I think a part of incel anti-behaviour is simply laziness. it just so happens to go hand in hand with trying to get chicks.
Who knows. Maybe big groups of incels have always been around since the caveman days, but I dont that impression even if there was no internet to see it widespread. The internet age has made a lot of people lazy and anti-social where they sit home doing everything.... WFH, order take out, groceries and anything from Amazon from home, no need to talk to people face to face since you can text them etc.... If you think about it you probably can live at home never going out as long as the company allows you to WFH 100% of the time. Hell, they'll even mail you a corporate laptop.
So these internet nerds are amped up in anger they cant press a button a get a chick like clicking a button to order a pizza or pornhubbing all night. For you young people who do everything on the net, believe it or not you used to need to pick up a phone and order a pizza and not every restaurant had delivery. There was no uber eats too, so you or dad had to pick it up. And picking up a girl was hanging out with buddies on a weekend at a pub or club hoping to see hotties. And then low and behold, swap phone numbers writing it down.
I would use the word unmotivated. It looks and feels like laziness.
Straight to the point.
Stop Jerking yourselves off.
Get off social media (IG, Youtube, TikTok, Uber, OF)
Get off the screen.
I'm an old dog, so I can
clearly see and feel the effects these things have on a body/mind. We are men... hunters. We pursue things.
You young guys were basically born into an algorithm. I call you all addicts and treat you as such when I interact with you.
The things you
should find pleasurable...rewarding you don't because you are on that screen jerking yourselves off (mentally/physically)
You need to reset. Allow those chemicals in your body to level out back in reality.
The starting point really is that simply in theory. I get it, more difficult to practice in real life. (Sounds like an addict?)
You don't have to get out of that dark place all by yourself though. Life wants you to be happy and healthy. Your body? That meat puppet with living cells, bacteria, organs? It wants to thrive. You... the one reading this. You are more of a landlord than a tenant.
Your body by its very existence wants to go up... move forward... be better. It knows no other direction.
You are getting in the way.
I could go on and on. But that's one of the problems. Complicating life. Looking for that right message, said the right way, at the right time. Always searching so "I'm doing something about it".
Streets is 100% on this. Uber example spot on.
I finished working a 12 hour shift. Nevermind the fact that I had to be up at 4am to get to work. So that's 4am - 8pm + 2 more hours for a commute home. 4am - 10pm.
My entire day taken by work. It would have been so easy to Uber some food when I got home. On the bus it was all I was thinking about. It made me so agitated and angry. The thought of getting home then pressing a button for someone to shovel slop down my throat.
On the bus, I made the decision to go and get food. A late night spot that I knew would be open. It added another 45 min to my day (night at this point)
But the thought of Ubering it, fucking disgusted me. I would have eaten and just felt horrible about myself.
Going out to get that meal. So worth it. I got less sleep. Had less 'down' time once I got home. Still so worth it.
