Every time you come in the thread, all you do is complain that you're unlucky, it's not fair, it sucks, etc, etc, so on and so forth. Nothing's gonna change if you don't try. You always say you don't know what to do, but don't bother to even try to follow any advice that's given to you, and keep on complaining.
You don't try to do anything (from what I see from your posts), you ignore advice and often just argue the point of said advice, and you seem to just be looking for pity and for the perfect girl to fall into your lap. Do you really think that's what's happened to those that have found SOs here? Do you even bother to read the thread? Most of the posters here go through constant hardships and relationship failures before finding something lasting. Is that "lucky"? No, it's fucking hard work (the vast majority of the time), and you're essentially blowing off what others have worked towards saying it's just luck.
It doesn't work like that. You have to at least put some effort into putting yourself out there and stop being so goddamn negative all the time. it's not friggin' society, stop blaming other forces. Try to better yourself in anyway you can. It's hard, hella hard, I know, but any little step you take really makes a difference.
Everyone's different, not every single piece of advice is going to work for you. That's fine. Not every date you have, or interaction you have with a lady isn't going to go well either. That's what dating is about. It's scary, it can make you miserable, but it's something you typically have to do to find a significant other. Deal with it, try to do it, and stop constantly whining. Or get a mail-order bride.
