"Grooming"
perfectly captures the way children have become useful human fodder in service of a system of fanatical sexual & ideological beliefs which belong to a faction of adults, who in turn should know better than to use their authority to press these matters onto minds that have zero chance of understanding, only of mimicking the expectations of those authorities. Yes, that is grooming, and it is child abuse write large.
The purely magical erotic belief that you could change your sex or find some hidden other sex inside you is something that emerged from autogynephilic adult males in recent decades, people like Bruce Jenner whose fetish is so obviously being paraded for his own enjoyment--as he tries hard to mimic a kind of pornified caricature of a woman from his fantasies--that it's a wonder how anyone with the slightest mental consistency can't see through it.
Many of these men are quite wealthy, which is a more like profile to run into this kind of thing; see for instance the full story of the Wachowski's and their obsession with dominatrixes, which gradually led into a "gender identity" when that became a vogue way to carry this fetish into public life:
https://archive.ph/PYeMs (Rolling Stone later buried this article, because ideologically you're no longer permitted to tell the truth here.)
Those men fund powerful organizations (take for example "Mermaids" in the UK), which spend millions to try and push "transgender" ideas into classroom spaces and pedagogical resources. But when you mention female teachers, yes that's a sad part of this... what happened politically to create this strange alliance?
It's basically a perfect strategic move by which this particular lines of fetishes could be rebranded as
actually another kind of queer, another part of gay rights, etc. In a historically bizarre porn-saturated youth culture like ours with hardcore material on every kid's smartphone, there are other pathologies at stake, particularly with people like young women who are coming of age, dealing with body changes, and suddenly find all of that material abhorrent to the point where they come to
hate their female body. Female "trans" come from this self-disgust, entirely unrelated clinically to male autogynephilic desires which come from a fetish, but "trans" and gender-identity are purely political labels invented to unify these things in order to normalize it.
So then you pair this with a generation of progressive young women in places like education schools, who are desperate to take on some of these trendy labels like "queer" or tumblerish "nonbinary," particularly those which have no real sacrifice involved and really just translate to "normal straight girl but nose-ring and colored hair, hates parents." They adore the salvation complex of awakening poor oppressed "trans" kids in their schools, so they fall into this ideology easily and are essentially dumb soldiers for the mostly-male activists who want this new kind of sexual practice in schools and normalized at all ages.
Kids are being "groomed" to support all of this: to help normalize the sexual desires of certain men, to provide more fodder for a certain pornified caste, to validate the savior complexes of progressive women, and to give this exhilarating sense to certain ideological fools that somehow we are entering a new era beyond binary sex, some playground of new identities and sexual endless possibility. Children's bodies are being destroyed in service of all of this. It's despicable, as is any person who supports it at any level.