Kid share plays Destiny to stranger...

DirtyLarry

Member
A little investigating has revealed that KirmitTHEfrog is 38 years old. 38! Picking on kids at this age is about as sad as you can get.
You have got to be kidding me???
When I watched this the entire time I was thinking to myself the person that did this had to also be similar in age to the kid himself.
Instead they are 38 years old???????
What a truly, truly pathetic loser.
Yes, the kid should not have share played with a stranger, but the fact this person is even playing with 11 year olds, nevermind deleting their characters just because they can, is truly pathetic.

I actually think this opens up a much larger conversation. It would not be alright at all for a 38 year old to walk up to an 11 year old on the streets and start hanging out with them. I also believe it is not alright for the same thing to happen virtually.

Kirmit is a fucking low life creep. No other way to put it.
 
Please dont tell me im the only one who cant stop laughing hahahaha

im going to hell

I am coming with you. I thought the OP was hilarious. :D

The Deadpool guy sounds like Dwight from the office. One of those people who get drunk on the smallest amount of power you can imagine someone getting. Its also hilarious. :D
 

HildyB

Member
You can tell which posters are parents.

I was enjoying it as something just silly till I heard him cry, then thought of my baby boy, then I was sad.

I miss being heartless.
 

Avari

Member
Right... no.

There are much harsher lessons. He lost time and gained knowledge of the world. That's hardly devastating.

Read the whole post. Harshest in the circumstances - which is him playing a video game. Equating this to some larger stranger danger thing is a silly stretch. My kid the same age knows not to ride with a stranger but might not know exactly how shareplay works. I honestly didn't know shareplay worked like this.
 
This Kirmit guy is one sick puppy. https://www.bungie.net/en/Profile/254/5887030

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Holy fuck. This just got a whole lot creepier.
 

BasilZero

Member
There is no password protection like verifying with an email address before deletion?

I can see changes coming up for share play... Joy
 
Man, that was cold. I wonder if his friend Pizzapizza03 set him up after the kid brushed him off. Earlier in the video you see the kid telling Pizzapizza03 that he's busy streaming and to "go away." Maybe Pizza took offense and told those guys that his friend was being a dick and they thought it'd be fun to prank him like that.

I also wonder if it's within Bungie's ability to reinstate or at least rebuild his characters for him. But the fact that he's on a stream trying to show people how to cheat probably shuts down that possibility regardless.

edit: Okay, after seeing that link to Kirmit's comments, that person's just a jerk who gets off on this kind of stuff.
 
Glad the kid got screwed over. Cheaters never wins.

Disappointed in the kids lack of reaction though. Youtube videos of kids exploding in game rage are so much better.
I bet you most people who play destiny regardless of age will throw a fit if their character got deleted. Including you.
 

Mihos

Gold Member
Seems too many people are judging this as an adult, and not not from the perspective of an 11 year old. When a lesson needs to be taught you don't need to start with one of the harshest possible in the circumstances. The guy who did this was not doing to teach a lesson - he was doing it to bully and hurt a kid.

Everyone has this moment at some point in their life. It can be funny for us because we remember how dumb and naïve we were back then too. The difference is being older you have the perspective to know this is small stuff. I can tell you I laughed at it a little because I can relate to my own self and own kids at that age. Kind of like everyone who has owned a bike has fell off at some point. So you can laugh as a show of empathy, not a lack of it.

That isn't to say the Kermit dude isn't a sack of shit that shouldn't have half his face deleted, but if I was the parent of this kid, I would at least be 99% more certain he wouldn't do anything that colossally stupid again.... or if he did, I could at least take steps to mitigate any real or permanent damage.
 

diaspora

Member
There are an awful lot of tough love advocates in this thread.

I wonder how many of them just shrug their shoulders and say "hey, thanks for the life lesson" when something shitty happens to them.

When it's something as inconsequential as this? No problem. Lost 175HR skyrim save by not backing up my files before dicking with mods, lesson learned.

EDIT: Deadpool's story is amazing. If I got a call from the school telling me that my kid was playing minecraft on school computers I'd go fucking nuclear on the game saves
backing them up first tho
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dakun

Member
he just learned a valuable lesson. I'm not someone who'd laugh at this kids sadness.
Sure it was naive as hell to give control to a stranger even for an 11 year old. But at least it happened in an environment that doesn't put him in any danger or anything. Like i said, valuable lesson.
One other lesson he still has to learn is that losing a save game is nothing worth crying over.. but he'll realize when he's older.
 

Vov

Member
It'd be hilarious if Bungie gifted him another Plan C. Or maybe some No Backup Plans gauntlets. Or troll with a Stanger's rifle.
 

shone237

Unconfirmed Member
and that my son is how you learn what we call a life lesson.

now go outside and shovel the driveway before mom gets home.

dad here, can confirm. tough love and life lessons don't seem to be a huge part of this kids online life. Now they are.


that 38yr old guy still would catch a beatdown on principal if It was my kid.
 
When it's something as inconsequential as this? No problem. Lost 175HR skyrim save by not backing up my files before dicking with mods, lesson learned.

But this is a kid, and I'm assuming you are a bit older and can put this kind of loss into perspective.

You don't need to convince me that its not worth getting worked up over losing a game character. I just think the saying it would teach him a lesson, while true, is kind of unnecessary. Its not weakness to show the kid some sympathy, instead of trying to be wise and unsympathetic.
 
EDIT: I wonder if its actually the guy or an imposter

ever since bungie.net allowed users to change their names, it's been notorious for harboring impostor accounts. it's probably some regular capitalizing on the topic for a few cheap laughs. certainly wouldn't be the first time.
 
and that my son is how you learn what we call a life lesson.

now go outside and shovel the driveway before mom gets home.

dad here, can confirm. tough love and life lessons don't seem to be a huge part of this kids online life. Now they are.


that 38yr old guy still would catch a beatdown on principal if It was my kid.

Yep. The kid may have been wrong, but that asshole sure as fuck deserves a "life lesson" too. If he's for dishing out that "tough love", he should also be prepared to take some. I'm pretty sure quite a few of the people advocating it here never experienced any either.
 

diaspora

Member
But this is a kid, and I'm assuming you are a bit older and can put this kind of loss into perspective.

You don't need to convince me that its not worth getting worked up over losing a game character. I just think the saying it would teach him a lesson, while true, is kind of unnecessary. Its not weakness to show the kid some sympathy, instead of trying to be wise and unsympathetic.

Again, the kid doesn't deserve a whole lot or really any sympathy here. This would be a stupid thing to do with anyone, much less a total stranger- even at 11 he ought to know better.
 

kaiju

Member
Is OhMyPulse possibly a guy on the Bungie site who changed his name? The PSN ID should in the video is kirmitTheFrog. So isn't that the real one?

The real PSN ID is KirmitTHEfrog. The Bungie account I posted earlier appears to be an imposter. Why you'd want to change your name to the perpetrator idk. Some people are just dying for attention man. Sad as fuck.
 

vypek

Member
ever since bungie.net allowed users to change their names, it's been notorious for harboring impostor accounts. it's probably some regular capitalizing on the topic for a few cheap laughs. certainly wouldn't be the first time.

Ah, okay. I haven't used bungie.net in a while so I wasn't sure you could change the name. Since the guys page says "OhMyPulse" it seems like he is an impostor on that site. The real kirmitthefrog isn't actually posting

The real PSN ID is KirmitTHEfrog. The Bungie account I posted earlier appears to be an imposter. Why you'd want to change your name to the perpetrator idk. Some people are just dying for attention man. Sad as fuck.

Yep, just some attention-starved guy it seems.
 

NervousXtian

Thought Emoji Movie was good. Take that as you will.
That isn't the actual guy on the bungie site. Someone just trolling after changing their name.
 

Avari

Member
Everyone has this moment at some point in their life. It can be funny for us because we remember how dumb and naïve we were back then too. The difference is being older you have the perspective to know this is small stuff. I can tell you I laughed at it a little because I can relate to my own self and own kids at that age. Kind of like everyone who has owned a bike has fell off at some point. So you can laugh as a show of empathy, not a lack of it.

That isn't to say the Kermit dude isn't a sack of shit that shouldn't have half his face deleted, but if I was the parent of this kid, I would at least be 99% more certain he wouldn't do anything that colossally stupid again.... or if he did, I could at least take steps to mitigate any real or permanent damage.

Sadly I don't think most people who are laughing are doing so in commiseration with the kid. They just seem to find it funny he got hurt and can justify it by claiming he needed to learn a lesson. Almost everyting that kids worry about is small stuff from the perspective of an adult but that doesn't invalidate their feelings. Truth be told most of the things people debate all day here like metacritic ratings or resolution differences are no more important in the larger perspective.
 

Exr

Member
To all of you getting really fired up about the injustice of it all I think you should form a vigilante group, find Kermit and make him pay.
Huehuehue
 

TalonJH

Member
it seems like his mom responded in the comments



I feel bad for him. People are so quick to hop on the blame train.

Such awful parents letting their kid play online video games!! /s

The kid learned the same lesson he would of learned at 13 or any other age.

That's not how it works though. You have to personally hand control to a player. It's not like your party can just take turns without your consent.
 

R0ckman

Member
Wow some of the people in the Youtube comments. They are basically blaming the victims of this for being deceived by the trolls. Yeah, it could have been prevented, but the kid isn't in the moral wrong here, he was just unwise, the people who did the deleting are the obvious ones to point at. What is WRONG with people these days?
 

diaspora

Member
Sadly I don't think most people who are laughing are doing so in commiseration with the kid. They just seem to find it funny he got hurt and can justify it by claiming he needed to learn a lesson. Almost everyting that kids worry about is small stuff from the perspective of an adult but that doesn't invalidate their feelings. Truth be told most of the things people debate all day here like metacritic ratings or resolution differences are no more important in the larger perspective.

Not sure if anyone weeps over it though.
 
and that my son is how you learn what we call a life lesson.

now go outside and shovel the driveway before mom gets home.

dad here, can confirm. tough love and life lessons don't seem to be a huge part of this kids online life. Now they are.


that 38yr old guy still would catch a beatdown on principal if It was my kid.

A beatdown because your kid tried to cheat and got his characters deleted? Would you drive to Blizzard HQ and yell at them if they banned him in WoW for botting too?

Lol at some of the responses in this thread
 

SaganIsGOAT

Junior Member
Can someone do this to me? I'll film it then make a montage of how much my life improved after being taken off the Destiny crack
 

BamfMeat

Member
Again, the kid doesn't deserve a whole lot or really any sympathy here. This would be a stupid thing to do with anyone, much less a total stranger- even at 11 he ought to know better.

Just because the kid was in the wrong doesn't mean you can't sympathize with him. They're not conflicting thoughts/emotions. Someone being in the wrong doesn't negate their heartbreak - they'll know better next time, but at the initial outset, that had to be excruciating for him.

I first want to give him a hug, then when he's calmed down, have a very stern talking to him.

Then, you know, act like a parent and kind of pay attention to what he's actually doing after that. If I were to ever want/have kids, I'd know who they're friends were on their friends list at all times. At least at this age.
 

Skeletron

Member
I think this says something about the state of games today. When you get down to it, this kid is partly crying at the thought of playing Destiny. I know what it's like to lose a save but I can't imagine feeling that way about any of the Halo games. I played through the Halo CE numerous times, because it was fun. Maybe I'm just getting old. Back in my day, we played games without incentives, in the snow, uphill both ways.
 

diaspora

Member
Just because the kid was in the wrong doesn't mean you can't sympathize with him. They're not conflicting thoughts/emotions. Someone being in the wrong doesn't negate their heartbreak - they'll know better next time, but at the initial outset, that had to be excruciating for him.

I first want to give him a hug, then when he's calmed down, have a very stern talking to him.

Then, you know, act like a parent and kind of pay attention to what he's actually doing after that.

I don't sympathize with doing something so monumentally stupid other 11 year olds would have to stop and laugh at.
 

MikeyB

Member
A beatdown because your kid tried to cheat and got his characters deleted? Would you drive to Blizzard HQ and yell at them if they banned him in WoW for botting too?
Oh, Kermit worked for Bungie and character deletion for cheating was in the EULA and Terms of Service. I missed that.
 

zeorhymer

Member
I didn't realize that you have access to the starting screen when share play is on. I thought it only worked during gameplay. Glad I don't use it.
 
Again, the kid doesn't deserve a whole lot or really any sympathy here. This would be a stupid thing to do with anyone, much less a total stranger- even at 11 he ought to know better.
No, that's what 11 year olds do. They make stupid mistakes. That's how they learn. Jesus, some of you people are judgmental. Holy shit.
 

R0ckman

Member
I think this says something about the state of games today. When you get down to it, this kid is partly crying at the thought of playing Destiny. I know what it's like to lose a save but I can't imagine feeling that way about any of the Halo games. I played through the Halo CE numerous times, because it was fun. Maybe I'm just getting old. Back in my day, we played games without incentives, in the snow, uphill both ways.

My wife cried when she lost a few hours of work in FF7, a game she ALREADY beat during her childhood.
 

funkypie

Banned
this reminds me when I lent my friend super mario world and when I went to get it back off him, he told me to wait outside while he went upstairs and deleted all my saves.
 

Tigress

Member
That is beyond fucked. Can Sony/Bungie perma ban this Kermits dude, and can this kids characters be re-instated by Bungie?

Honestly, I really do think this is the proper punishment for Kirmitthefrog. I would think it would be in Sony's and Bungie's best interest cause you don't want to gain a reputation of people playing on you are just trolls and you have to constantly worry about them (especially Sony trying to promote stuff like Shareplay. Already I see a lot of people not just say, "Don't let strangers use shareplay" but outright say this is why they don't like Shareplay).

Yeah, the kid might have been trying to glitch. But I don't think glitching is that unfair, it's something anyone can do (it's not like he's trying to get an advantage others couldn't do themselves). I mean I don't really like abusing glitches that much unless they are small ones (partly due to the not worth the risk if the developer decides to punish those who abuse it and partly due to the fact that it is more rewarding to me to play the game for the rewards). But I feel if some one else is willing to take the risk they are only cheating themselves of feeling more accomplished if they just glitch instead. I don't see it as a huge crime/cheat (especially as anyone can take advantage of those glitches if they want and there is the risk that the glitch might bite you back if the developer decides to punish players for doing it).

It's not near as huge an a**holish thing to do as the guy who comes up and erases some one's whole character that they put a lot of time into. Especially by trying to entrap the kid by offering him a glitch (not even going after some one who already is exploiting a glitch but trying to get him to exploit a glitch). That is disproportionate to what the kid was trying to do. And people who think the a**hole was justified... learn how to realize the punishment should be proportionate to the crime. Some one glitching is not capitalizing on some one else's misfortune but just improve their own. The person erasing the character? He's trying to make some one else miserable solely for his own entertainment. And I could care less about entertainment gained by the misery of others.

Wow some of the people in the Youtube comments. They are basically blaming the victims of this for being deceived by the trolls. Yeah, it could have been prevented, but the kid isn't in the moral wrong here, he was just unwise, the people who did the deleting are the obvious ones to point at. What is WRONG with people these days?

People like to get on high horses that because you are stupid it is ok to take advantage of you. Or even that you were being stupid.

Worst thing is is that everyone does stupid stuff in their life. No one is immune to it, it's human nature. Hell, on bad days we do stupid stuff that we know better usually (just usually we get the luck of nothing happens from it. It's not that there are people who never do stupid things. It is that there are people who may not do them often and have the luck of when they do do something stupid nothing happens from it).

I really dislike this attitude that if you did something stupid, you deserve some one else taking advantage of it. How about it is never right to take advantage of some one even if they left an opening for you to do so? It seems a lot of people are in this mentality that that some how makes it more ok to take advantage of some one. It's the same mentality a lot of scam artists like to take (well, it's their own fault for falling to my tricks, I'm not the bad one here. They should have wised up).
 
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