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[DaCocoBrova]

Man... I remember when I was young, I would fantasize about women... I saw no harm in a woman liking a man. What I didn't spend time thinking about, was when the feeling isn't mutual.

That has been the story of my (love) life.

Do any of you date? If so, how do you deal w/ the ones that don't make the cut, but still end up liking you anyway?

Is there a universal bitchleavemebe repelant or boilerplate repsonse to questions these nuissances always ask?

I like to think I'm somewhat cold blooded, but admittedly, I find it difficult to hurt people emotionally, so I kind of skate around having to do that, and just wait for them to take a hint.

That hasn't worked for two women in particular. One of which I've called every name in the book, thrown her out my apartment... And she keeps pooping up like those old school punching bags w/ the sand at the bottom.

I don't usually date. More than likely I have something exclusive w/ someone. But as I get older and look towards settling down, I have become much more picky. For that reason, I'm probably perceived as being arrogant, but I'm not. It's just pickiness and confidence confused for conceit.

Anyone here having any dating woes?

 

[NLB2]

Act not interested in them but not C/F. If they start talking to you, reply with short answers.
"How was your day?"
"Fine."
"You know you look really nice?"
"Thanks."
And when they're talking to you they'll probably have their body pointed towards you and will attempt to make eye contact. Position your body so it is 90 degrees away from them and look that way as well. The girl will soon enough get the idea.

 

[BlackMage]

That hasn't worked for two women in particular. One of which I've called every name in the book, thrown her out my apartment... And she keeps pooping up like those old school punching bags w/ the sand at the bottom.

and this is somehow less hurtful than telling the fucking truth?

 

[BlackMage]

Act not interested in them but not C/F. If they start talking to you, reply with short answers.
"How was your day?"
"Fine."
"You know you look really nice?"
"Thanks."
And when they're talking to you they'll probably have their body pointed towards you and will attempt to make eye contact. Position your body so it is 90 degrees away from them and look that way as well. The girl will soon enough get the idea.

shitty advice.

 

[NLB2]

Why's it shitty Jonny? It always works for me.

 

[Drexon]

This is woman talk.

 

[BlackMage]

1. doesn't give a clear message to the person.
2. it is the pussy way out of getting a girl to leave you alone.

be a man and tell her "hey, this isn't working out, i dont want a relationship with you.." or if it's out of control "leave me alone, i dont want to see you again!" and don't do it in front of other people.

 

[NLB2]

1. doesn't give a clear message to the person.

I won't dispute the pussiness of it but it is clear as crystal what you want. As far as throwing girls out of your house, calling them names, stuff like that, to many girls, will make them like you more.

 

[mrmyth]

Act not interested in them but not C/F. If they start talking to you, reply with short answers.
"How was your day?"
"Fine."
"You know you look really nice?"
"Thanks."
And when they're talking to you they'll probably have their body pointed towards you and will attempt to make eye contact. Position your body so it is 90 degrees away from them and look that way as well. The girl will soon enough get the idea.

This is the kinda shit that leads to womens magazines, Men Are From Mars, Women Are from Venus, and some girl on a message board somewhere bothering the residents for the umpteenth time about why her BF barely talks to her.

Man up and tell her it ain't working. There's your universal repellent - the truth. You a grown ass man. Your only games should involve a controller and a screen.

And some punching bags liked to be punched.

 

[NLB2]

This is the kinda shit that leads to womens magazines, Men Are From Mars, Women Are from Venus, and some girl on a message board somewhere bothering the residents for the umpteenth time about why her BF barely talks to her.

Man up and tell her it ain't working. There's your universal repellent - the truth. You a grown ass man. Your only games should involve a controller and a screen.

And some punching bags liked to be punched.

I was under the impresssion that these girls were just potential girlfriends. If you were dating them then you have to talk to them about how its not working, but if not, I don't see a need to even bring the subject up.
Edit: Wait, I can read thread titles!

 

[Suerte]

Personally, I'd rather just know what people are thinking, whether it hurt me or not, it's better than being messed around with, which has happened to me before and it sucked. But if you've told them how you feel and they keep coming back, they're tards.

 

[gofreak]

Personally, I'd rather just know what people are thinking, whether it hurt me or not, it's better than being messed around with, which has happened to me before and it sucked. But if you've told them how you feel and they keep coming back, they're tards.

IAWTP. It's better to know, even if it does mean short-term hurt.

 

[DaCocoBrova]

I pride myself on being 'real' but I had to tone that sh!t down. I'm just trying to find a happy medium.

I also like the sex. Part of me wants to keep them around just for that, until my next 'girl' comes along.

Here's another question:

How do you tactfully suggest that you just want to be 'fuck buddies'?

 

[mrmyth]

How do you tactfully suggest that you just want to be 'fuck buddies'?

I know these words make up a sentence, but I can't make heads or tails of it.


There is no tactful to a girl who expects more. And there's no need for tactful from a girl who doesn't mind.

 

[DarienA]

How do you tactfully suggest that you just want to be 'fuck buddies'?

Never have interest in going anywhere with them when the call, or come over... but when they are over have lots of interest in fucking.

 

[RevenantKioku]

I pride myself on being 'real' but I had to tone that sh!t down. I'm just trying to find a happy medium.

I also like the sex. Part of me wants to keep them around just for that, until my next 'girl' comes along.

Here's another question:

How do you tactfully suggest that you just want to be 'fuck buddies'?

If you just wanna be fuck buddies, you keep doing what you're doing. Mention that, and you'll either be begged for a relationship, lose the sex, or have them become ultra controlling about where you go and who you see, because you could be out fucking someone who isn't her.

 

[DaCocoBrova]

^^

My man!

That works up until a point tho. At least w/ the pretty ones.

 

[Tommie Hu$tle]

Becausse it hasn't been mentioned


FHUTA, then tell her the truth. Wash, rince, repeat.

 

[DJ Demon J]

This is the kinda shit that leads to womens magazines, Men Are From Mars, Women Are from Venus, and some girl on a message board somewhere bothering the residents for the umpteenth time about why her BF barely talks to her.

Man up and tell her it ain't working. There's your universal repellent - the truth. You a grown ass man. Your only games should involve a controller and a screen.

And some punching bags liked to be punched.

IAWTP.

 

[DaCocoBrova]

I don't do 'dukey chute'.

 

[Tommie Hu$tle]

I don't do 'dukey chute'.

It's not for your benifit, it's for hers.

 

[miyuru]

That hasn't worked for two women in particular. One of which I've called every name in the book, thrown her out my apartment... And she keeps pooping up like those old school punching bags w/ the sand at the bottom.