Right, here goes the rant about my country, yey another one of those
Thing is all of my friends agree, ones in relationship or not, it's just how it is.
Out at night you shouldn't even approach, music is too loud, if they're with friends they don't wanna seem easy and are under pressure to act certain way, you can't talk or hear anything so you can't get to know each other, of course here no one dances so you can't dance with her. Only if you know her ahead or have mutual friends, at certain bars where music isn't as loud as in others (rare) and maybe you'll get to meet her. Then you have veeery high chance that she has a boyfriend and nothing's gonna come out of this.
So pretty much going out with friends and having fun should be the only goal because beside that it's pointless. I've seen so many guys waste so much money on women and not even say a word to them, or get a number/goodbye or anything.
You have a higher chance of meeting a girl on a street or at a mall and saying Hi than in the club/bar. The only viable option here seems to be through mutual friends or cousins, so you meet her like that, if it all goes well schedule a date, then date for months with a possibility of her dumping you at any point and then you get sex but you're pretty much in a relationship at that point
Of course you'll waste all the money on dates and shit because girls don't pay here of course.
That's how you find a girlfriend. Another option is if you have no standards you can go for uglies noo ne will touch, like my friend, and he will try to persude you to do the same so decide if you wanna do that, and when I say ugly, most of the time it's well not freaks of nature but ugly girls you wouldn't look at twice.
Now we come to "easier" girls, and those only fuck famous people or really rich ones. No, you can't just be rich because then they will use to just get the money spent on them and dump you, you gotta have some fame or be known around town for whatever, being a criminal work very good for this, and then they'll fuck you and their rating goes up among their friends.
And after all this the only sensible options is: paying for a prostitute. Not only will you save shitload of time but also shitload of money. It's just efficient and they can be very hot here. (fun story, one of those girls that had everything paid for her, talked to a guy for some time then just was like "k thx bye", later that night he went to that brothel and she was working there, true story).
This isn't me being buthurt or mad, this is just my rational analysis of situation and as I said, i shared this with quite a few friends recently of all walks of life (and ages) and everyone pretty much agrees. Only thing is most of them just give up and settle with finding a single girl after much trouble and never letting her go, even if they are annoyed, or not a best match but oh well.
So yeah, fun fun fun.
/rant
P.S. Fun topic on local forum about marrying a virgin, a lot of guys arguing for that, and even those that are like "girls should have some fun" too call girls that have 5 or 10 partners too much, 15 are biggest sluts etc.. lol
