You already know the answer.
"I'm a strong, independent woman and I absolutely despise men, unless they're treating me with respect! And even then I will act like someone mocking the idea of male/female relationship at its roots, because I'm deeply insecure about everything."
(definition of respect: a contradictory nonsense - woman is always right, woman is precious like a princess... meanwhile the said strong and independent monkey is disturbingly irrational/aggressive, and her looks are repulsive).