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Would you date someone that...
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videogamer
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Suerte said:
Yes, if I were willing to date again.
The Shadow
Member
Yes. A good or bad kisser isn't a deciding factor for me.
MrAngryFace
Banned
We were all bad kissers once. Or still arealphasnake
Naked Snake
Member
Kissing is by far my favorite sexual activity, I really don't know what a bad kisser is, I just know that if I don't enjoy kissing a certain person, then I'm not attracted to them.
warabi-mochi
Member
Yes. They have to learn somehow, after all.
Mama Smurf
My penis is still intact.
Sure, I really don't give a crap about kissing. It's like holding hands to me. Nice, but it's not really doing anything for me.
carbonbased
Member
Really? It has to happen eventually, though. Just keep on chasin' the ladies.Boogie said:
And yes, kissing isn't that big of a deal. Everyone can learn. I've dated a bad kisser before, and while it definitely wasn't as enjoyable as someone who knows what they're doing, it's not a horrible experience or anything.
MrAngryFace
Banned
teh kissing just sorta happens
Bah, that's a silly thing to base the crux of a relationship on. If you really like the girl, then you two can look forward to the joy of mastering 'good' kissing together. It's just another cool bonding activity you can do. Do you think of her when shes away? Do you two laugh a lot together and are just generally enhanced through each others company? Those are the more important questions
It was just someone I met while I was out tonight, he was fucking perfect in every way but he was awful at kissing. We had such good conversations and he asked me out on a date sometime, but I told him to think on it overnight (he was kinda drunkish, I was sober - FOR ONCE!) Bleh, I'll see if he txts me tomorrow before I even start thinking over this.
It was so random though! After all that "first move" stuff last week, this guy just came over, sat himself down at our table and introduced himself and we were away, so random. Never had that happen to me before!
It was so random though! After all that "first move" stuff last week, this guy just came over, sat himself down at our table and introduced himself and we were away, so random. Never had that happen to me before!
videogamer
Banned
what was the kissing like? slobbery or what?
MrAngryFace
Banned
suerte: give it some dates, itll work itself out
videogamer
Banned
Ha so not doing the first move worked out fine this time
Mama Smurf
My penis is still intact.
I hear women (who are sober) base whether they're going to sleep with you or not on how good you are at kissing. Obviously other stuff too, but if you have plenty of other good points yet you're a bad kisser, you're screwed. That's what I read anyway.
My problem is I don't really enjoy kissing, as I've said. So it's very hard for me to gauge what a good kiss is and what isn't. Now if I did get more pleasure out of kissing, I could say, "I like the way that girl kissed me, I'll do that" or "I didn;t like that, better not try it myself". But as it's all the same to me (unless she's slobbering all over my face or something), I can't really learn.
I've never had complaints, but I've never had compliments either. Don't really know what to think. I've had a few longish term relationships though, so either they think like me or they don't mind a bad kisser or I'm fine.
My problem is I don't really enjoy kissing, as I've said. So it's very hard for me to gauge what a good kiss is and what isn't. Now if I did get more pleasure out of kissing, I could say, "I like the way that girl kissed me, I'll do that" or "I didn;t like that, better not try it myself". But as it's all the same to me (unless she's slobbering all over my face or something), I can't really learn.
I've never had complaints, but I've never had compliments either. Don't really know what to think. I've had a few longish term relationships though, so either they think like me or they don't mind a bad kisser or I'm fine.
Mama Smurf said:
I've always found kissing to be one of the best parts of a relationship. It's nice to have the ability to really feel and display affection basically everywhere, although alot of people find that annoying.
Mama Smurf
My penis is still intact.
Don't get me wrong, I like the idea of kissing and the closeness of it, I just don't really get any physical pleasure from it. Certainly I couldn't do a fucking make out session for 3 hours like I know some people do.
In fact, you guys can help me! What do you like when someone kisses you? What don't you like?
In fact, you guys can help me! What do you like when someone kisses you? What don't you like?
Ninja Scooter
Member
since you are gay suerte, here's a question for you: Would you date a dude with the same name as you?
Mama Smurf said:
Well, I think the longevity of the 'makeout sessions' kind of decreases as the relationship gets on in months and years. When you're first going on, those are the best times...you're both still figuring out each other, still foreign, and it's the thrill of a new experience (at least with that particular person). Hugging, kissing, closeness in general is some of the best stuff early on in the relationship. If you don't find kissing itself all that physical interesting, figure out some interesting stuff to do with your hands while you're at it. Gauge what she likes. All women seem to have some particular spots where they like to be touched or kissed - learning that is alot of the best stuff.
MrAngryFace
Banned
dont listen to the nay-sayers, kissing kicks fucking ass.
Mama Smurf
My penis is still intact.
tedtropy said:
Good idea. I know the sign language alphabet, I could spell it out repeatedly behind her back.
Mercury Fred
Banned
Kissing rocks. And in my experience, people who are bad kissers are bad in bed. Really good making out is like a kind of communication. It's like you get a sense of who the person really is.
I think you should go out with him and try it again, but this time lead. And don't lead once, be consistent and show him how it's done. If he doesn't get it after a while he's probably not trainable. That way, at least you'll know you gave it a shot.
I think you should go out with him and try it again, but this time lead. And don't lead once, be consistent and show him how it's done. If he doesn't get it after a while he's probably not trainable. That way, at least you'll know you gave it a shot.
Mama Smurf
My penis is still intact.
tedtropy said:
Like a keyboard?
To give a serious answer to Suerte though, if you really like the guy but can't get past the bad kissing, explain it to him and try and teach him how to do it better. You've not really got anything to lose. He should be thankful too, personally I'd much prefer a girl to confront me and tell me I'm a bad kisser, but that it's ok 'cos she's going to make me good, than to just pass me onto the next girl to kiss badly.
Man I really want to know if I kiss well or not now. I have a friend who might kiss me if I explain things, I think she'd be honest too. Hmmm it is 4 in the morning here, probably shouldn't ask her right now.
MrAngryFace said:
Going back to this point, and I know I'm not going to get a satisfactory here, but, uh, when is the right time to try for the first kiss?
Not like I've had any opportunities at all, but I'm kinda paranoid that if I ever do manage to go out with a girl that I'll pull a demon and try to kiss her and she'll pull away, or slap me, or ask WTF I'm doing or something.
EDIT: I'm so glad Cubsfan's not on the boards right now
Luscious LeftFoot
Member
Can't imagine a kiss so bad that it would affect the relationship...
This happened to me. My name isn't even that common. There was always this weird, unspoken, awkwardness over the relationship. We tried nicknames, but it had the same effect as the bleeping of vulgarities on TV -- it drew attention to the deliberate omission.
I dunno, that wasn't the worst part of the relationship, so I guess I can't really say whether I'd do it or not again. It was. . .odd.
Also, kissing? I don't really like kissing. It's awkward.
AlphaSnake
...and that, kids, was the first time I sucked a dick for crack
MrAngryFace said:
Hahaha, that's gold coming from someone like you.
And FYI: All of the girls I've ever hooked up with, including ex-gfs, have told me I'm a great kisser.
AlphaSnake
...and that, kids, was the first time I sucked a dick for crack
And to answer the topic at hand:
Suerte: Yes. Some people just need to be taught how to kiss. Others just need to adapt. I dated someone who was a lousy kisser at first and I corrected her once and told her what to do and not to do -- after that, it was great.
Suerte: Yes. Some people just need to be taught how to kiss. Others just need to adapt. I dated someone who was a lousy kisser at first and I corrected her once and told her what to do and not to do -- after that, it was great.
Ninja Scooter
Member
im pretty sure im a bad kisser, but i don't care. I let my dick do the talking. And im pretty sure im not so great at using that either.
AlphaSnake
...and that, kids, was the first time I sucked a dick for crack
HalfPastNoon said:
I...don't get it?
norinrad21
Banned
HalfPastNoon said:
:lol :lol :lol
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