I showed my wife this video and we had an interesting conversation.
The advertising, with women tacked on, we both felt was a bit unnecessarily and silly. The crazy part is, both of us being gamers, we both remember a LOT of those ads in magazines and even in some arcades.
I asked her what she thought about the actual "in-game" examples. While, again, we didn't think it was necessary in any many ways or games, she did have a similar thought as me to some of the situations in the games.
She said that she thinks a lot of the games do mirror real life. She doesn't think it should always be included in games (and of course knows it isn't), but she thinks that the settings of the games and the inclusion of strip clubs/call girls/hookers is as much a real thing as violence in a shooter.
(Her favorite shooters are Halo, CoD, and the Bioshock series)
I asked if she thought it was always included just for guys to see naked women? She says "Maybe, sometimes". She said she could see it being included just to make a guy want to play it. Again, though, she says she doesn't mind it IF it makes sense in the setting.
She watched me play Max Payne 3 and commented on the sex/strip club I went in. Her reaction wasn't in disgust that naked women were in the game, or that they were there to "exploit" women to sell the game to guys. She actually feels that it is sad "Seeing what look like sex slaves, and the reality of that most likely being something one would actually run across in a setting like this, in real life."
Anyway, throughout the video and our conversations we agreed on a lot of things. Some of it is outright bad/messed up (ads and scenes that aren't even necessary) and some of it seems to fit the gritty/dark/realistic setting of a situation or time period....or even the type of character one plays as or around.
In the end I asked if she was bothered at all by it "Not really" is her answer, so I don't think I could have conversation with my wife about how she feels about it negatively shedding light or using women.
She doesn't seem to be offended by it or really have a strong opinion. In fact, she seems to be more inclined to laugh at some of the scenes or make jokes about them (minus the sad situations some women in real life may go through to end up in the real life version of the examples).
Anyway, this wasn't a big long "get it all out" sort of session. Just a quickie..we may come back to it as I asked her to think about it...if she wants. (she may not think twice about it...we will see)
Edit** Oh, one thing I forgot. She brought up a real life situation that happened to me. I work around a lot of rehabilitation and construction in low-income areas from time to time. I have one job (it's actually closing out right now) that literally went right by "hooker hill" (according to locals). There were women of all types that worked the street and corner we were near. I talked to a couple of them, they would approach myself and the crews, and some of the conversations were certainly interesting. One particular girl was very attractive. I'd say about 5' 4", dark hair, very pretty face, probably 25-30 years old and most likely on some drugs...it looked like they were just starting to take their toll. The first couple times she talked to me she just asked me how I was. She asked if I was married (showed her my ring) and asked what I do when I don't work.
There was no talk of sex during the first few conversations....actually, none at all with me. I'm guessing she figured out, from my talking about my wife and kids, that I wasn't interested in more than a conversation.
It wasn't until a crew member asked her "Why not get a real job?" that I heard her say something you would expect out of one of these video game characters. Her response "A blowjob is better than no job". I wasn't sure if I should laugh or just feel horrible for her. It made me wonder if she REALLY felt that way, or if it was a line fed to her by someone else.
I don't know if this story is relevant...but I figured I'd share it. Situations like in these games, are they real?? Most certainly.
I guess whether they are always necessary is certainly up for debate. The sad truth though....it's not unrealistic...in more ways than one.