Well, its true that PSN is coming back, more and more people seem to be able to log in, but fair enough about that. Maybe they could have waited a bit with posting that on Twitter if its still a widespread issue, i agree.
Its also true that Xbox Live did come up faster as you mention, but we dont know what work that is being done right now, both regarding Xbox Live and PSN. Are they simply rebooting the system or are they adding more security, trying to prevent it from happening "all the time"? They dont necessarily have to be under attack for things to take time to come back up, there could be other factors as well. Its speculations on both sides of course, because i dont know either, but i just dont think that its fair to call that for incompetence if we dont know. It would be nice if we could get a post mortem of what happened and what that has been done regarding PSN and Xbox Live, but i guess that we wont get that unfortunately :\