Maybe I'm posting on gaf during my breaks at work but when at home I have to take care of my wife and kids and you know ... something called real life ? Thus I can't invest 100+ hours on a single game without missing out on the 5 great games I wanted to play since the release of MGSV ? Because 100+ hours would take me like 5 months and no game can hold my interest for so long.
Firstly, I don't think any game has an obligation to "respect the player's time". Some games are designed for short bursts of activity, some are not, so you should probably start moving towards the former sorts of games if you can't make or invest the time into the longer ones (I'm not telling you what to do, just saying

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Not all games should have to cater for everyone. For me, that kind of thinking is a creative dead end. It's like making music or art specifically so everyone likes it, invariably it leads to diluted, unoriginal experiences. We wouldn't have Dark Souls or Arma3, for instance, if all games were designed with everyone in mind.
Secondly:
I totally understand that you don't have the time to sink into this. I have a wife, kid, job, band(s), friends etc. I'm very busy a lot of the time. It is hard to find the time to sit down and play any more. I don't have the money to be buying shit loads of games either.
I don't expect the game to respect my time, it doesn't have to. The onus is on me whether I think it is worth it to sink the time into it. If you can't tell, I've already decided that TPP will keep my interest for a very long time, so I'm willing to invest whatever time I can find into it. If the mission-based design is anything like PW, it will lend itself pretty well to dip in and play. If I can find an hour or half-hour, I'll be able to pop into a mission and maybe even complete it. That's good enough for me and my mindset. Maybe I might even get a day indoors to myself where I can chuck a few more hours and dig deeper. That's good enough too. They've also implemented microtransactions so that people like yourself can get through the game quicker rather than waste time waiting for struts to build (I can't afford that personally but I welcome the addition).
If that don't work for you, then it's probably not worth getting the game. It's as simple as that.