it was me and tried to attack me one time. I put his short ass in hospital for a while. The result of that my sister not speaking to me for 5 months and being even more dedicated to him.
I left for Japan last year but all this shit was a reason for me to stay. My big bro is always in his own world so I was a father figure to the little ones. I got regular updates on the situation by my mum and she said my sister comes home with bruises sometimes. She's found large amounts of gold, new clothes and Gs in her bank account which she says she's just holding for her bf. this dude don't work, got no education. My mom called the police on him and got him arrested. But then my sister ran back to him. He then called my mom and said my sister is his property and he's gonna pimp her out in Brighton to his contacts.....
Fast forward yesterday and I'm skyping with mom. She says they got engaged this month and will marry November 9th. I started screaming saying she's gonna fuck her life up for good. My mom knows, but she knows there's nothing she can do...and in her crazy view, better this horrible piece of shit than a non-Muslim. I spoke to my big bro to sum and he's just on that her life let her do.
My sister was a 98% girl. That's what she got in all her tests and before meeting him she was on her way to oxford university. She had so many friends, both genders and was cool. She used to speak like Kate Middleton, now she sounds like she just immigrated to England 2 months ago.Meeting him her grades dropped hard and she couldn't get into any colleges. I spent 2 hours every night working with her and we got her up to a good standard and she just started at a good college. This dude wants that British passport. He'll get her pregnant ASAP and make her drop out.
I've tried immigration, violence, police, threatening him and talking to my sister but nothing has worked. My mom is just so tired and I know this is killing her inside. I just know this guy will kill her one day. I'll try talk to her one last time to at least push back the wedding 6 months but it that don't work, shit.
