The ass is 4 degrees warmer than the vagina on average. It is very noticable on my dick.
The anus is tighter, more controllable, and with a knowledgable partner, is capable of feats the vagina simply cannot do.
If you are balls deep in an ass and your partner "bears down" as if shitting, the folds of ass meat can sink a further inch or so internally. Imagine that for a second. That is balls deep +more. It's like fucking 2.0. They don't teach this stuff in school boys and girls.
Some people are better at getting fucked in the ass than others. Consult a stool chart. If you are getting shit on your dick, your partner's bowl habits are going to be the culprit. This does not mean something is wrong with your partner's ass, it just means that certain types of poop have a better chance of causing issues. I've never once had an issue in my life, and friends, I fucked a shitload of asses in my day. I did get a girl's poo poo on a vibrator though. It was a hugh, as in wide, one too. She took that thing like a fucking champ. Solution? Keep a moist, dark colored hand towl handy. It's also good for normal anal clean up.
Choose the right lube for you. Some are thin and you feel a bit more friction. "Silk" was a brand I used for awhile. It has a water like consistency. I like a gel based because it provides a "cushion" of sorts. Astroglide is actually my favorite. You can buy it at Wal Mart for 5$. Just remember to always use water based with condoms. A little goes aong ways and spit reactivates that stuff instantly.
I am the ass man. It's been my thing since I was young and it was fostered by my first girlfriend. I have broken so many anal cherries in my life, it would make your head spin. How? I know how to fuck. I'm honest, open, and encouraging. I'm happy, fun, and funny. That is great and all, but trust is the number one factor. Women have always trusted me when it was buttfucking time. They knew I was experienced, would stop if asked and not be a dick about it, and they were reasonably sure in my opinion that they would enjoy themselves. Furthermore, by my very nature, buttfucking was never a surprise for anyone I ever dated. I just seem like the kind of guy that would give a 45 minute rim job then fuck some ass. I guess I just come across that way.
Anal is more intimite. I didn't date any virgins in my 20's, but I sure as hell broke in many a anal virgin. Those women will always remember me for that, as I will them for the same reason. Better yet? I liked taking a girl who had a terrible anal experience and showing her how good it can be when done correctly.
I could go on and on. Anal is fucking fantastic. Gotta go, sorry for spelling errors!
