What is your biggest regret in life?

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i got a girl pregnant in college and freaked out. didn't handle it like a man.

you live and you learn.
 
pel1300 said:
so only one other person has the same "I didn't travel enough" regret?
I also have it. But I still don't have enough money to go on travel without caring (turning 23 soon). I don't even know how I ever could have enough money to go on a world tour...
 
pel1300 said:
Mine is -

That I didn't travel more when I was younger. I am 28 right now, and want to do a real backpacking trip across a continent before I get old.

How is that a regret? Take your 2 weeks off, book a contiki trip and voila. I'm doing that in two weeks and i'm 29.

Don't find excuses for yourself. You're not 80 years old.

And to answer your question, I have no regrets.
 
Picking the wrong career path.

I went down a road that turns out isnt gonna net me much money, at least not for a while.

I am now currently actively practicing a job that is down another career route, one where everyone makes 100k a year, except because i didnt get a fucking education for that career i get paid half what they do. Makes no fucking sense but i really hate the fact i work with higher paid people all day and am stuck behind simply because of technicalities. I clearly have the aptitude to make it in the other career, i just dont have the time or money right now to go headfirst down that road.

Sucks.
 
Not applying for my current job earlier. I'm almost as old as my supervisors who make almost twice as much as me. :(
 
Not taking advantage of the numerous social opportunities I was given during my brief stint at college. I had several great chances but blew every one of them off because I was such a stuck-up bastard who just wanted to stew in his room rather than interact with people.

That and not knowing what I wanted to do with my life.
 
Xater said:
Not taking Japanese at university. I now do it on the side and really enjoy it.

taking a japanese unit in my first year of university and then dropping it at the end after crashing and burning

those extra 3 years of study under my belt could've been useful now :/ i had no idea i'd ever live in or even be particularly interested in japan, i just thought the language sounded cool when uma thurman spoke it in kill bill
 
*Being too much of a pussy to ask out all the girls that liked me and i liked back
*Being a lazy bitch
*Doing better in school
 
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Not visiting Japan yet. I've been all over Europe (mostly in Germany and France visiting relatives), Japan is next.. some day
 
345triangle said:
taking a japanese unit in my first year of university and then dropping it at the end after crashing and burning

those extra 3 years of study under my belt could've been useful now :/ i had no idea i'd ever live in or even be particularly interested in japan, i just thought the language sounded cool when uma thurman spoke it in kill bill

Maybe it is good that I am just doing it for fun then? I can never be sure because I have not tried.

I still learn Japanese at my university, just not as a major. So far I am doing well.
 
Believing anyone who promised me anything.

The world is full of polite liars. Be a productive loner and don't wait up for shit.
 
That I didn't continue my education further and pissed away my money for the past 8 years, I could've went to uni if I'd wanted but I was tired of sitting at desks being talked at so I decided to get a job instead. I still went to college and gained some engineering and fabrication qualifications but they mean nothing in the real world.
 
-Not asking her to marry me, she's long gone now and i have been chasing Amy ever since.
I miss her every single day even though she's probably long married, but i guess i will never find out.

-Also not getting my Bachelor's degree sooner, now i work full time and study part time and its killing me, but i have to see through it, 2 more years to go.
 
i'm torn between two

not to say I haven't made more mistakes in my life but these are the only two I really haven't gotten over

1) not playing a sport in elementary/middle/high school

while I didn't want to be a professional athlete or anything, I missed out on some good times that were to be had by playing a sport. Sure they have adult amateaur leagues and stuff but it's not the same thing.

2) wasting years of my life playing an mmorpg

pretty much self explanatory, i've learned my lesson but it makes me really sad that I sat in front of a computer from dawn to night almost daily for years.
 
Missing out on some party fun times in University.

I enjoyed my time there, but in retrospect I could’ve spent way less time studying and more time partying and it wouldn’t have affected my current job standing much at all.
 
Aesius said:
Not having sex with a girl who obviously wanted it on my study abroad trip two years ago.

We were in London together for the summer. We went on walks around the city, and through Highgate and Hampstead. Many days of us just walking around together, alone, in the most amazing city in the world, and I never even kissed her.

As time goes by, I've let go of my most of my regrets but for some reason this one only seems to get worse.

Damn.
 
Aesius said:
Not having sex with a girl who obviously wanted it on my study abroad trip two years ago.

We were in London together for the summer. We went on walks around the city, and through Highgate and Hampstead. Many days of us just walking around together, alone, in the most amazing city in the world, and I never even kissed her.

As time goes by, I've let go of my most of my regrets but for some reason this one only seems to get worse.


Lost In Translation 2: London Edition
 
If I Had a regret it would be the not traveling thing. Ill never go to Japan or New Zealand even though I would love to.
 
Not being able to make payments toward my grandparents, who loaned me 12,000 dollars a few years ago. I just recently started paying them back, but I wish I'd been able to do it sooner.
 
Jzero15 said:
I wanted to join the military straight out of high school. I'd wanted to go in since I was a kid, and despite how well I was doing (and how crazy the world was getting) I still wanted to serve.

I let my family, friends, and some shitty athletics department talk me in to going to college. I never really liked the sports crowd, I never really fit in outside of game or practice, but I figured I could tough it out.

In the end I messed up my knee, got shafted by student loans (my grandparents never told me that my scholarship wasn't full until my 2nd year and my coaches/advisers never thought to bring it up), and I lost out on a really good woman.
 
Being too afraid to be myself as a teen. I was a shy kid, honourable to a fault, didn't know how to deal with douchbags and probably would've made a few girl-age threads if I'd known about GAF. If I could do it all again, I would not be nearly as uptight, stand up for myself more and be a lot more selfish.

One or two utter f#ck-ups at work that could've been avoided

Losing touch with my high school friends

Not traveling more
 
koam said:
How is that a regret? Take your 2 weeks off, book a contiki trip and voila. I'm doing that in two weeks and i'm 29.

Don't find excuses for yourself. You're not 80 years old.

And to answer your question, I have no regrets.

I'm talking long term travel, like 6 months to a year of travel.
 
Slacking off all throughout Highschool and most of college. I feel like I squandered what little intelligence I do have. I also regret some of the choices I've made in regards to the shit that I put into my body. Too much junk food and alcohol. Thankfully, I'm attempting to remedy that one right now.
 
I don't have any regrets! </Miss Phillipines>

Not being a better student in HS to get scholarships.

Not going to college.

Not saving more of my money when I lived at home.

Not meeting ladies when I was younger, this would have made my childhood ambition of becoming a great grandfather possible.

Not having a real direction in life and sort of stumbling onto my career path.

Not accomplishing anything with my ability to make marks on paper that resemble things.

Not believing in myself.

I could go on, and on. . . =_=;
 
I regret that I always wanted to be the "perfect" son for my parents, so sometimes I did stuff just to make them happy, for example-

Playing football as a semi-professional instead of just having it as a hobby, thus missing out on many things - got the talent, but never had (after it becoming more serious at around age 15) the motivation so I made the worst decision- to continue half-assed

Not instantly moving out when going to university and also doing way too little interesting things before studying (most of my friends traveled around the world or spent a year working far away from home )

So when I quit football and moved out my parents where really disappointed (especially my father) which just doesn't make sense to me- of course you can see the people I used to play with smiling out of the TV but not choosing this path doesn't make me a terrible son, seeing how I never made them problems all my life...

Well, I'm over it now, but it's sad how giving up my football career made me end up as what seems to be the "least favourite" son
 
Be better with them girls?

I don't really know, as all the stupid things I may regret contributed to shape me as I am now.



And I'm awesome.
 
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