Man I am so sorry that you have never seen or been part of a church that's actually doing what it's supposed to. To give you some examples of what he church I work at does, we provide free counseling, we run a food pantry, we offer benevolence (help folks pay for bills they can't afford, medical expenses they need help with, etc), we do all kinds of drives for school supplies, coats, blankets, we've helped with adoptions, serve the homeless, teach free English to speakers of other languages classes, we have various cancer and elderly ministries, we offer our building as teen center to any teenager regardless of creed or walk of life, etc.
Churches do a lot man. We are not even close to the most active church in our area. In many low income areas especially, the church provides services that aren't available to folks anywhere else.
Yeah many churches (from all religions) don't live this out as they should, but many many more do.
I'm not a religious person, but was raised Christian - the churches I've attended then were the complete opposite of what you said. Yours is truly a charity, not just a church (in my experience).
I went to mostly baptist churches and sure, they might do a food drive for people once in a while, but it was very seldom they actually did any real "good" for the community. It was mostly just talking about what you should and shouldn't do.
My brother-in-law's church is like that too. Not only do they not help anyone but their own, but they actively shun people who are not their religion. He is a Lutheran Missouri-synod? I think? An example of their "benevolence" - I'm gay, got married almost 2 years ago - he came to our reception just to tell us that I will never be his brother-in-law and he will treat me as if I were one of his sons' friends. He said that he shouldn't even be there at the reception but he just HAD to tell us that.
My experiences with churches aren't great I guess
