So a little update from last weeks situation if you read about it.
I had a few days off from work (Wed-Fri), I wanted to try to make up for the troubles I've caused that past weekend so I drove up after work for a couple days. The first day was still a little rocky, hesitant I guess to try working on the relationship again but we made it through. We went out to the movies and saw Dope (it was good btw), got some food and fell asleep again once we got back.
The next day went pretty good IMO. I waited for her to get out of work before going to play some tennis and laid in the hammock for a little while outside. Being able to talk and relax together made it all worth it. it give me some time to reflect on everything that has been happening and I was just glad that what's happening is still going on.
Later in the night we headed over to her friends house for a party she was throwing. It turned from a few friends to a full house quickly but it was still going good. Me and her were sitting on the back deck with her girl friend and a couple other guys smoking, talking about local kid problems (I'm not from their city, nor do I live there) so I didn't have much input but I tried to put myself out there more and interact. We stayed there for about a good hour before everybody headed down in to the yard to sit by the fire. The group we were sitting with at the table (myself, the gf, her friend and another friend) all left at the same time because they either had to work early in the morning or just wasn't feeling the party much. Another good night.
Friday night we planned on leaving due to me having to work Saturday morning at 7am. No big deal though, both of us were ok with that. I slept most of the morning and early afternoon until she got out of work and then it was the start of our day. She took a little nap after getting out and then our day started. It was her friends birthday that day and her friend from the other night was throwing another party, and so were two other people. I wanted to go to all of them and so did she. We went over to her girl friends house before the night, smoked again and just sat around talking, watching Pirates of the Caribbean. Everything was going good, I was interacting, laughing and just enjoying myself. I should always give them a chance before anything.
Later on we went and got dinner before heading over to her friends to tell her happy birthday and chill for a little bit before heading out for the night. again there was talk about people I didn't know so I stayed quiet but tried to have input where I could. it all is still going good. fast forward to about 10pm and were on our way to one of the parties after going through a text fiasco about if the party was still happening or not (gf and her friend. we weren't arguing) but it was. finally around 1030 we're headed to the house party. it was good seeing her best friend, she's funny and has always been nice toward me. she knew about the things that happened between me and the girlfriend so she gave a sudden hint while dancing to a song and telling me to watch myself. I respect that. we stayed for a little bit but then the house got crowded with suddenly 20+ came all within 5 minutes of each other and she didn't know many of them anyway so we left. heading to the next party to meet up with her friend but it turned out to be a dud. no biggie, we were only going to make an appearance anyway before heading back to my house so I could sleep for work.
Finally around 1145 we got on the road to my house so I could get some sleep with 3 days good under our belts. today we're going to my grandmas birthday party and then I think I'm going to suggest going back to her place depending on how I feel or just crash here for the night. my ex texted me but I never responded, I don't know what she wanted.
I had a few days off from work (Wed-Fri), I wanted to try to make up for the troubles I've caused that past weekend so I drove up after work for a couple days. The first day was still a little rocky, hesitant I guess to try working on the relationship again but we made it through. We went out to the movies and saw Dope (it was good btw), got some food and fell asleep again once we got back.
The next day went pretty good IMO. I waited for her to get out of work before going to play some tennis and laid in the hammock for a little while outside. Being able to talk and relax together made it all worth it. it give me some time to reflect on everything that has been happening and I was just glad that what's happening is still going on.
Later in the night we headed over to her friends house for a party she was throwing. It turned from a few friends to a full house quickly but it was still going good. Me and her were sitting on the back deck with her girl friend and a couple other guys smoking, talking about local kid problems (I'm not from their city, nor do I live there) so I didn't have much input but I tried to put myself out there more and interact. We stayed there for about a good hour before everybody headed down in to the yard to sit by the fire. The group we were sitting with at the table (myself, the gf, her friend and another friend) all left at the same time because they either had to work early in the morning or just wasn't feeling the party much. Another good night.
Friday night we planned on leaving due to me having to work Saturday morning at 7am. No big deal though, both of us were ok with that. I slept most of the morning and early afternoon until she got out of work and then it was the start of our day. She took a little nap after getting out and then our day started. It was her friends birthday that day and her friend from the other night was throwing another party, and so were two other people. I wanted to go to all of them and so did she. We went over to her girl friends house before the night, smoked again and just sat around talking, watching Pirates of the Caribbean. Everything was going good, I was interacting, laughing and just enjoying myself. I should always give them a chance before anything.
Later on we went and got dinner before heading over to her friends to tell her happy birthday and chill for a little bit before heading out for the night. again there was talk about people I didn't know so I stayed quiet but tried to have input where I could. it all is still going good. fast forward to about 10pm and were on our way to one of the parties after going through a text fiasco about if the party was still happening or not (gf and her friend. we weren't arguing) but it was. finally around 1030 we're headed to the house party. it was good seeing her best friend, she's funny and has always been nice toward me. she knew about the things that happened between me and the girlfriend so she gave a sudden hint while dancing to a song and telling me to watch myself. I respect that. we stayed for a little bit but then the house got crowded with suddenly 20+ came all within 5 minutes of each other and she didn't know many of them anyway so we left. heading to the next party to meet up with her friend but it turned out to be a dud. no biggie, we were only going to make an appearance anyway before heading back to my house so I could sleep for work.
Finally around 1145 we got on the road to my house so I could get some sleep with 3 days good under our belts. today we're going to my grandmas birthday party and then I think I'm going to suggest going back to her place depending on how I feel or just crash here for the night. my ex texted me but I never responded, I don't know what she wanted.
