This is one of the most patronizing posts I have ever read on GAF, bar none.
It needed to be said. The truth stings sometimes, I know.This is one of the most patronizing posts I have ever read on GAF, bar none.
It's called being educated, son.
I thought you were done in here.This is one of the most patronizing posts I have ever read on GAF, bar none.
I thought you were done in here.
Great post.I want to say the "acceptance" about her behavior is a completely misguided application of what people have been proposing around LGBT acceptance issues. It's why LGBT acceptance keeps coming up in every damn page of the thread despite there being dozens of posts going to great detail explaining why the two aren't related.
I've maintained for a while that LGBT acceptance is in this weird state of limbo, where a lot of people are claiming to be accepting of everyone no matter the gender or sexuality, but they're not really in touch with what this movement actually means. It's superficial acceptance at best and has become a bandwagon of sorts of a bunch of people who want to be on the right side of history so therefore they're accepting everything and anything.
This woman's behavior is hurtful, deceitful, dishonest, and offensive, but people are still tripping over themselves trying their hardest to think of reasons why we should accept her behavior ("I don't see what the big deal is, she's not doing any harm!!" even though she is), only because the arguments they're reading here against this woman's behavior "kind of" "sort of" look like the arguments against transgender people if you squint hard enough and kinda tilt your head a little. People arguing this are showcasing their own superficial understanding of why they claim to be pro-LGBT in the first place. Hell, we got people simultaneously claiming "this is just like transgender issues!" and "well maybe she's mentally ill!" in one argument, just throwing things against the wall and seeing what sticks, completely oblivious to the fact that by making that argument they're dangerously close to calling transgender people "mentally ill" and that "we shouldn't deride them for being mentally ill".
I would hope that people who are fiercely progressive at least know what they're being progressive about. A lot of people in this thread are conflating a bunch of different movements into one thinking they're helping but they're actually doing the exact opposite.
I dont agree with all of it and cant get how can you see it as patronizing. You on the other hand have taken an attitude of proposing the most outrageous theories and demanding that they prove them wrong, but only in a way you approve.This is one of the most patronizing posts I have ever read on GAF, bar none.
No, it's called assuming things you don't know about a person in an attempt to talk them down. How fucking dare you say that I have no knowledge about identity issues or being part of a minority group, when you have absolutely no knowledge about my personal situation whatsoever?
Ding ding ding.
On the bolded: This is because anti-transgender people use some really shitty arguments to tear down transgender identities.
No, it's called assuming things you don't know about a person in an attempt to talk them down. How fucking dare you say that I have no knowledge about identity issues or being part of a minority group, when you have absolutely no knowledge about my personal situation whatsoever?
I want to say the "acceptance" about her behavior is a completely misguided application of what people have been proposing around LGBT acceptance issues. It's why LGBT acceptance keeps coming up in every damn page of the thread despite there being dozens of posts going to great detail explaining why the two aren't related.
I've maintained for a while that LGBT acceptance is in this weird state of limbo, where a lot of people are claiming to be accepting of everyone no matter the gender or sexuality, but they're not really in touch with what this movement actually means. It's superficial acceptance at best and has become a bandwagon of sorts of a bunch of people who want to be on the right side of history so therefore they're accepting everything and anything.
This woman's behavior is hurtful, deceitful, dishonest, and offensive, but people are still tripping over themselves trying their hardest to think of reasons why we should accept her behavior ("I don't see what the big deal is, she's not doing any harm!!" even though she is), only because the arguments they're reading here against this woman's behavior "kind of" "sort of" look like the arguments against transgender people if you squint hard enough and kinda tilt your head a little. People arguing this are showcasing their own superficial understanding of why they claim to be pro-LGBT in the first place. Hell, we got people simultaneously claiming "this is just like transgender issues!" and "well maybe she's mentally ill!" in one argument, just throwing things against the wall and seeing what sticks, completely oblivious to the fact that by making that argument they're dangerously close to calling transgender people "mentally ill" and that "we shouldn't deride them for being mentally ill".
I would hope that people who are fiercely progressive at least know what they're being progressive about. A lot of people in this thread are conflating a bunch of different movements into one thinking they're helping but they're actually doing the exact opposite.
I want to say the "acceptance" about her behavior is a completely misguided application of what people have been proposing around LGBT acceptance issues. It's why LGBT acceptance keeps coming up in every damn page of the thread despite there being dozens of posts going to great detail explaining why the two aren't related.
I've maintained for a while that LGBT acceptance is in this weird state of limbo, where a lot of people are claiming to be accepting of everyone no matter the gender or sexuality, but they're not really in touch with what this movement actually means. It's superficial acceptance at best and has become a bandwagon of sorts of a bunch of people who want to be on the right side of history so therefore they're accepting everything and anything.
This woman's behavior is hurtful, deceitful, dishonest, and offensive, but people are still tripping over themselves trying their hardest to think of reasons why we should accept her behavior ("I don't see what the big deal is, she's not doing any harm!!" even though she is), only because the arguments they're reading here against this woman's behavior "kind of" "sort of" look like the arguments against transgender people if you squint hard enough and kinda tilt your head a little. People arguing this are showcasing their own superficial understanding of why they claim to be pro-LGBT in the first place. Hell, we got people simultaneously claiming "this is just like transgender issues!" and "well maybe she's mentally ill!" in one argument, just throwing things against the wall and seeing what sticks, completely oblivious to the fact that by making that argument they're dangerously close to calling transgender people "mentally ill" and that "we shouldn't deride them for being mentally ill".
I would hope that people who are fiercely progressive at least know what they're being progressive about. A lot of people in this thread are conflating a bunch of different movements into one thinking they're helping but they're actually doing the exact opposite.
I want to say the "acceptance" about her behavior is a completely misguided application of what people have been proposing around LGBT acceptance issues. It's why LGBT acceptance keeps coming up in every damn page of the thread despite there being dozens of posts going to great detail explaining why the two aren't related.
I've maintained for a while that LGBT acceptance is in this weird state of limbo, where a lot of people are claiming to be accepting of everyone no matter the gender or sexuality, but they're not really in touch with what this movement actually means. It's superficial acceptance at best and has become a bandwagon of sorts of a bunch of people who want to be on the right side of history so therefore they're accepting everything and anything.
This woman's behavior is hurtful, deceitful, dishonest, and offensive, but people are still tripping over themselves trying their hardest to think of reasons why we should accept her behavior ("I don't see what the big deal is, she's not doing any harm!!" even though she is), only because the arguments they're reading here against this woman's behavior "kind of" "sort of" look like the arguments against transgender people if you squint hard enough and kinda tilt your head a little. People arguing this are showcasing their own superficial understanding of why they claim to be pro-LGBT in the first place. Hell, we got people simultaneously claiming "this is just like transgender issues!" and "well maybe she's mentally ill!" in one argument, just throwing things against the wall and seeing what sticks, completely oblivious to the fact that by making that argument they're dangerously close to calling transgender people "mentally ill" and that "we shouldn't deride them for being mentally ill".
I would hope that people who are fiercely progressive at least know what they're being progressive about. A lot of people in this thread are conflating a bunch of different movements into one thinking they're helping but they're actually doing the exact opposite.
I don't know about the "abused" one but the others are either flat out reality or highly likely.So if those arguments are terrible arguements for transgender identities. If those same exact arguments are used here, are they suddenly great, poignant, well thought out points?
I've seen in this thread
- She wasn't born that way (Many Caucasians if not all have some black dna in them)
- It was a choice
- Abused
- Just lashing out/rebelling against her parents/family
- Mentally ill
Take a breath and come back to this later man. No use getting worked up enough to catch a ban.
If you don't like the article suggest one instead of bitching. Noone else could be bothered putting more than the 1 minute effort of google scanning I did.
Bluntly, fuck you.
Bluntly, fuck you.
You know when I made those arguments I was demonstrating how people use those argument to dismiss transgender people right? And the abuse theory was me showing you how proposing something absurd and definitive like "transracial" actually gets in the way of making a closer examination to this situation because you might be pampering someone that needs help?So if those arguments are terrible arguements for transgender identities. If those same exact arguments are used here, are they suddenly great, poignant, well thought out points?
I've seen in this thread
- She wasn't born that way (Many Caucasians if not all have some black dna in them)
- It was a choice
- Abused
- Just lashing out/rebelling against her parents/family
- Mentally ill
Give it 10 years. The way people are so PC now its a given.Can't believe people are trying to make Transracial/Transethnic a thing, FOH with that bullshit. Then she had the nerve to talk down to actual Black women who didn't live up to her standard of Blackness.
Please don't do this.Give it 10 years. The way people are so PC now its a given.
I heard about this this morning on the Breakfast Club and a completely agree with Charlemagne. I grew up with enough "wiggers" in Atlanta that identified as black so I have no problem with that, but the fact she lied about being black is what we should call her out on.
Guys keep it civil or I fear the thread might get locked![]()
Give it 10 years. The way people are so PC now its a given.
Give it 10 years. The way people are so PC now its a given.
Please don't do this.
Do you really care what he has to say about this? Dude most likely played the contrarian for the sake of contrary.Is there a link to what Charlemagne said about this?
Can't believe people are trying to make Transracial/Transethnic a thing, FOH with that bullshit.
You didn't even go to the second page. No such thing as a good a excuse to post white supremacist garbage
http://newsone.com/906885/naacp-chapter-has-first-white-president/
Has a mini profile and everything.
It is really ridiculous how people actually compare this and otherkin to transgender communities. These phenomenons are spiritual with no scientific evidence to back up their claims, while being transgender has actual science behind it to explain it and how to deal with it. These stupid arguments are seriously insulting to the transgender community and is probably holding back progress because of it.
Fam, I ain't even mad. Just look at this:
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Her tan and hair game is on fleek
It is really ridiculous how people actually compare this and otherkin to transgender communities. These phenomenons are spiritual with no scientific evidence to back up their claims, while being transgender has actual science behind it to explain it and how to deal with it. These stupid arguments are seriously insulting to the transgender community and is probably holding back progress because of it.
My sentiments as well.She's obviously done good things and has fought for civil rights/justice in cities. I'll give her dap for that. Obviously pretending to be black is wack but at the same time...isn't it somewhat endearing that someone hated being white so much that they pretended to be black? Usually it's the other way around, historically, so perhaps we can look at Rachel and see progress.
Not to mention creates moments were trans people are accused of having transition privilege which is something I got thrown at me (in person to my face) by someone who wanted to be a dragon