My god, this thread is hilarious. Destiny really is babby's first MMO for some people, it seems. Complaining about no matchmaking for a raid? This is the cancer killing MMO endgame.
Doing it with randoms is going to be completely impossible, especially right now when everyone is under-geared and under-leveled.
I'm not shocked people want everything handed to them on a silver platter, though. Seems to be pretty par for the course in terms in MMO player mindset nowadays. "Waaaahhhh, it's too hard. It takes too much time and dedication! I DON'T HAVE ANY FRIENDS"
There are plenty of resources for finding players who want to raid, whether it be on here (don't we have over a thousand people in the various GAF guilds?), Reddit, 4chan, or on the official forums. Or you could just invite random people in the Tower and get to know them - this worked great for me in the beta, and I met a lot of really cool people.
Grow the fuck up and get over it. Hard content should be hard, not dumbed down so any old idiot who lazed their way to 26 can complete it in one go.