They are not off. Like most slang, there are multiple definitions of these words depending on how they are used and who is using them. If you went on 4chan and started asking about "traps," you'd end up with a very different result than what the woman in question was talking about.
I'm shocked that there is so much discussion here about her use of colloquial speech. I would think it shouldn't be a new idea to anyone. Why aren't we discussing whether this story was even interesting enough to be shared in the first place? In my opinion, it's really not, but it seems like the rest of the nation disagrees (it's Game of Thrones all over again).