i'm not trying to be rude or insulting here, i just think it's beyond silly to buy a ($1500?) dollar ring for reasons that amount to little more than symbolic value. if there are really many reasons, could you list them here? i'm curious what they could be because, as you stated, i don't go to a&m.
I mean, an engagement/wedding ring is also nothing more than symbolic/traditional value, but people spend money on those because they still think it's worth it.
People think spending the money for the ring is worth it.
I mean, there can be a lot of sentimental values for the ring. Some of the symbolic values of the ring itself are here:
http://aggietraditions.tamu.edu/symbols/aggiering.html, but there are others, like I mentioned:
- tradition
- symbol of honor and ethics of the university
- if others in your family have one, people like to get theirs as well.
- sentimental value or accomplishment
- memory of senior year
- exclusive accessory/networking symbol. You recognize an Aggie by their ring.
- a lot of people just think it's a cool looking ring
Some of these reasons don't resonate with me and some of them do, but people have different reasons for wanting one. Either way, they think it's worth it to pay for it. Just like some people have reasons for buying any kind of expensive ring. Though in fact, the girls rings are much cheaper, $700-800, because they're smaller and use less gold. Men's rings are expensive because they're bigger (14k solid gold, $1500, although the 10k solid gold is $1000 instead).
Me? I still don't know how I'm going to pay for it. Was hoping to put some money aside, maybe I'll get a ring scholarship, I don't know. I may not get it for a while. I do want one, though, for some of the reasons mentioned. If I can't afford it then I won't get it.
Aggie culture/spirit is a really detailed complicated thing that is best either learned by being a student here or pouring over wikis, hahaha, so part of it I'm just going to say is: "it's an Aggie thing".
Also, I'm going to be "that guy" and say...I probably shouldn't lurk this thread anymore because I have a thermo final on Friday I have to study for lol.
If a&m really was some exceptionally unique school I'd see the point of everything you wrote..but it's no different than any other average university in the states. Your accomplishment isn't any better or worse than any other 4 year undergrad program in the country. So assigning a symbolic value to something so generic as completing college is a bit odd.. the tradition stuff is fine by me. Weird, but fine. But hard work? ethics? da fuck.. your school is just a cesspool of 20sumtin fuckwits.. like every other school lol.
Actually, A&M isn't an average or mediocre university, it's ranked very well in many programs for a public university, particularly in engineering and business. Either way, I'm not saying it's a symbol that we're better than other people. We're not and I don't care to pick fights with other schools like some Aggies do lol. My accomplishment of going to college is special
to me because 6 years ago I could never have seen myself graduating from college, let alone the major I picked, so the ring would symbolize
my accomplishment of my hard work.
And A&M takes its honor stuff very seriously, we have an honor code and an honors council and yada yada. I'm aware other schools probably do that too but for whatever reason A&M takes huge pride in that (and things like
The Big Event) and the ring is a symbol of that.