Dice said:Well aside from all the stuff where you go crazy for them, you know, all those feelings you get when you look into their eyes... I would say it's a deep, committed care. Like you love them for everything, not only their strengths but their weaknesses too. You want the best for them so much you give of yourself to unhealthy extents to make sure they get it, even if it means the two of you don't end up together (though you would like that a lot). And it can be dangerous because it seems to be unwavering, it's just like that until you part ways pretty much. At least that's how it is for me, I don't know how much of that is related to my personality type.
i didn't think i was looking for a specific answer, but this pretty much nails it for me. The initial infatuation stage is misleading, especially if you easily fall in love or have long bouts where you don't have serious relationships, like me. After rereading your post, i realize just how much i miss that. ;(Dice said:Well aside from all the stuff where you go crazy for them, you know, all those feelings you get when you look into their eyes... I would say it's a deep, committed care. Like you love them for everything, not only their strengths but their weaknesses too. You want the best for them so much you give of yourself to unhealthy extents to make sure they get it, even if it means the two of you don't end up together (though you would like that a lot). And it can be dangerous because it seems to be unwavering, it's just like that until you part ways pretty much. At least that's how it is for me, I don't know how much of that is related to my personality type.
GG-Duo said:It's a cold and it's a broken Hallelujah
Cerebral Palsy said:Love feels sort of like getting an erection. Or is that just my erection that I'm feeling?
Cerebral Palsy said:Love feels sort of like getting an erection. Or is that just my erection that I'm feeling?
ToxicAdam said:I'm just astounded somone listens to NPR.
DonasaurusRex said:feels like you cant get it out of your head or heart...no matter how much you try with slut gf's and pr0n. You will know again..when your sloshed.
Dice said:Well aside from all the stuff where you go crazy for them, you know, all those feelings you get when you look into their eyes... I would say it's a deep, committed care. Like you love them for everything, not only their strengths but their weaknesses too. You want the best for them so much you give of yourself to unhealthy extents to make sure they get it, even if it means the two of you don't end up together (though you would like that a lot). And it can be dangerous because it seems to be unwavering, it's just like that until you part ways pretty much. At least that's how it is for me, I don't know how much of that is related to my personality type.
bjork said:You'll go to extremes for this person, knowing that it could somehow all end up being turned around and used on you, but they're worth it, so you'll endure whatever it takes to make sure they're happy... and if they're happy, that in turn makes you happy, and it's all good.
tetsuoxb said:love feels like a lighter wallet.
gofreak said:It's a real double-edged sword though. If your love is requited, it's the best feeling in the world. If not, it's the worst.