I think it gets better as you keep playing, but I know how you felt and don't blame you for wanting to quit. My main gripes were the structure of the game and its battle system. I've grown accustomed to both after revising my expectations. There are still a few things that bother me immensely, but they're no longer annoying enough to make me stop playing like I'd originally contemplated doing.
I did have incentive, though (I was intrigued by the story and wanted to see every new area). It sounds like you're not enjoying anything at all, so it might be best to just put the game down if it doesn't start clicking. You shouldn't waste time forcing yourself to play something that you're not finding fun.
That said, there are some games that I originally had trouble getting into (this being a somewhat recent one) but was happy when I eventually did. The best example I can think of for me is Dragon Quest VIII. I started and restarted that game more times than I can remember but finally "got" it and look back on it quite fondly, even if it's not one of my favorite games or anything. I'm probably not even halfway through Xenoblade yet, but its world is already something I'll never forget, something I think is worth pushing through any nonsense to experience at least once.
I did have incentive, though (I was intrigued by the story and wanted to see every new area). It sounds like you're not enjoying anything at all, so it might be best to just put the game down if it doesn't start clicking. You shouldn't waste time forcing yourself to play something that you're not finding fun.
That said, there are some games that I originally had trouble getting into (this being a somewhat recent one) but was happy when I eventually did. The best example I can think of for me is Dragon Quest VIII. I started and restarted that game more times than I can remember but finally "got" it and look back on it quite fondly, even if it's not one of my favorite games or anything. I'm probably not even halfway through Xenoblade yet, but its world is already something I'll never forget, something I think is worth pushing through any nonsense to experience at least once.